A question for the fine gentlemen of TER:

I usually see ladies that are younger than me and on occasion they may ask me for an opinion on an item or my perspective of something.  In a way I find it flattering that they would ask.

I'm flattered if someone asks for input or advice.  Just ask me after playtime, not in the middle of things.  

I feel flattered, and it makes me feel closer to her. If anything, it probably enhances the experience by giving the relationship more depth.

Thank goodness they're old enough to know to just listen, say I'm smart, and get their dick sucked. LOL. I had a 70 year old guy who would come to see me, and if I yack yacked too much, he would get on his knees and put his dick in my face. LOL

Recently there's been a lot of "Daddy" calling in porn, it is very distracting, especially if the girl is pouring it on.  

Sweetie, did you realize 97.9% of my OTC comes from giving younger hookers like yourself business/money advice?

It scared the shit out of me lol! I was like "What the---- ok I'll deal with it, but I don't like it" type feeling.

all my ladies love their Daddy..

That should help him reframe the idea.

When someone tells me that, I tend to take that as a personal challenge.  I patiently wait until the next time we're together, turn the Southern accent up to an 11  add a little purrrrr and use it in the third person...

The man in charge, the patriarch.  As a child, didn't you hear Daddy sneak off with Mommy?  And they called eaxh other that, right?

Yeah, years ago (as a civvie), I was seeing a man who was maybe 20 years older.  The first time we were together, he started using baby talk!!! No kidding!!! I faked sick, or probably not so much faking, and got out of bed.  

It wouldn't be a boner killer unless she actually looked like a daughter of mine - which is pretty unlikely because my favorite type is very different from my own kids.

Well, it had to be either a father figure, or a mommy figure. Personally, I don't like either. I'm simply looking for someone who loves sex too. But there is a lady who yells 'Daddy' in the heat of passion. Obviously, a huge turn off for me. But since she wildly slams her arms against the walls when she cums, that qualifies as sex loving, so I can get past all the 'Daddies'.

but I suppose I could put my mind in the gutter for a while and live the dream

What the heck does he expect? He should be lucky you are attracted at all...lol

That may depend on the age difference between you and the other person.

and they had almost a dozen kids together, stayed together until he died and she never remarried all the way to her death many years later.

I happen to like being called daddy.  Or papi.  I think it's hot.  It's never been an incestuous thing - it's more of a power exchange thing.

And why not? I keep in great shape so I am not about to slum it with some fat guy or some relic. Seriously, I can't get remotely turned on if I do not have the visuals.

I don't think you're shallow at all GaGambler.  But then you don't come across as judgmental to this reader either.  I don't like that hbyst poster, as he/she seems to honestly have issues with the P4P world and the real world.  Being shallow has nothing to do with how people interact.  Most people are interested in what they are, but most don't judge what others do as boisterously (and negatively) as a poster like hbyst.

If the age difference is 25 years or so, I usually will toss it into a more casual conversation to gauge their reaction.

Just short term though.  I wouldn't want to settle down with a guy way older though because he's be knocking on heavens door before our kids finishing high school

about his age that could be an instant boner Killer

pick your brain

Ok good to know.  I think both of my clients I asked advice from have actual feelings for me and that's why they don't want me to think of them as wise old men.

Besides of course the fact that I am a shallow pig who loves young hard bodies.

the "for" is not that important.

I have never been asked for advice, but it certainly wouldn't turn me off.  I can talk about anything and everything with providers, it's one of the reasons I like this hobby so much.  On a side note, one poster mentioned he doesn't see any providers that look like his daughters.  Now imagine that I set a date with a provider who blurs her photos, and when I get there, I find that her face looks like my daughter's...now THAT would freak the shit out of me.

Beyond the physical attraction the mental aspects are just as special. To me it means there is a total connection. I give my opinion and she can do what she wants with that info

to it hahaha.  

If a father figure relates to any fine young providers that have daddy issues - that's exacadactly what this OG is looking for.  lol.

And I have no desire to do so, ever again. (By age-appropriate, I mean that we were in the same decade...although, we were on opposite ends of it. Me at the beginning, he at the end.)

Also...YUM.

My fav says the same thing. She's just below 30 but will only date men 45 and up (or so), and none who were never married, but would date a married man (bizarre). Has zero interest in her male cohorts, cute/young/hot guys. Which I sorta don't get, but am nonjudgmental about.