Guys would you pay a deposit to see a provider?the reason I ask is because I paid a deposit to a well reviewed provider but never got to see her I still don’t know what happened I showed up on time but never got a response back when I tried email then text then called I even sent her a private message on Twitter the deposit was 50% of her donations which was 300.00 of the 600.00 I never sent a deposit before and Doubt I ever would again but i want to see her so bad who’s know if the opportunity come again I guess I’m a sucker especially since I always say I won’t pay more then 500.00 a hour!

"how bad you want to see her", but rather  a question of "whether you're willing to risk being scammed out of $300 and end up not seeing her at all."  I would never pay a deposit for a short session, AND I would never pay a deposit to a provider I'm meeting for the first time.  The only time I would (and have a couple of times) pay a deposit is to book an overnight or weekend with a provider I already knew and had seen before, because she has to turn down all other business during that time period in order to take my appointment.  

you are asking her to travel a far distance to you, otherwise there is no need for it.

And, yes, you're right. You are that sucker. You could have saved yourself the trouble if you'd just come here first instead of whining about it now. But I suspect you already knew and didn't want to be talked out of your desire "to see her so bad." What's really sad is it sounds like you'd do it again.

I was accused of being the "kinder gentler" GaGambler in regards to the last guy who posted he got ripped off after sending a deposit, so let me fix that please. The last guy was a newbie and just didn't know any better, not only do you have a posting history going back to 2012, you have reviews going back to 2007,  AND look at this post  of yours from just a few months ago

Thanks everyone for your response,I know I’m a idiot but never again and no I’m not going to name the provider because she do have a stellar reputation and I am thinking that maybe something came up on her end not only that she post on her website that to confirm a booking you have to send a 50% deposit so I’m not the only idiot out here!!

One more thing I have been asked a couple of times to send a deposit but never did I just thought that since she had stellar reviews she would be okay plus her pictures had me thinking with my small head and not my big head

I keep seeing these scam reports without the name of the provider(well, scammer) being mentioned.  Especially when the claim is they are "well reviewed."
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Name names or I'm going to believe it is a fake story.

Without naming the guilty party it's nothing more than WHINING, and not worth our time.

Then if she reaches out to you and you find out that she had something important come up you can come back and do the right thing by her and set the record straight.

You can't fix stupid and obviously you can't fix cowardice either.  

Provider POV with caveat that TS gals have to deal with more potential cases of cold feet-itis (aka nsnc).
I have my safety/security screening practices with new clients and at times I decide a good faith deposit is in order to final confirm appointment. In those instances I usually also permit alternative of their giving me reference to verify with another provider, which of course with hobbyist newbie isn't viable for them.
One situation where need for deposit/reference can be a deal breaker on my end, is outcall to a private residence for a new client. Early in my career I drove out to Thousand Oaks only to realize upon arrival in his 'hood that the mook was trying to spoof me into knocking on neighbor's door at 1am (and let the hilarity ensue for this tgirl).
No hard feelings when potential client balks at deposit since its just case of a lack of meeting of the minds and so the deal is not consummated
Happy hobbying y'all!
Kacy TGirl

Have heard that some well known other providers occasionally pull this especially since the start of this pandemic which I guess makes people do screwy things....

Here is here website GaGambler:meetjanellepark.com,now everybody got me mad as hell I have always been told I’m to nice so thanks for opening my eyes!!

Your balls grew two sizes plus two.  Doesn’t that feel good?

and maybe I'm missing something but that site does not say there is a 50% deposit for an hour session ($600 fee).

Good for him finally  coming out & have the guts to do the right thing! Whatever the deal is he got hustled & she deserves the bad PR. Make sure to post on local board as well!

Never send a deposit to a girl you're seeing for the first time.  It doesn't matter that she has a stellar reputation with others, she must have a stellar reputation with ME, which means I have seen her before.  

Yep I live in Denver

to name the girl or be banned from the board.  this is how you hold people accountable and protect your fellow hobbyists.   put her on blast and see if she does this again to anyone else.  

I prefer to call it "tough love"  

Thanks, will do

Still stalking.  Its getting a little creepy, just so you know.  You're making yourself look like a COMPLETE loser.  

I think you may be happy that you "named names" if you end up getting your money back

where you are mentioned, so your premise is complete bullshit.  Admit it, you're just a stalker.  I have one, too, only mine's an old fat guy who's not very bright and easy to bait.  I don't consider you MY stalker.  That job is already taken.  For me, you  are just an amusing petty (actually VERY petty) annoyance.  

Until you get your very own stalker. lol

I had great intentions of seeing a well know provider out of Philly everything seems great yet when she asked me to send deposit for it was through CashApp which I didn’t have then out of the blue she stated you can sent it Venmo. Here is where I knew I was screwed I sent the deposit $150 and then she claims minutes later she didn’t receive it could I sent it to CashApp. Ok, I’ve Venmoed enough to know if I am sending it to correct recipient they get it. Couple minutes pass and we are good for our visit. And like similar situations as mentioned above crickets yet this was AFTER 2 excuses to postpone our date. Finally she said she would refund the amount. She used the sick kid excuse so I said just send me $1 back. NOTHING. Guys I’m putting link out there and have txt proofs she’s a fraud. The only thing I got out of it were outdate vids. Email me if you need proof.  

All for nothing but kudos to you for having the courage to come out! Hopefully this will not only warn other hobbyists but also help come to some sort of resolution to getting your $$ back as slim as it it is!

Hey GaGambler and everyone on this thread I just checked my email and Janelle sent me a message saying she had a terrible experience with another client and that’s why she couldn’t make it she did apologize and asked where can she send me my deposit,thanks to everyone I guess things do work out sometimes!!!

but the fact that you manned up and named her makes all the difference in the world.  One of the ladies here probably PM's her that she was getting some bad press over here by keeping the deposit.  Glad its working out, but like Nick, I'll reservice final judgment until you say you have received and cleared the funds.  

This illustrates the value of reviews in keeping providers honest for clients.  A ripoff turns into a refund within 24 hours of exposure.  This is the value of TER.

If you had him first, then I will step back and let you have him.   I know that's not much of a concession, but maybe you can figure out some way to make money off of his fat.  LOL