As I've mentioned a zillion times, I'm over 60. Thin, no big gut. Just some flab around the middle that no amount of gym time seems to eliminate. I looked in the mirror a couple hours ago after getting out of the shower. Blech. Even though I'm in better condition than most guys my age, I don't look like I did ten years ago. There's the small brown spots on my stomach and back that just come with age. If I've been sitting awhile, the lines across my gut don't go away immediately.  

I didn't think you had a reasonable, respectful post in you but obviously I was wrong.

You beat me to it and took the words right out of my mouth.

Head on over to your local book store and buy a self help book...

At least that was the advice I was given by 2 different ladies who do this very successfully.

....and if you remember a girl appreciates being pampered then ecstasy is a promise.

I don't think of myself as not worthy of paying for sex, I just wonder how young hot women react to and deal with much older guys.

someone will probably reply "when the money runs out".  But the question is valid because this game is part illusion and part genuine human interaction.  Maybe the provider is great at dissociating herself from her performance, but the hobbyist still has a self image.  Oh there I go again, referring to us all as humans! What a wimp I am, must be running low on testosterone again.  Lemme go get the needle.  

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For me, all you need is to shower before you come, sometimes a good bottle of red will be rewarded with an incomparable pleasure.

You expect a guy to get up in the heat of the action to go take a shower before he comes?

The place where you are asking the question is wrong place..

CurlyW, it's my understanding that most of the guys these ladies see are in their 40's and 50's. A few have said that 60+ is rare. That's what has me curious. I seem to recall one provider ad that specified an age range that would exclude me, and it wasn't because I was outside the young end of that range.  

I know. I'm just having fun with you. Thanks for your reply, and thanks to Cosette for hers.

I've rarely seen any hooker site with an upper age limit.

Posted By: 89Springer

CurlyW, it's my understanding that most of the guys these ladies see are in their 40's and 50's. A few have said that 60+ is rare. That's what has me curious. I seem to recall one provider ad that specified an age range that would exclude me, and it wasn't because I was outside the young end of that range.  
   
 As for being insecure, I'll check in with you when you're in your 60's and see how you like your appearance. That's if I still have enough wits to remember.

I do that and am OK with how I look.

younger guys for their lack of maturity than those who don't want to see older guys, because they are old.  I have seen small subset of girls who don't want to see guys above 55 or 60, but that's very small subset. But in talking to some gals offline, some have mentioned that guys in their 60s are their father's age. And they feel a little weirded out trying to suck their dick. So not entirely related to looks, is it?

I would rather see an older gent who talks about things like how life used to be before tablets than a younger guy who insists on asking my real name.

i was in my 60's. I'd look for 40-somethings.  

I've now tried 20's and 30's and enjoyed both. I'm just trying to hear what the ladies say, but more guys seem to want to answer the original question.

I prefer older men to see then younger... Older men are better in bed in this biz... No games (Some), can afford, mannered, adventurous, professional .... I can go on & on.... My ATFs are all older.... The younger encounters I've had are high maintenanced... Seriously... I have not met any hobbyists in their 20s early 30s that's not either high maintenance, cheap-wants to barter, usually horrid in bed... Lol....  

I have had just as many under 30 guys that are unattractive as the other option...age really does not have that much to do with it, and yah...I can get off easier with a guy I am not intimidated by lol. Just sayin.

The answer may shock you, or may not...

Back in the day 33-38, fit, pictures sent, everything… now, I don't care. lol

20 to lets say 45 year olds are all good looking, and muscular. I would take CPA’s suggestion and go to few M&G’s then you will get the real answer. You will be surprised.  

I know its a question for providers but just wanted to add something. I am not an expert but I think women don't place a lot of weightage on looks...they get flattered/attracted to sweet talk. One more thing is providers might not be as conscious of your body as you are in that one hour you meet them. So stop worrying about your body and enjoy!  
 

...but all of this "shallow twat" talk has me thinking about London.  

I would much rather see a man who is confident in his own skin, knows and understands his tastes, and can make me smile. Age plays zero factors in this part, if you can adhere to being self assured, there's no need to doubt the mindset of wh you are with.

Richard Gere? Captain Gerbil Colonoscopy?

Thanks for being honest. I'd rather hear that than have a so-so session with a provider because she was turned off by my age.  

Sure, but keep in mind that I'm in the minority on this one. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.  

I'm at a point where I know my strong and weak points. There's things I know how to do just from experience, and some that younger guys may not even know. There's other things I can't do because of physical limitations.  

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.

Funny you should mention that because I have a total ladyboner for Jack Black.  

Posted By: alyssainnewyork

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.  
   
 Just goes to show.. Beauty on a scale of 1-10 is a barbaric method.

"Nobody has gotten a hand job in cargo shorts since 'Nam"

Maybe by my board persona, but not ME personally. Nothing about me in person is intimidating. I am not a 10 in looks, very down to earth, not overly dominant, bossy, controlling, etc. Wait...guys in the hobby, right? Ha.

If I am creeped out, I am creeped out. Better to let a guy know this upfront. Many women don't want to fk a guy their dad's age, and many extend that to a grandpa's age.

I've been seeing her since she was barely legal, and while once upon a time no one would ever think we were together, after all the time I have known her we actually look like a couple know, and are treated that way whether we are having dinner together or checking into a hotel.  It's just so obvious that we have know each other for years, no one gives us that "hooker/client" look any more when we are out together, or when we ask for an early morning wake up call when checking into a hotel together.

I guess it must suck to be "old at heart" but I don't feel embarrassed or out of place in the least when with someone who technically is young enough to be my grand daughter.

she was much too young to be my daughter.

yep, I know that.

That's the great thing about having "old" friends. they make you feel so much better about yourself, Were you ever friends with George Burns??? Or were you more of a Bob Hope kind of guy? lmao

I think that is one of your only posts where I can say "WRONG!". You have power as a woman, you can elevate or cast down with a word. Egos and self-esteem aren't gender-specific.

I would do that with a BF, but never a guy spending his hard earned money on me.

yeah, I get ya. For a few moments at least, we get more than the bf gets in some ways. lol, no gf I ever had brought a warm towel to cleanse me after the deed. The fantasy GFE. If a date farts in my presence, I know it's the real thing, the real GFE.

I just meant board persona..

The young lady I boinked, then took to dinner was 46 years my junior.  That's one extra teen-ager I got goin' for myself, lol!

and as you point out, that is all it shall ever be for me. A pleasant thought. She'd probably be fun to simply hang out with, though. I guess that might qualify as a really weird tease and denial date, huh?

And that, folks, is what I'm talking about. If the lady isn't comfortable with me, I'm not comfortable with her. She could be 22, 32 or 42. If she's cool with me being old enough to be father or even grandfather, then everything is fine with me.

OMG there's hope for me after all!!!!  I'm a slightly better looking version of Jack Black!!!!  What a coincidence....

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Funny you should mention that because I have a total ladyboner for Jack Black.  
   

Posted By: alyssainnewyork

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.  
     
  Just goes to show.. Beauty on a scale of 1-10 is a barbaric method.

....guys like Jonah Hill and Kevin James

But can you sing? I do a pretty rad rendition of Fuck Her Gently. If you can keep up, then HOLLA!!

Posted By: SecretMe11

OMG there's hope for me after all!!!!  I'm a slightly better looking version of Jack Black!!!!  What a coincidence....  
   

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Funny you should mention that because I have a total ladyboner for Jack Black.    
     

Posted By: alyssainnewyork

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.    
       
   Just goes to show.. Beauty on a scale of 1-10 is a barbaric method.

Your eyes it all feels the same.
Just kidding.
There's more to it than looks for women. Most anyway, me for sure.

I COMPLETELY FORGOT THAT ABOUT YOU!!!!  

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

But can you sing? I do a pretty rad rendition of Fuck Her Gently. If you can keep up, then HOLLA!!  
   

Posted By: SecretMe11

OMG there's hope for me after all!!!!  I'm a slightly better looking version of Jack Black!!!!  What a coincidence....  
     

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Funny you should mention that because I have a total ladyboner for Jack Black.    
       
   

Posted By: alyssainnewyork

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.    
         
    Just goes to show.. Beauty on a scale of 1-10 is a barbaric method.

…connect with the person and the MAN that he is.  If you're only seeing his age or aged appearance you will be quite challenged!  If you're thinking "oh God I'm having sex with a grandpa- how gross!" then you're doomed.  One must wrap their brain around it a certain way…then it becomes "I am sharing (or if you're not really enjoying it, you are then GIVING) pleasure to a mature gentleman" who, in many ways, is no different than the younger gentlemen that you see..just in an older body.  You are leaving him with some wonderful memories and you've made someone very happy.  You have your $ and he has his pleasure and memories…everyone wins.

I think I've got something in my teeth, could you get it out for me? That's fuckin' TEAMWOOORK!!

Posted By: SecretMe11

I COMPLETELY FORGOT THAT ABOUT YOU!!!!  
   
 I actually can sing...I was a music professional for several years  
   
 PS - I'm gonna bone you discreetly  
   
   

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

But can you sing? I do a pretty rad rendition of Fuck Her Gently. If you can keep up, then HOLLA!!  
     

Posted By: SecretMe11

OMG there's hope for me after all!!!!  I'm a slightly better looking version of Jack Black!!!!  What a coincidence....    
       
   

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Funny you should mention that because I have a total ladyboner for Jack Black.      
         
   

Posted By: alyssainnewyork

Actually holds a spot of my heart. Same with Kevin James. He's like, my ideal man. Not only do I find them both insanely attractive, but hilarious to boot.      
           
     Just goes to show.. Beauty on a scale of 1-10 is a barbaric method.

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Bruce Springsteen, beach body at 64 years old! Like London said, old does not equal ugly. Diet and exercise are key, and confidence will come: