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scratch alex off my list , hmmmm ???? can i have the same from

YOU ! Can't we just meet for a drink and take it from there ? Worked for me for years.

Posted By: AlexandraHill

Hello everyone! In light of recent events both locally and nationally, I feel the need to revamp my screening process and come up with a better/alternative system. I currently ask for full name, age, and three references. I check ID upon meeting (but by then it could be too late!). I love references because it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside if another provider can vouch for you. However, as of late, I feel like I should have options.  
 I am wondering what other providers rely on to feel safe when seeing a new client (besides instincts )?  
 Also, I am considering using the app Snapchat for ID verification prior to meeting if a client can not provide three references. Clients, would you consider sending a photo of yourself with your ID that would self-destruct in a few seconds? Ladies, would you consider this a valid screening option?  
 Thank you guys so much for your time and I am eager to get some input! xoxo  
 Alex

You are beautiful... but that's jumping too many hoops for me!

Asking for a boatload of info can be a non-starter. You might as well include:
'Note from the wife saying you're okay'.  

How about asking only for these things:

- his name (not his 'full name')

- the state and the last 3 digits of his driver's license (plan to see the license when you meet)

- a link to just one provider whom he has seen recently ('three' is way too many)

If he claims to be a complete newbie, try a rendezvous over coffee or a drink first.

Your best clues will come from the content and integrity of his texts and the sound of his voice on the phone. How you feel intuitively about those aspects should trump everything else

That said, you need to do WHATEVER you need to do to to feel safe, and if that makes me uncomfortable, then that's my problem.  I totally feel for you ladies and the one thing I hate most about this hobby is the hassle surrounding a first date.  I've actually had to pass on a few that wanted more information than I felt comfortable giving, and I'm still kinda disappointed that we never met, but not so much that I'm going to put myself outside of my comfort zone.

Some guys will give you their Social Security Number and the PIN for their ATM card in order to get laid, and others are not as desperate.  For women as beautiful as Alex, my guess is that there is far more latitude, but at some point even the horniest guy has his limits

weilding a rather good size jack knife .

is a must. good switchblade and make sure your comfortable with it, a skill saw in event you use said jack knife liquid cement as well as several large duffel bags. just in case.
study ai-jutsu and the offensive art of ju-jitsu,this way in event a hand or fist come at you you can turn around and paralyze them permanently with out breakin a sweat ,      
keep a black belt Italian guy with tattooes  who just came out a jail who s biceps are each 40 inch in the closet for event you need to crack skulls.,  
hmm. oh bleach in a spray bottle good easy self defense trick, even a bottle hair spray.  
you can check them on intelus which I did to every client as well as the provider references.  
try googling the place of employement addy make sure it s a legit business not some landline with their dumb ass on the machines.
take their dna and finger prints and a stoole sample.  
take the fire arm course with a retired cop at good times pool hall and get your class b license say your a hairdresser and carry cash in large amoutns a lot and need license to carry, join the n.r.a.  
buy a pit bull. don't allow passer byers to pet him and don't train him to be a pussy so he  l protect you, .  
hmmm.
there s always pepper spray howeve r I am unsure ifin event I d recommend that, I think a good old fashioned switch blade is best. just attach it to the garter belt for duration session and tell him not to be such a pussy about it and to toughen the fuck up.

Face Time??

This may be a bit unorthodox.. But I had a gentleman that was coming into town and wanted to meet me.
Felt I was a little new and wanted to gage my personality. We made a greet time (lol) and used face time video  
to just have a conversation. He was in Miami and I sat in my living room in LA drinking
coffee. It was my first experiment and I loved it! Did it again 2 days ago..  
think I will continue for those who are technically savvy.  

It's a way to see the other person in his/her habitat if you cannot  
meet locally due to time constraints..😛💄

You can have my P411 and Date-Check profiles.
You can check my white lists.
You can have my board handle.
You can have three provider references, including their TER ID#s.
If all the above doesn't cut it, we will not be seeing each other.
You have every right to ask and I have every right to refuse and move on.

But that's also why I choose BP. They don't ask for my firstborn to date. That's leaves the security issue in my lap. I like that.

Are you starting an international agency?  A national agency? Some other type of felony associated organization?

I agree 110% with those that won't give up personal info.  And as nick said...feel free to ask and I'll feel free to move right along.

I'm sure you don't keep anyone's personal info...no one does  

Posted By: AlexandraHill

Hello everyone! In light of recent events both locally and nationally, I feel the need to revamp my screening process and come up with a better/alternative system. I currently ask for full name, age, and three references. I check ID upon meeting (but by then it could be too late!). I love references because it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside if another provider can vouch for you. However, as of late, I feel like I should have options.  
 I am wondering what other providers rely on to feel safe when seeing a new client (besides instincts )?  
 Also, I am considering using the app Snapchat for ID verification prior to meeting if a client can not provide three references. Clients, would you consider sending a photo of yourself with your ID that would self-destruct in a few seconds? Ladies, would you consider this a valid screening option?  
 Thank you guys so much for your time and I am eager to get some input! xoxo  
 Alex

... now allowed to arrest girls who use the word "screen". It happened recently here in the Tampa area. The article said that using the word "screen" implied illegal activity. One thing to note here - the girls were found on BP and they waited to "screen" until they were actually alone in the room by asking said client to flash his private parts. That's the point that the girls were arrested. I don't use BP but the information still concerned me. I've updated my "screening" page to say "new friends" and I talk about needing to know who they are as opposed to using words like screen and verify. Even Eros has dropped "verify" from their online vocabulary.  

Now then, as for screening I like your snap chat idea a lot. It sounds like you see a high caliber clientele who are often too scared to share any personal information. My general rule is that if they call me to an upscale hotel I'm willing to accept airline tickets or passport stamps from their travel that day/week. I ask to meet them in a bar or public place so I can view it (but now snap chat sounds even better because it eliminates a face to face until AFTER the information is shared) and to get a better feel for them. Of course, before you even decide to trust that you can meet in a public place you have to be listening to your gut the entire time. If he acts suspicious (like lots of long pauses), asks weird questions or talks in a tone of voice that's whispery or mumbled tone your gut should be screaming at you - No Way!!!  

Stay safe!!  
xo Lane

Dear Ms. Hill:
Think of yourself as an admission's director for a College and you weigh certain pieces of information differently when determining whether or not a certain applicant will get into your school. That is the same thing you should consider when determining if certain hobbyist will have the right to see you. For instances if they have a membership to a verification service they would get a higher grade than a person who doesn't have verification from one. Then you can look and see what providers they have seen and what type of online presence they would have. For instance if someone has seen London Rayne, or Arden Moon the reference would have stronger weight and merit than someone who doesn't. Also make it a practice to interview as many ladies who have had a history with a prospective client before making a decision. Also weight the interviews with comments from the providers and start to have your own scores. Perhaps you can have a top score of 25 and a minimum of 15. Those who score below your number definitely don't see. Those who may be a the borderline have a conference with the girls and those who meet and exceed your standards in points definitely send them an acceptance letter to your home.  Also it is wise to have a local companionship provider's consortium to where you can discuss certain issues that you might not be to sure about. The main thing is the more you know the more comfortable you are about seeing him just like the director of admissions is wondering will the student predict if he does get in. Words to live by my dear Alexandra.

P411 and references are not good enough? Your way doesn't do much. Hey, go for it if you want... but I doubt anyone will be ok with what you ask. It doesn't even do anything but show you it is a person who could still be a LE. You DO know LE could video chat with you, right?

I don't believe any provider that says my info got destroyed. Case in point, I know ALL save my phone number. I call and you already know who I am after seeing me once? So just goes to show. Lucky I am single or I'd be hurting bad.