I'm curious.  I'm very tactile, and i love to cuddle, stroke, caress, nuzzle, massage,  etc...during a session, but I reserve this for ladies I have known for many years and who are well aware of my desires here.

The power of touch, simple as it is, can be an awesome  and  experience, subject to a great deal of variation.  So i'm wondering :  for the ladies who do not describe themselves as GFE providers, how do you feel about a gent who wants to do a lot of that?  Do you go with the flow?  Do you think "What's with this guy?  Can't he get DATY underway?"  

Do you discourage, actively, passively, subtlely, this type of behavior on the part of the gent?

Does this behavior on the part of the gent make you think perhaps he's starved for affection in the outside world? [Me, i think I asn't held enough as an infant].  Does it creep you out or make you uncomfortable?

Would you refuse a future session with a gent like that?

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This is a great question as it is one I've had since I started (only a few months ago).  I have decided to neither encourage nor discourage cuddling.  If he initiates, I am happy to oblige.  If he does not initiate cuddling, I remove the cover and offer to clean him up.  If I am getting mixed signals after cleaning him, I playfully ask "Are you a snuggler?"  

I don't wonder if he's starved for affection.  Also, it's perfectly normal to snuggle after sex.  Has to do with brain chemicals (LG may have more info).  Cuddling wouldn't cause me to refuse a future session with him, unless he managed to do something truly wierd... like suckling my boob and calling me mom while I changed his diaper.

this would be why you read the reviews and see what she is like from there.
It all goes back to reviews and research read them and they will tell you what you want to know.

I very much enjoy physical closeness- the cuddling, kissing, caressing, holding hands.  

I've found a couple providers who are in to it as much as I am- 'skin to skin' as one special one calls it.  

I've found  several great gfe ladies who are okay with it to the point you'd never know whether or not they enjoy it with a client.

I've met a few who prefer not to have that extra level of closeness and stick to fun sex.

I think the only reason you'd get declined a future visit would be if you were freaky about it or persisted beyond her requested boundary-  no matter what, her boundaries are to be respected and you must make sure she is comfortable in a session.

Personally, I love cuddling, but I usually let the provider lead the way and make the first move. The same goes for touching. I make sure that touching is allowed, and where it's allowed before I do anything.

it's not a real date for me. I love touching, lots and lots of touching. From sensual massage to deep tissue, I'm pretty good at both and several techniques in between. Tender, gentle fingertips from the temples, down the cheeks, to the shoulders. Then maybe softly caressing the breasts, and down to the belly, to the insides of the thighs, getting very, very close, but not quite getting "there". The legs, both front and back, just barely touching, very softly, and of course the feet. All of this, and then back again.

Of course, I love being touched as much as I love being the touchee. Now if you'll excuse, I think I need to go take a shower.

Nothing better than cuddling as we bask in the afterglow.
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Great question Donner, I feel the same way and love the touching, carressing etc...

Thanks.I aked because I recently renewed acquaintaces with an old favorite i had lost track of.I saw her Friday and the lovemaking was like a happily married couple -- long, slow, tender, unhurried.We fell asleep in each others' arms afterwards for apx 10 minutes.I've had better purely physical experiences hobbying, but this was as great with the intangibles as it was with the physical.I'll not forget this anytime soon.

And ladies that advertise F/S GFE  should enjoy it too...  One time I met one, had no reviews, (my first and ONLY mistake of that nature)...I was out of town, and hooked up with a lady claiming to be the Ultimate GFE.  So I booked her.  She was as HOT as her pics...very cool lady...but when it came to the GFE paty....No Kissing,not big on touchy-feely stuff, CBJ (with very little effort put into it )She loved DATY...
and wasn't bad in the 2 positions she would do,
If you advertise GFE...at least do SOMETHING a GF would do!  or change you TITLE to something closer to what you do   1/2AGFE (half ass GFE)