I've met several full time providers who's  biggest challenge is to develop and maintain an IRL relationship without having a real job to substantiate the lifestyle they lead. Some ideas I've shared that might allow them to disappear as needed are Real Estate Sales, massage and/or physical therapist and jockeys. Ok, ixnay the jockey idea.  

What other endeavors might allow a provider cover for her clandestine desire to provide while starting a career AND be in a relationship.  

Cell phones have really complicated this. Btw, I'm not one who believes a relationship is nurtured by a lie.  

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Make up artist, nanny, trainer, hairstylist, interior designer, recruiter, substitute teacher, private tutor, web designer, film assistant, so many things can be used as a cover.  

I've never understood how it's so hard to pick one

Crime scene clean-up!

Your suggestions are typically day/early evening jobs and require special training and/or license.

A couple of providers I have met were also product reps. They'd a have certain number of hours that they needed to be in a retail store or client office for demo's etc... but it seemed pretty flexible and some also traveled.

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I like the tutor answer. Not impossible to pick one but hard to maintain cover on a day to day.
I could develop a teacher fantasy quite easily

Any perspective long term partners know about what I do before they meet me. I find no shame in what it is I do, as I pay my bills, taxes, and donate a sizable portion of my income to charity, as well as work as a crossing guard at my local school when I'm not on tour. Beside getting dicked down for a living, i try to be active in my community and a part of it. If you never hide it in the first place, it never becomes a problem in the future.

I'm not sure what what they do or what the pay scale is, but you have to admit it sounds good.

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...  with the right partner I'd imagine. I've always had empathy for ladies contemplating the charade.

You can be honest with. I am a terrible liar and also an open book lol. Take me or leave me but sure as hell not lying about what I do. Lol.

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