Girls and guys, what do you think of the mutual shower?

I just prefer not to get my hair wet, particularly if I have plans afterwards.

The standard K-Girl date starts with a shower.  Said shower generally includes a rim job.  Hence the importance of the shower.  It's not something I need but you might like it.

I gotta say one of the many things that I loved from a Kgirl encounter were those awesome showers together.

There are a few simple reasons why some providers don't shower with their clients

They suck your dick in the shower after they suck your dick while undressing you.  Then they suck your dick in bed, suck your dick in the clean-up shower, and suck your dick while they dress you.

If you ever visit LA I promise that we can both have droopy wet hair and running zombie-like makeup in the shower together.... and of course I would never insert a soapy finger in your hoo-ha.  

"They spend a long time getting their hair just right and their makeup on. Much longer then us guys."
So tell us, big guy, how long does it take you to get your hair "just right" and put your makeup on?"
Sorry, but you left yourself soooooooo open to that one.

I wear hardly any make up and my hair is all mine even it is only on my head.  

Did you leave the shower cap on during the session?  I wouldn't be surprised as you've said before that you're a germaphobe.  The shower cap would've helped protect against over spray.

I will even go so far as to direct the shower head/nozzle directly on you, and I will stand to the side and wait for you to have your fill. I just ask for one final rinse before we depart the shower stall for the boudoir.

love a mutual shower at the start of a session.  For me, there is no better ice breaker when seeing someone for the first time.  A ten minute shower starts a session better than a 20 minute "chat" about boring stuff while drinking her cheap wine.  

I am in Phoenix today and the next few days visiting family. My Uber from the airport had a temp of 121 showing on his car. Maybe this fall I will visit LA for a long weekend. I am sure we can find a way to meet.

I really enjoy that, it's really fun soaping each other in the afterglow of an athletic 90 minutes. And then she makes sure that I've dressed correctly (straightens a collar) and sees me to the door. Quite intimate.

The young provider I'm seeing loves to takes Showers with me when we play. She soaps my back and I soap hers. Her Shower BJ is awesome.

jacuzzi tub for two is more my speed.I have done showers before with clients I usually just put my hair up in a top knot.
My hair does get a little wet but nothing a hotel blow dryer can't solve.lol
But some ladies might have other plans after an appt so getting in the shower and getting hair wet or make-up having to be redone might be something they are not willing to do.And yes one time I did get in the shower with a gent wearing a shower cap on (sorry not sorry lol)..let's just say that shower cap on my head was the LAST thing he was thinking about.

You can't do it yourself because you're still wearing the handcuffs.  

...That attempt at being cool was pathetic, even for you.

It's one of my favorite parts of a tantric massage, soaking with the gal in a big tub while we massage each others' feet and nether regions get to know one another.

Hahaha, nah no cuffs with this one. I need my hands with her.

Showering with a guest is not fun for me. It's slippery, uncomfortable, and ruins my hair and makeup.  

loose, wrinkly folds of excess skin.  Wouldn't you, BigKomodoDragon?

For many ladies I think. We spend a long time styling hair and putting on makeup to greet you at the door looking like goddesses.  If I have to shower again at the beginning of a booking that means a) my hair will get soaked and my makeup will run everywhere so I'll look frightening for you, and b) I have to redo my hair and makeup all over again for the next booking xx

Yes , there are a few concerns for a Provider when showering with a client.
Dripping make-up , wet hair extensions , water hogging , soap's not a lubricant etc.....
But one thing for sure. Your boobs will never be cleaner !

I do enjoy a mutual shower with my lady friend before or after a session.  I find it does make the session hotter when you have some shower foreplay with a HJ or BBBJ, then continue the fun in the bedroom.  And yes, water is not a lubricant so bring some good lube and condoms with you if you can't wait to get to the bed.  But if not, there's always doggy style with her bent over the sink and making use of the mirrors.  

Pretty much by definition once the first old white man uses a term, it's no longer "hip" (also a VERY outdated term)

The major problem has been most clients who ask, ask spontaneously at that start or finish of a session. We have to prepare for a mutual shower ahead of time. I will not wear makeup before hand, I'll put my hair up in a ponytail etc. Then I'll also know that I'll need extra time afterwards to get myself back up to "work ready".

...One of my best early experiences I ever had with a provider was where we opened up with us showering together. It was on the menu, I was nervous and it was a great icebreaker. We were intimate yet playful. We were less self conscious. It was a great way to start a date.

Something about water! Whether its in the Shower or the Pool, I just love it. Especially the Hot Tub. But a Sexy Shower is wonderful. Nothing like getting all my personal parts washed with a little extra attention, and I LOVE getting my hair washed, is that weird?  
Used to love the Table Shower at a decent Asian MP, have not had the pleasure of a Sexy Shower with a provider to this point. Hell, would probably tip extra!!

...and my only real fetish is wet hair. I don't know what it is, but there's something about the wet that makes the rest wild. So light or no makeup on a beautiful woman with wet hair gets me going more than practically everything else.  

I love the mutual showers with K-girls so much that I have requested mutual showers with a few of my Non-Asian ATF's, who have been happy to participate! Taking it one step further, I have proposed shower sex with both an Asian and non-Asian ATF. Amazingly, both times the provider had never had sex in the shower before,and the session proved to be the hottest ever with the provider (was I lied to?) I only made that move after many sessions, but I think it was mutually enjoyed! Anyone else go for "Shower sex"?

Super into it, a lot of guys miss...things and it's a great way to build up the excitement in a fun easy intimate way.....and its easy not to get your hair too wet. just me tho!

2005 is the MOST RECENT definition of the term "Oh, no you dit'n."  But if you scroll down you'll see the first definition was from 2003.  You are, however, quite correct about how unhip the word "hip" is.  It's really a beatnik term from the '50s.  So when BigHumanShar-Pei jumped on my post for using a decades-newer term he not only made a fool of himself, he showed his age.

but you're both "old white guys" IMHO.  and the moment either of you uses a term, it immediately becomes "ungroovy" and I am sure Maynard Krebs would agree. Come to think of it, I bet you are older than Maynard. lol

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I personally love showering with a lady.  Especially in the middle of an appointment.  For whatever reason, I cannot recall ever requesting it in advance (I'm not sure why).  And I've never requested it during a session (because I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable), but I've been asked several times (and I always obliged) and many times it "just happened."  

I know what "circa" means, and it does NOT mean 2003.  Admit it, you didn't scroll down to see if there were other definitions.  Or don't, and be a chump.
Also, it's hilarious for someone who admits to being nearly 60 refer to anyone else as old.

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Grandpa Gambler is way north of 60 as he was punching out people in Casinos in the 70s (and the Casino employees were thanking him for it).

Why else would I have phrased it "circa 2005"? I would have just said "2005". Do you think I just added "circa" for the fun of it?  

Let's just say you are straining credulity.  As for your using circa, you were just trying to impress that pompous ass BigHumanShar-Pei.
Just stop.  You look silly.

Yes, the hair is a big deal to me also.

usually i like to wash my balls before i bend my dick..

gotten a blow job from a Kgtrl?

I find it really attractive to shower together then make each other dirty over and over again

Ok, i give what is a K-Girl??

Korean provider that works from an apartment incall and uses a booker to schedule her appointments.  Many Thai, Japanese and Chinese girls use the same high-volume business model. For more info, there is a Kgirl discussion board in TER.

Asian (usually korean, hence k-girl) women working for k-girl bookers / "apartment AMPs". It really refers to any of the women working in this system, but they're usually immigrants and not Asian-American.  
It can be a difficult world to get into as the bookers are notoriously suspicious of "outsider" clients, but the women/agencies have a cult following due to their good looks, reliable and extensive menu, and low prices relative to the area around them.

My favorite lady used to fire up the shower when we were done. Or I  should say thought we were done. With her great ass and body all slippery she usually got anothet pop out of me. Gawd I  miss her.

When he was harassed by LE for driving his Jaguar while Asian, in his attempt to solicit street walkers, from poor working class neighborhoods back  in the 80's , I guess that took place on his way back from the casin, to the oil ranch.

Description of the Kgirl business from a provider.  Most providers promote the fiction that they are all sex slaves in an attempt to deter customers from seeing them.  Kudos to you for your honesty. If I was on the East Coast, I would give you some business.

Anyone can check the source, and decide for themselves.

Yep - and he's so much more!!!

"K scene."  That's what happens when you don't go to high school.   Now those here that didn't know you, know.  

If you get one of the hand-held shower wands, you can control where the water goes better.  Hundreds of Asian providers do it every day.  When you're alone and want to wash you hair, you can just clip the shower head in place up above.  

Surely it's worth a visit to the east coast for a chance to  see one of us rare, hard- to-find elite classy upscale  companions that isn't a trafficked sex slave??

I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of the ladies on this site have not graduated high school.

You just keep putting your ignorance on display. You can't help yourself, can you?

You didn't even understand the sarcastic post the lady you sucked up to, posted.

If I've just straightened my hair (which takes a little over 2 hours - I have very curly and thick hair) then you've got to be fucking with me. Unless you're down with me showering with you in a headscarf, shower cap, and a time limit? Not the cutest date, haha.

As a straightforward escort I felt really uncomfortable / self-conscious about it -

You're taking a shower to get clean and take care of your business, but not if you're doing it as part of a sexy service, in that case it's just an erotic experience. Funny story about my only mutual shower experience, it's not what I was expecting. I went to an asian massage parlour ISO nuru massage. I had done some online research beforehand and learned that they used a special kind of nuru gel that has roughly about the same texture as KY jelly. When I got there, I noticed that they only offered 20 mins of nuru massage in an hour long session and I was wondering why that was. I wanted nuru for the entire hour so I left and tried someplace else. Second massage parlour, same thing, it was getting late, and I saw where it looked like a common practice, so I surrendered. Much to my surprise, the little asian chick took me to the showers and put me to lie down on the shower bed, then she used the foam from the bar soap to lather me up, and that's what she used for the bodyslide, not the nuru gel. You mean to tell me that a business like that can't afford to buy a bottle of nuru gel (it only costs about $20), or is it that they save it for their regulars and favorites? I thought that not only was that a cheap thing to do, but that it was a dirty, dishonest B&S stunt for the kind of money I was spending. And then on top of all that, they're pretending like they don't speak any English, but I would have seen just how much English they can speak if the money had come up short. If I had known I would have brought my own nuru gel with me and insisted that she did the bodyslide in the massage booth and not on some cold, damp shower bed. But hey, at least in the end I still got to smash, right? First asian babe ever! I've pretty much just written that one off to experience. I haven't been back to a massage parlour since, but next time I think I'll have the nuru massage in a CDP instead. At least I speak some amount of Spanish so that when the hot little mamacita is trying to be all like, "no comprende pappi!" I'll just be like, "Chupar mi polla, puta!"

Booking more than 30 minutes.

And how much was that at an Asian massage parlor?  They are notoriously Inexpensive compared to nuru by a CMT.  

Like 45 minutes? Might bust my budget.

it only takes me about 2 hours to get all glammed up, would hate to ruin in the shower,  
especially if I have plans afterwards lol
However if you are my last and you don't mind seeing my bare naked face, then Im all game!

they have these cool things called "shower caps".
I keep a bag of disposable ones in my drawer.

First date probably not

I've had many providers grab a shower after the fun was over so they are not afraid of water.