I was browsing ads just now and believe it or not found a provider who lives in my apartment complex. We've even spoken once or twice when passing by each other.

Respect her personal life. I doubt she would enjoy seeing a client when she...

I'd book the appointment thru normal channels.

I contacted a provider once, I mentioned that we knew each other before we met, she was ok with the situation,  she mentioned not to say anything to mutual friends, which, of course, I never would. Just a bit more info, we did enjoy ourselves and it was never uncomfortable for either one of us. I contacted her later, she was involved seriously with someone and wasn't in the business any longer. Eventually she ends up on FB, a friend of my wife. No one will ever know our secret.

(Pardon the choice of word.)

But don't get the boundaries fucked up. Happy O's to you whatever you choose to do.

Knowing she was a hooker and most likely available, unless she was married or had a live in BF, I'd probably chat her up the next time I saw her to see if it led anywhere. During the conversation I might or might not let her know I knew what she did, maybe something along the lines of "does the name "insert hooker name" mean anything to you?"

I never been in this situation. This can go either direction when you think about it. She might be ok or she might not want to see you and feel uncomfortable.. definitely think on this long and hard before contacting her.   If I was in your shoes I wouldn't just from the risk factor alone being in the same apartment complex might just ruin things.

I have a question for you, though.  If you had not recognized her, is she someone you would have wanted to see?

This shouldn't be a problem as long as you keep it professional and stay within the boundaries. This has happened to me on several occasions.  I call the lady and get the address to find out that she only lives about two blocks from me and she is hosting in her personal residence.  I go ahead with the date and never tell her that I live so close.  Everything is fine until one day I am driving past her and she saw me and ask for a ride.Lol  I have been seeing her for several years with no problems.  Another time I contacted another lady to realize that she was only 1 mile away.  I told this lady that I lived in her area and she didn't have a problem with.  I continue to see both of them when I want to.  Just don't be a creep or stalker and keep it professional and there shouldn't be any problems unless she brings the drama to you.Lol

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i went to M&G and i met a guy there who i met a year earlier on a professional networking event in Boston...i was at the networking event with my sister and I was hitting on him, he was too shy but gave me his business card and i added him to Linkedin...i was excited to see him, but he reacted very weird...he was like oh i wanted to be with you since the minute i saw you blah blah and then he asked me to delete me from linkedin as soon as i get home because he wants to separate hobby from business...it was a bit offensive to me, because our paths already crossed in a real life...things happen you know...he also knows my real name and even has my sister on linkedin as well...and it is not like he is some governor, he is just one man operation IT consultant...i deleted him from LinkenIn but decided not to see him as a client....

My neighbor who became & currently my all time ATF lived 4 houses away from my apt... Granted we never spoke before we met but he said he's seen me in the neighborhood..... It's been 3years & he's been the most loyalist client!!! Very confident for but outcall & incall......

Yeah!  It's really naughty and convenient when you can go and give it really good to your neighbors.Lol  You know, tuck them in!  I love it.

nut job capital of the world. the rules are different here. she'd likely be suspicious of me and i of her. lol...

... do a study on the private life of a provider.  

(Gasp!) makes coffee every morning!!

Some here have been somewhat successful navigating blurred lines, but they admit when they mention OTC relationships that they have a lot less to lose than most of us. I don't have a SO, so I could care less about that aspect, but to do anything which may draw unecessary attention or expose myself professionally might be unwise.

You sound lame as hell. You want him to stalk the provider so that you can find out that she's a normal human being... You need to read a book or watch tv but leave the providers alone!!!

I recognized a provider on the street from her ads/website.  I will usually pay her some kind of compliment to allow her the opportunity to chat me up, but will not let on that I know she is a provider.  That's for her to bring up if she thinks I might be customer material.

Subjects of an experiment deserve informed consent

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That's partly why I won't go to Meet & Greets - not because of meeting a girl I know, but for meeting a business associate.  Not everyone will be cool with it (mutually assured destruction type thing) and it could be used against someone in business or personal (that's also why I stopped with SB's, they are only quiet while they get an allowance).  A provider once outed one of my top clients as a regular of her's and I'm not sure to this day if he knows.  

with you ... lol
Btw ... How much if I stop in town.  
I'm not one who keeps his mouth shut ...
But no dick please .... not leaving any
opening for the mongers on this board.