Guys what would you consider a nice thought full gift with out going over board  from any one of your ladies? Please don’t say cologne my men are not the cologne type. Any suggestion would be great.

A gift no guy will return!  

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I tend to give books to my good clients when we meet for the first time or for a special date.  I usually have a fair amount of time to get to know them prior to our dates and it is always a great converstaion starter.

Never cologne... that's what wives give and they would certainly notice a new fragrance.

xxooxx,
Sara

I am hard to buy for, even for those who know me best, as in relatives, Etc. Fuzzy's suggestion is super but, of course, all of you ladies are not into that particular activity. A session off the clock or nicely discounted, maybe scheduled during your slow hours would be great.

Yeah but I might lol

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R_Bear11 hit the nail right on the head.

I actually got three very sweet gifts just this week.

One provider, who is nowhere near me and I've never seen(hope you see this!!), who read one of my posts sent me the sexiest sweeties PM's. My first and I told her I was no longer a PM vigin..lol

Another provider sent me a sweet email telling me how much she enjoyed our time together last week (even though she had already sent an earlier one) and couldn't wait to see me again this coming week.

A third I got today, which was a very naughty text telling me she was thinking of me along with a few other details I won't bore you with.

These gifts were the best as they didn't cost any money but they gave me the gift of thier time it took them to do it!!

A borders or Barnes and Noble gift card if he likes to read books.

A few of the ladies I've seen, occasionally surprise me with an email for no other reason than just to say "Hi", or to share a funny story with me. To me, that's a gift far better than anything they could buy. I just love getting little notes from beautiful women.

I think it would be great to give him a gift certificate from his favorite store. Or maybe a grooming certifate at a salon

If the former, I say surprise with a friend for a double on a future rendezvous.

If the latter, I say some really cool snacks to share in between rounds.  At the top of my list are brownies, cheesecake, pumpkin pie, pecan pie, chocolate mousse... the list goes on and on.

There's a problem with any kind of take home item if the guy has an SO waiting.

The extra time getting to chat with you and enjoy your company is the real gift.

especially for guys who have a lot of body hair!!!

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- a book that has made an impact on her life.
- a short poem that mentions something she remembers about me.
- a picture that hasn't appeared on her website.
- maybe a little pocket calendar book so I can be reminded whenever I use it to plan ahead for some special time.

Not for one of mine he is Fabulously fashionable and very well groomed and I do love that about him so for one of my gents this is a good on.

The best gift I ever got was dinner. It was after a first date and the lady (asian) invited me to stay and provided a three course dinner - so what if one of the dishes was leftover. The food was great, the company was great and, needless to say, I saw her again.

MH50

Hmmm - I must be seeing the wrong ladies (*hint hint hiint*) '

because I rarely receive presents from them.

However, truth be told, I don't really lack for anything, and I much more enjoy giving gifts.

And, the ladies I enjoy treat me exceptionally well and are very generous with themselves and their time. What better gift could one ask for?

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I must say that the three items you describe sure sound like business development to me.  I have to wonder for the benefit of who these actions were?  

Fuzzy Phallus is strange character, but I’d have to say his suggestion would be number one on my list.  Totally unrealistic expectation of course.  Perhaps realistic would be some off-the-clock time after, maybe just 15 minutes to go share a cup of coffee at a Starbucks or something.  As far as material things, whoever suggested a gift of a favorite book had a good idea.

I have had a few ladies who have sent a PM or an e-mail just to say "hi, how are you?"  

There was one lady who asked me to meet her for drinks (I happened to be visiting her city on business) just to talk since she was having "ex problems".  We ended up enjoying a very nice dinner after the cocktail hour.