It's much easier just being me. See how easy that is?

it's really hard trying to be everything to everyone and trying to be regular old me as expected by the rest of the world....
just curious, how do y'all deal?

Missy, you are amazing just as you are. No need to try to be everything to everyone.  Your regulars know and love you just as you are.  Or do you mean how hard it is to balance your hobby life with your non hobby self?

If not, generic answer is to keep putting one foot in front of the other, and never let them get you down.

As you stated, sometimes is hard, sometimes you are scared, sometimes you want to give up but never forget that no matter where you go, life revolves around interpersonal relationships meaning people's personalities, character, baggage, drama etc. My advice is to be yourself, the best version of yourself and consider that some attributes will allow you to thrive in this arena better: empathy, respect, awareness, trustworthiness, openness, and good communication. Keep your goals clear, think of them every time an issue arises, focus on your future and never give up. Positivity will allow you to see the glass instead of half empty, half full...

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thank you darlin'
that's exactly what I needed to hear from someone besides me
exactly!

don't we all wish.

true story
but easier said than done doll
thanks so much for your response tho I was just being silly girl anyway  
there's really no way to do it, unless you're at swinger's club and everyone is trying to go home with cum somewhere besides still in their balls LO

thanks so much for your encouragement that's exactly what I needed to hear
one foot in front of the other... move forward-not backwards and not nowhere...
thanks darling

thank you! just what I needed to hear
exactly
that's going on m website somewhere

yes! bravo!

unless she actually has one, I pretty sure she does not.

Just do it....
Worry about consequences later....

Before you go listening to a God that speaks a language that did not exist, during the time he was a God.

thanks for the kind encouragement everyone

just being a silly girl.. that's all.

Don't get me all philosophical.  
Fukkr..

I didn't think so Dave needs new glasses! eom

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And live happily ever after?

I feel silly for venting publically

I'm not the type to blurt crap outthere... just venting... kinda dumb and melodramatic  

and yes sometimes it is easier said than done but it sure makes life a lot easier sometimes.

You just can't be everything to everyone. Instead choose the best parameters that make you comfortable and don't deviate from them too much. I'm assuming you mean being a great escort that can cater to many different guys' needs and to top it off being yourself personally.  

What do you mean? a woman's work is never done... lol

But what if he'll never be ready?

I was just thinking about this topic over the last several days.

If we knew how little they thought of us.

You lost me!

After 35 years of continuous work, I broke my ankle at work. The next three years were a nightmare of scumbag Doctors and Satanic Insurance companies. Two surgeries and inability to do any activities. Of course my Nationwide huge company could not find anything for me to do, so I lost my job as well, and I gained about 80 pounds. I had to really work on my attitude. Finally my ankle is healing. I am relieved!

me as expected by rest of the world.

those who like you for who you are will be there for you.

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More wisdom in that than in a shelf of books.

Still, I am waiting till the day I'm on my death bed, and a clergyman comes to comfort me and ask if I had any regrets in life.  I plan to tell him that I wish I had spent more time in the office.

I just want to get a load of the look on his face when I say that.

(Aren't I a stinker? 8o)

heartiest laugh of the month, lolol

We're two sides of the same coin.