I just had a session with a very hot provider, a solid 8 and for a lot of people maybe a 9.  She did not have any reviews so I TOFTT.  She had a lot of rules so the meeting was lukewarm.  Thinking about it for me the biggest problem was the lack of kissing even more than cbj.  For me kissing makes a session more real.  What does the board think about kissing?

or about BBBJ and DATY. I am there to pay her, get off and get out.

kissing is essential!!

I don't want to be there.

It's only as important as to why you are seeing her. Good research will tell you whether she's giving you deep throat or treating you like you have "coodies." Don't make the mistake of paying 3 or 4 large and finding out, she'd rather kiss a snake before swapping spit with you.

me too

Kissing is so personal, that I can see how some gals just take it off the menu.

As long as they can keep me happy in other ways, I'm fine with that; but there is no question that a good kisser will certainly bump up my reviews a point or so.

I have seen one lady that didn't kiss. I knew that ahead of time, so I didn't even try. She was a nice gal and did plenty of other wonderful things. It was a bit odd, but not a problem since I knew.

If I was was expecting "gfe" and there was no mention of a no-kissing boundary, I would be annoyed. It is mostly a matter of expectation and reality matching.

It's one of my deal-breakers.  It gets me aroused.  No kissing or no BBBJ, no visit from me.

Swim

I know GFE is the most over used term in the hobby but this is the one point where I will not change my mind.  GFE includes kissing.  Or perhaps I am mistaken and girls don't kiss there boy friends any more.
Doc

Wassup with that candy ass shit?

maybe once you figure out how to fuck properly, you'll get to grow into a real man too.

It depends on their breath or if they are sick. I know this provider that told me once she caught a bad strep throat from kissing a guy that said he was sick the week before. I dont think kissing should be all that important. Its the way they treat you and their attitude.

"Usually I get kissed before I get Fucked".

I've only 'endured' one meeting without kissing. It was my WORST encounter. Nuff said.


Sorry John; i stole your word.

but it's pretty important.

Certainly one of the things that differentiates an 8 from a 9.

There's nothing like being with a woman who knows how to kiss, who REALLY knows how to get both of us aroused with some mutual exploration of that particular erogenous zone.

Kissing doesn't always have to be erotic, either. I had a long appointment recently with a lady and we were lying together late at night kind of dozing. When I was getting up to leave, she leaned over and kissed me on the arm. Totally sweet and one of the reasons I'll go back.

Man, I LOVE kissing!

That's because they only use one half of their brain, and thus think they can only kiss and cuddle, or fuck. So sorry you got so short-changed.

in my book its an absolute requirement.if you are not willing to partake in kissing, its a huge turn off not to mention a very cold session, i like heat and passion.the more kissing the more intense and therefore the better the ending.im not searching or looking for a cold handshake?
most ladies ive met who do not offer kissing,i find they are not into there work therefore not my cup of tea.

just anhonest obversvation.

I am much more interested in a top notch bbbj and some energetic banging.

I would see a provider on a no kiss basis if she had absolutely mad skills otherwise. In DC there is a great provider who will not kiss but has fantastic skills. I'd see her more often except her location and schedule are inconvenient. Makes me warm just thinking about what she does do.... and how well she does it.

I may just have to take a day off

I was told that imitation is the most sincere form of flattery, but I'm not really feeling it.

Oh well, since I'm here, I'll go on record as liking to kiss the woman that I'm fucking.  In full disclosure, if I had to pick just one, I'd probably give up the kiss.

The REAL little phil.  

I don't need DFK, but I do like to have an unrushed time of kissing that has some real passion behind it. Passionate kissing can't be faked.

If it was a choice of a BJ or passionate kissing, give me the kissing.

I thought you and MP were getting married?? Are you sayin that you could take or leave kissing him?? LOL  And your review would be BETTER if he DID kiss??? LMAO

When I first discovered the hobby, I didn't think kissing was that important until I experienced my first true GFE provider.

...and that's when everything changed ...LOL.  It's become the biggest turn-on for me.  So now, "No Kissing = No Date!"

this is my opening statement on the phone and yes I will not see anyone who says that's not for them.

Kissing heats things up and says hello in a language everyone understands. It relaxes most and cures all those nervous feelings you get meeting a new friend. A kiss can make time stand still and fill bountiful amounts of time with passion.

I greet with a kiss and our lips touch till we say good-bye with a kiss.

Kisses Haley

For me it's very important.  It's the catalyst from which all else flows.  Without it the session is not nearly as satisfying.

Mmmmmmm!!!

it gets me revved up for more and starts my motor.

Now of course I've done meetings where the gent didn't want to, but I find it akward and leaves a lot to be desired.  But I realize that some gentleman feel that if they aren't kissing, they aren't making an emotional connection, therefore they aren't really cheating.  

I much prefer making a connection to having a clinical meeting!  

Kissing is preferred!

From the great responses in favor of kissing, (IMHO) Haley said it best. For me the heat comes from a provider that "kisses like they want to be there."

The definition of cheating just keeps getting better and better.  First a BJ was not cheating, don't believe me ask Bill Clinton, now apparently we can have full on sex but it is only cheating if we kiss you.  YAHOOO! (aw shit I'm still single doesn't help)
Doc

Absolutely necessary.

you can't have GFE without kissing.

... what goes on once the door closes in a session between ANY man and provider?

Just asking.

I mean, really -- does whatever *I* may do in any way diminish YOUR experience?

But every once in awhile I'll give a gal who doesn't kiss a call. But I think the OP said "lotsa of rules, cbj and no kissing" Combined, all three and you gotta a deal breaker.

You got it HOT stuff.
Well said

And as I always say DFK is for both sets of lips.



Thank You
2010 = 28

When the kissing is good, it's great. Otherwise, the only kissing involves my dick or her pussy!

Kissing shows passion and spice. I dont see how someone would not do it

I'm not into choking her with my tongue or me with hers...  Light French will do...  but gotta have something.  If I ended up without it, I just don't see myself coming back.
skb

Half of the posts on other websites claim GFE and are more like "hurry up, please". Then I wonder why I don't wind up with half of those men who want GFE and not BS.

A.Price would be more than happy to meet your demands.

and going back to using his vast number of tired, boring, totally witless, bag of prefixes and suffixes for his original nimrod handle!

Here's the KISS you've been looking for, although I'm sure you've enjoyed it many times!

I agree with most of the fellas here. Kissing adds that extra "something" that we are all searching for. One of the first ladies I met is a very high rated provider who is absolutely gorgeous IMHO, didn't kiss me.  I felt we connected well, and she even white listed me, but as much as her personality and body rocks, I have my doubts about calling her again after experiencing others in her town, and it all centers around kissing...

I love kissing.  Nothing like sweet, soft, tender kisses that build up bigger, harder, deeper as the excitement and passion grows.

Kissing a man who really knows how to kiss is the bee's knees!!  

Hugs, Belinda

Once again you rear (if ya know what I mean) your ugly head to followme.
you are A pathetic, insignificant little person with no life other than to troll the boards
putting up your vile, disgusting, posts all over.
You do not hurt my feelings or insult me as you are not good enough to do that. In fact you are not good at much of anything.
Since it seems you do not like what I post, one would think you would just ignore all my posts, however you are clearly not smart enough to do that.
You are also not smart enough to realize that the vast majority on theses boards find you deplorable and want no part of you. However as I said above you are a pathetic little troll and will no doubt continue to sit there playing with your little self trolling and spewing your bile all over the boards.


You’re Welcome
2010 = 28


BTW nice pic of you and your brother

"I know you are, but what am I"  You definitely are the "Pee Wee Herman" of the boards!  Just a little puke who sits in movie theaters, watching cheap porn, and pulling his pud with a pair of tweezers.  BTW  Your response is the same as you give everyone who calls you out for being the pathetic little spirochete that you are.  Is that a preprogramed macro that mommy wrote for you?  "Just hit F10 if anyone is ever mean to you hunnie"  LMAO
You are the Mangina to end all Manginas!  For that you should be proud!  You have throngs of "nether men" who worship your every word, and your signature, silly number puzzles!  The Alpha and Omega of Manginaism!  ROTFLMAO!

BTW, to answer the last of your typically immature responses...I don't have a brother!

Agreed!  DFK is a must, without, session is a dud.  I enjoy nothing better than a lengthy session with my ATF - I could spend hours just engaged in passionate kissing.

with the exception of you, every post seemed to fit the typical man and women response. your picture itself didn't bother me but why you would use it to offend another member is a loss to me.

Your picture really didn't fit the mold here since no one is looking for male to male play.

Kisses Haley

and I don't need to believe its one for me to get off. Its a business transactions, nothing more!

mmmmmmmmmmmm I love to kiss! Deep, passionate, it is the quickest way to make me wet!