Survey says so far that 45% ask "afterwards" . Did you cum ?
Guy's & Gal's ......Do you really ask one another this question ? I would think that actions during .. would be enough to not have to ask that question.
Maybe this question is not for providers and hobbyiest ?? Maybe it is for the wife or hubby ??
Help me understand this one
Thx,Layla

Every time I have date with gent, I am always passinate and making love like bf and gfthey wear each other out and multi cums.....-its really different from simply having sex,  plus thats how I keep in shape, hehe. and....to make sure my gent wont have sex with other ladies very soon.
Yeah, I especially like to cum when doggy. heheh
Happy cumming!

It just seems very easy for me to tell both with civies and with providers weather it's happened or not. The question with my current fav would more likely be "how many was that!". As far as a woman asking me, I've been told more than once that it's fairly obvious...

...i was in college, and had sex with my last college-aged guy. if you don't know, then either it didn't happen, or it wasn't worth mentioning. besides, whether or not a girl orgasms is NO indication of her pleasure and satisfaction, something that most guys past college age know and understand.

He's usually too busy ducking flailing limbs and holding his nose while he blows to reinflate his head after I forgot to not squeeze his head off :o )~

Both are unfair questions, because an honest answer that does not meet the asker's expectations is upsetting.  So, guys, if you don't like being asked the "do I look fat" question, don't ask the "did you come" question.  

Once, after a particularly enjoyable meal at the Y, I asked a certain aussie lady (since retired) if she was "OK".  She misinterpreted my question and replied, "Oh yeah, dintcha feel it?"  Nice memory.  I'm so sorry she gave it up.

Well, it's better than: Is it in? eom

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Cause many girls try and fake it, and its very obvious...

Hell half of ter reviews say it....
Not mine though *********Preen*********

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(did you cum? did you cum GOOD?)

Though I don't generalize this to be true all the time, of every man and women, I'm under the impression that stimulation without orgasm can be very pleasurable for a woman, but for a man it's often just frustrating. So us guys tend to put a lot of value on the CUM.

So a guy who asks you, "did you cum?" MAY be just looking to feed his ego ("am I the best stud you've ever had?"). on the other hand, he MAY be genuinely interested in your pleasure - maybe he should be asking "did I do it right? did I do a good job?"

Tom and Jerry stick their thumb in their mouth and hold their noses to pop their head back into shape after it got flattened (usually by a heavy iron)? Geeeeeze, what kinda cartoons did you watch when you were a kid??

I have only asked that question a few times in my 5 years of this hobby.  All women are not squirters or women that have extremely noticable climaxes.  Also, the other answer choices were lame.  I'm not going to ask her to wipe her chin.

These were such poor questions that if you were going to answer at all this was probably the best choice!

It was like hitting a pothole.  I never asked again.  

A couple of years ago, I did ask a lady how many times she came.  It was like hitting a pothole as well, but at least the trip was over.

Clarence you have a good point there . "did i do my job right " is a nice question ...but do you really think a provder is going to be honest with you ? No one wants to hurt anyones feelings or ego for that matter . I am all for "giving" . It really does not matter to me if I CUM or not ... Although it is always a PLUS As long as I am doing my job by making sure you CUM then I am happy with how the time went .
I honestly have never had anyone in a meeting ask me  if I cum .
I believe actions speak louder than words and if a lady does enjoy what you are doing it is going to surely show and if you are doing something she does not like  she will certainly let you know . Well at least I will .
-Layla

My words might be
See you again
or
That was great
The other responses are a little degrading to the lady from my point of view.
B

Hi everyone...nice to meet you. I have read posts on many happy camper squirters but I have to admit I really don't like it. I know it's not pee but still embarrasses me. I've heard that vitamin D may assist in stopping it. Any advice???