A favorite of mine that I had seen regularly for a couple of years never showed up leaving me waiting in my hotel room.

A few days later she emailed me.  She had been in a car accident, and her cell phone went flying and got destroyed.  She was in the hospital for several days until she could get home and contact me with her computer.

It was on the up and up.  The next time I saw her she had bruises all over her thigh.

In fact there was a second situation where a gal had to go into the hospital for a chronic condition.

Life happens.

and realized that you would buy it hook, line and sinker.
She stiffed you and saw you the next day. You paid her. That's not a make up date.

Don't worry. She will probably be calling you to Western union her bail in advance the next time she is "arrested".

And not only has she probably used that one before (and it's a good one btw. tough to dispute) but now that it's been posted there's no doubt that it will be noted by some and used in the future.

Just remember boys, you heard it here first.

and the poor little fellas were frozen solid?

Are you saying that your original post is about something that happened 5 phucking years ago?!?!?

OMG I hope I read that wrong and nobody is that phucking stupid or such a time waster as to bring that bullshit up now just to start a thread.

WTF is happening to this board?!?

Oops, am I not supposed to say that under my "real" name?

Too fucking late, I allowed the post, so I suppose I should allow any posts asking the OP to join us in the year 2011 as well.

Anybody want to hear about my first P4P experience back in 1974? didn't think so. lol

you Manginas…take your viagra… Up & rise!!!

What are you? Omnipotent? Omniscient? Obtuse?
Well hell no!

It's a good thing you allowed the post so everyone can make their own determination.

So yes, since you bring up a valid point, we maybe DO want to know. What was it like in '74?
I'm guessing the bush was HUGE.

Feeling frustrated about being on the receiving end of a NCNS, I began fume quietly and to tell myself that there can never be an excuse for the NC part of an NCNS - after all it takes but a minute to make a quick call or send a quick text, even if all it says it cannot make it.....will explain later.  Even if its a death in the family or the flu or whatever.....c'mon 60 seconds is always possible.  

Then, I remembered that one of my best ever hobby dates occurred with a provider who had NCNS's the night before.....and in fact the reason was TOTALLY legit!  I was at the Four Seasons and she was on her way by car......everything was going smoothly.....and then she simply didn't arrive.....tick, tock,tick, tock ...the minutes rolled by  (you all know that feeling!).....I called and got no answer, twice.....and after an hour.....gave up......really "frustrated".  

The next day at noon she called and explained.  She had been pulled over for speeding on her way to my hotel....had some unpaid previous violation.....was hauled off to jail overnight...and was allowed make one call only.  She used her one call to contact her ex-husband, an attorney, who bailed her out the next morning!   Totally legit excuse.  So NCNS can be legit.  I'm just sayin'

By the way.....she totally knocked my socks off the next day!!  "make up" dates can wipe out any frustration from an NCNS!

Peace

Giorgio

Dude.  They're actors, sure.  But that doesn't mean they always lie.

At the risk of starting another stupid Hirogen thread, I think I have him figured out:  He fell for an older provider, got burned, and now has an axe to grind.

Time to move on with life, Hiro.  Not all women are her.

How dare you abuse my littul Hirogina!  I tawt him to alwayz tell the truth, an he duz!  He's only so nasty becuz uv his tiny weenie.  It's barely bigger then a teenie clit!  Yew try livin' with a unit that smawl, it'll have yew on tha rag full time!  Kut him sum slack or I'll send yew a pair ev my used panties!  Open that package and it'll kill yore en-tire fambly!

Visibility was poor because it was very Froggy.



Thank you
2011 = 28

Well, the next day we met 2:00 PM and she left at midnight.  In the middle, we went out to dinner and drinks, she drove us in her car, and we had an absolute blast, I never laughed so hard, she was a riot!.

In my original booking, I had requested and budgeted for a 2 hour date.....and she was perfectly content to accept that donation when leaving (and told me so long in advance of leaving).  I did give her more but nothing close to a ten hour date rate.  

Moreover, this occurred about 5 years ago I have never had such a good "hobby date" since....it was a perfect 10 and then some.

I am happy to fall hook line and sinker for that kind of an excuse when followed by that kind of date any time.  Blissfully happy in my non-cynicism.

Peace

Giorgio

Of course it does.  Especially considering the large fraction of these women who are single moms.

I was "stood up" by a regular lady friend who's mother had a heart attack.  Several ladies whose kids were inconsiderate enough to get sick at the wrong time--2 year olds do that.  Broken down car.

Then I have also be left waiting by a lady who had "food poisoning" on two consecutive appointments and then stopped answering my e-mails.

More telling than the reason given is how they act afterwards.

Of course some guys will never give a lady the benefit of the doubt, just as some ladies will never give it to the man.

Lemme tell ya, my bush is HUGE!  Itz so big it not only covers my en-tyre Gina but...it's a wrap around! If'n ya know wut I mean!  Yep!  I got hair on my back.  Lil' Hirogina usta sleep in it to stay warm in our trailer when thu propane ran out...Wut a sadd storie he iz, so sho sum cumpashun!

And she shaves her legs? What's the point?

Looks like her cat is resting on her kitty.....

but I was only fifteen at the time.

and no her bush wasn't really that big, at least I don't remember it that way. Keep in mind that my first P4P was in Tijuana, and I had drank an entire bottle of Mescal. My how times have changed. Now I still do most of my mongering south of the border, but even further south, and I still drink like a fish. hmmm, maybe things haven't changed that much after all. lol

I have had to cancel...  at the time when I should have been arriving but a sudden downpour flooded the highway.  A lot of cars pulled off onto the shoulder.  The cars that were "moving" were stop & go.  If I'd kept going I might have had 15 minutes & she had someplace to be & could not extend.  
We rescheduled.  We had a great time.

There could be circumstances when something happens.  I would leave a message for her...  mostly to express my concern for her well being.  I don't book with people I don't feel at least friendly with.  
She should get back to me.  Unless she's hospitalized, I'd expect a reply within a couple of days...  
I have reserved judgement on a case by case basis after that...  The cancelling party owes an appology...   a token of making up for it (maybe extra time) is appreciated.  
skb

I take a vacation from here because I was doing funner stuff and when I sign on today I see more of the SOS, but YOU, you're a beacon of light!  Right on momma!

Translated version:

I dun took mes sum vacatun tyme to hook up with a hott bayb and shee dun took mi mynd off'en this heer bord fur a whilze.  Then I dun got a hinkerin' ta se what were the buz so I fund me my pazwurd and gut bak on.  Most be the sames xcep'n youz posts which aye fond most write inspirin.  You the sharpest craon inn da bokz, momma!

just wondering, has anyone been tempted to return the favor on a provider who pulled a NCNS?

fourteen at the time, but you beat me to the punch. Pretty good memory huh! Just one year off. lol