Some gentlemen like to arrive to a super dolled up little minx with wine/ refreshments in hand, while some may prefer a girl- next- door yoga type with little makeup.  

and blow my load. That is my expectation . First time and any time.

except that I'm very partial to a good deep pressure massage, but I also like to see a gal who is edgy sometimes, especially with lots of excellent body ink.  (They tend to be very high price, so my budget is a concern there.)

Do you like to be offered refreshments, snacks, drinks?

I agree with everything Mr. Fisher said and the snacks etc. are an added touch but do not think ever went back because of them. That being said have brought a bottle of wine to share and that did enhance the experience .
Service , looks, respect, and full time the trump cards!!!

Reading some of the reviews here often makes me think I somehow got my hands on the script of Pretty Woman 2.0. A lot of these tricks are so bereft  of female convo and desperate for romance LMAO. Pay. Fuck. Leave. Save the roses and red wine for The Bachelor or any movie on Lifetime network.

My preference is to make our time together as natural as possible.  The ladies I choose are already attractive and sexy enough.  No make-up is necessary.  No snacks/refreshments are necessary for me either as my sole focus is our time together.  I normally feast on all of the lady's delicious attributes.

I scarcely care what sort of clothes you are wearing because I want to see you completely naked as soon as possible.

It's a very nice gesture, but I won't go back to that hotel if say, the plumbing doesn't work.

I didn't see any of my preferences listed in your OP as I would vote for naked from the git go.

I won't see a new escort unless they have positive reviews and they do what I want done in my sessions.  

That pimps don’t usually provide wine for the customers of the girls they manage, and the girls themselves get so little, if any, of the money you pay that they can’t afford it.  

On a FIRST date, but my regulars quickly adapt when they learn what I prefer. For me, I like to be welcomed by a girl wearing nothing but high heels and lipstick.   Most first times, sexy lingerie will do.

All your hookers had vintage wine and a charcuterie platter waiting for you at their incall? My, aren't we fancy LMAO.

I met a woman whose house was such a mess it ruined everything.  The smell of smoke and cats filled the room.  I also don't care for cheap motels.  Other than that, I don't have many expectations for the 1st date. Just be yourself.

not all of them.  You are more likely to get that if you book multiple hours.  I'd be willing to bet you're a 30 or 60 minutes guy.   Agency Kgirls don't have time to serve wine at an incall.  That's why I often date them on the outside, only I pay for the wine, but not the sex.  

Not all indies go to that trouble, and usually not for customers that book only one hour.  Its more common when they are booking two-three hours, or more.  The second part of my point is that I bet YOU could afford wine if you wanted to give an upscale customer that experience.  The girls he sees are giving most of their money to their pimp, so they couldn't afford to do it even if they wanted to.  

I never let my guard down I expect to rip off , go to jail,  get beaten up, get a new STD. But careful and hope to get my dick wet.

Fess up! You know he sounds like a total dick.

I don't need snacks or wine or mood music or some contrived outfit.  I prefer her to feel comfortable, sexy and eager to please me.  The best sex I've had has always been with women who are genuinely enjoying sex with me - or at least appear so.  I don't mind bringing wine if she requests it. Offering me a bottle of cool water is a nice courtesy. Fresh towels, hot water, clean sheets, and a private/safe space should be table stakes for any session.  
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IMO, providers are not sex dolls needing me to dress and pose them. They are humans and if they enjoy pleasing me and being pleased by me, I'll have a great and memorable time.  Yes, there are certain specific looks and services I want, and some of them are deal breakers if not offered. But that's what (unbiased) reviews are for.  I don't mind reasonable screening, and I don't mind exchanging fresh test results if that makes everyone more comfortable.  
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Bottom line: I want her to be ready and anxious to fuck my brains out. Outfits, music, beverages, etc. should be whatever makes her comfortable in her work space.  
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that say "she was wearing the outfit I requested from one of her photos."  Why not just tell her, "I whack off to one of your photos?"  Lol

Damn, why the name calling?  

Yea, maybe reading comprehension isn't strong.

Lol. Nail on the head.

To everyone who answered seriously and honestly.

I would like her to be comfortable. Be real, tell me a little about herself. I feel that best dates are when everyone is relaxed .
Snacks are not needed and neither is wine, A bottle of water is nice.  If she dresses up, I like when she models her dress or nightie, and teases me a little. Lets just have fun !  

In the words of the GEICO commercial  "it's what you do" lol

you're both naked, and you don't have any pockets, do you have to keep you tape measure in your ass, or what?

I had a provider show up at my hotel room in Vegas once, early 2000s,  wearing a full length fur coat, maybe imitation - but that’s not the point, with nothing on underneath except black thigh high stockings, panties and corset.  

Aren't you worried you might cause them to have a relapse too?  

spend more time in a men's locker room, and you will start to understand.  Much of it just towel snapping among friends, but there is also some hazing of the new guys, and continual belittlement of the truly stupid who shouldn't be in a men's locker room in the first place.