I'm a native New Yorker with a huge potty mouth...I admit it! during my dates I obviously curb my need to cuss like a sailor and I present myself as a "lady"..well depending on the guy that is.  

As long as you don't scream "Fudge me!"

I'm practically the exact opposite, I very rarely use "foul language" even when I'm just hanging with friends. I'm a southern belle through and through lol. But a soft, breathy "fuck... that feels so good" isn't uncommon in the heat of the moment for me. I don't think it's ever been an issue for my companion, no matter the age, or gender.

Matter of fact, a good tirade of "fuck me harder" during a session gets me going.  I'm guessing the clients who take issue with it, are the same guys who don't like ink.

You just need to learn a few curses from ye Olde days.  

I love potty mouths!

My opinion is that regardless of the age of the gentleman, the answer has more to do with context thank anything else.  

I'm an "older gentleman", and when a woman screams "FUCK!!!" In the moment, I take it as a sign she's enjoying herself.  

Gents in my age bracket generally do not care for folks who use curse words to express themselves.
-a sign of poor self-control
-poor upbringing
-bad vocabulary
-rude and insulting to your client
etc, etc

I'm 50...for me the dirtier the talk the better...it goes both ways...

7th decade-country today bears no resemblance to that I grew up in.

I don't really know about older men, but I love verbal stimulation.  (It is like the old French joke about the two upper class Brits making love. He asks: "Did I just hurt you darling?"; She answers "No why dear" and he says, "Because I thought you moved a bit back there and even made a sound")  
I think the only kind of "older" men who would not be excited by what you call your  "potty mouth" are those who have lost their hearing.

Feeling sorry for me because I'm such a derelict?

I might as well have! He actually stopped, looked at me in the eyes and said, "what?"

I'm over sixty and enjoy the verbal part as long as it's not overdone

No Problem, let her fly !

But I'd say 60s to 80? Anything above 80 and I'm assuming ya'll are just happy to hear anything 👴

No, I do not feel sorry for you; nor do I consider you a derelict.
You might be surprised at all the "things"  we ancient fellows have learned over the decades.
Some might put a pep in your step!
Thanks for adding a new word to my vocabulary-never heard "zonderkite" before-are you of German descent by chance?

"lady like" for any generation BUT there are always exceptions.

when I'm by myself. Around other people, I'm careful not to swear. I don't like it when men or women swear, as I just think it's a sign of a limited vocabulary and disrespect for others.

But fuck 'em!

I don't think people especially ladies  need to curse during every conversation, cursing during sex is fine, as long as it's more of a natural reaction versus a line that you've rehearsed.

we prefer our women to be ladies in the parlor and tramps in the bedroom....so during sex, let it fly!

Until I became active on these boards, I never realized what a bunch of uptight, old fashioned, narrow minded, fuddy duddies frequented hookers. I really expected a group of freewheeling, party animals, but what I found was anything but, with a handful of exceptions of course.

I'm offended by anything worse than "nutty-fudgkins"

You  assume wrong. I don't care at what comes out or her mouth if my dick goes into it her mouth and she allows CIM. I'm 83.

are displaying great civility in their deportment:

go overboard with trying to use every naughty word in their vocabulary. I agree with others in that verbal stimulation can add to the experience.

What could a 80yr old man do to cause you to curse?

...language matches with what comes out of your mouth, I'm all good! lol

What's the point of a BBBJ without CIM??? Although I have developed a strange fetish of kneeling down on the floor and catching it in my mouth rather than sucking it out... Been watching a lot of porn lately.  

When she is shouting "Fuck my pussy!!!" and yelling stuff like that so the neighbors can hear it, there will be no arguments about that from me.

*blink*blink*blink*

That's not nice! And plenty! But this did make me laugh, thank you.

YES because OH GOD, FORNICATE ME!! Just doesn't sound right LOL

Thank you sir! I've already put this to use! Lol

I love a challenge, so I'll try it out and see if I can pull it off.. I love seeing what this smile can get away with 😇😇 Hey!! It's a sport for us too!

I always ask a lady if she's cool with me dirty talking, and that it's just fantasy and nothing is meant, and then I suggest to her that she should feel free to dirty talk as well, the dirtier, nastier the better.  

On many layers

You know what else is cool? Letting the cum flow out of your mouth as you continue to suck well after he's done.

Penis

...the bigger, the thicker and harder I get!

Lol!!

I think that age is less of a factor here than how conservative, traditional, or old-school the guy seems - although many older guys may of course have more traditional views when it comes to things like a woman's use of four-letter words. For example, I am in my mid-30s and slightly more old-school than most in my generation. My personal view is that four-letter words are hot in the midst of or when discussing a sex act (especially in Spanish) and OK if a lady uses them in moderation and in a relevant context during other conversation, but a pervasive potty mouth on a woman could be a turn-off.  

Ha! You think you get away with shit!?♿️
Go for it!

Are you calling me handicapped with that emoji? Saying that the only sports I play are the special Ed kind?!  
Ha!! Please stop being so jaded and allow someone to charm you.. Who knows..you might even blush