My ATF & I have long since blurred the line between friends & business.  We've been real names basis for several years.  I am married.

I don't do a lot on Social Network sites but for reasons I don't need to explain, I have a large & untraceable pool of potential friends (~2000).  I could get away with breaking the rule this one time so no one woould know. (So long as no writing on each others walls!)  I found said ATF on a certain social site...  My reason is would be to give he access to a number of photo albums.

I know this adds risk...  Would you broach the subject?  It would be her call if she can accept the risk.

Inasmuch as you say you are "friends," I still think you are going into the land of no return. The fact that you had to "find" her on a site that you are familiar speaks volumes about what you don't know about your ATF. Sorry, as long as you are married and feel that you have something to hide (her), it's as dangerous as dipping your wick in your neighbors wife (or daughter). Besides, she'd also be opening the door to her life that she may not want to share. You see, she's likely fucking me too and she might prefer my company or the next guy's just slightly more than yours. Oh, and I don't pay anymore and she bought me a plane ticket to go with her to London. Can you handle that she's not exclusive, can you handle finding that she maybe has three or four ATFs, just like you? If she agrees and maybe she will, be prepared to know shit that may make you jealous, that could even be unsettling, or even something that might shock you. We have walls and barriers in this life for a reason and sometimes even in the best of circumstances, it's not worth crossing that line. If you do and it means a big change to the life and world you think you've tucked away nicely, accept it and hold your head up.

An amazing and thoughtful reply...you're also right on the money.

To me, social networking sites are for social networking with people I have no other contact than via .... Social networking sites.

Linked In. Allows me to stay abreast professional developments and interactions in my day time career.

Twitter. Communication with limited number of ladies in companionship business, news and links to subjects of interest.

Yahoo messenger. Real time communication with friends who live far away and patrons.

Why would someone use any of these mediums to communicate with people they see and talk to on regular basis ... Honestly beyond me.

May be I am missing something here ....

Lina

and try, for at least once, to think with your head (if possible) and not your cock.

Wow. You're on "real names basis" for several years.
Well aren't you just super duper special. Puh-lease.

Well, Mr. Social Networking, you "found" her, huh? A complete accident I'm sure. (stalking much?)
So you're just so gosh darned popular that you can hide her within your massive group of "friends" so that she can have the absolute honor of perusing your most amazing photo albums? Well isn't she the lucky one!
And then you want to put it on HER "if SHE can accept the risk".

Jesus Christ on a pogo stick! We don't see that kind of pompous arrogance around here very often...and there's a LOT of arrogant self-centered pricks swimming in this pool.

Get over yourself. You're not that special...your photo albums don't mean shit...and she's in your life because you PAY her. Just like the next cock she puts in her mouth after telling you how fabulous you are.

"Social networking". What are you...15? Grow up.

that could go wrong, and how little if anything could go right. Good luck!

Yes, very thoughful, wise advice

having been involved in a "blurred line" relationship, I can tell you that it can only end badly so you should end it quickly. The longer you draw this out, the worse it will get when it ends.  There are a lot of people lined up to get hurt in this situation.

print the photos and bring them to her. I know printer ink is insanely expensive but still cheaper than divorce. You wanna make her a facebook friend, risk your marraige, all just to show her some damn pictures? If your favorite hooker is really more important than your wife, do both of you favor and divorce, see if your ATF will have you. LMAO  

to say some would agree but just because one goes outside of their marriage doesnt necessarily mean theyre going to leave (think some spouses appreciate it but wouldnt admit it) just spicy it up and still go back to the domestic storybook no one said to leave.
i should know been around enough to know my regular friends know this too thats why we still have a good understanding after these exquisite years
oh my. see you. happy day everyone..
stay cool temps in 80's
 
kim the gfe romancer   tue 11 pm aug 3

Dude, as soon as you walk out her door, she's checking her phone to see where her next atf is.  Holy crap, really, get a grip.  If you want her that bad, divorce your wife and get with her.  You might be surprised when she drops you like a load of bricks.