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Re: bigguy30 don't worry.....
ymewish 4 Reviews 1243 reads
posted
1 / 23
Have you ever played rough with a provider?

How did you ask, or initiate rough play? How did you set limits?

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 563 reads
posted
2 / 23
You just say you are into rough play and ....

set the limits :) it's easy if it's not her thing she will let you know. Read some the provider that interest you reviews.  

Roxanne

hbyist+truth=;( 614 reads
posted
3 / 23
a piece of advice.....

I would not just initiate it. A conversation is definitely needed (even if her reviews mention that). Some ladies will try/do this with some guys but not all who show up...sort of like Greek. First to see if the provider is into that(with you), and second, to set boundaries etc. She will have some limits as to whether you can or cannot mark her, or the types of rough activities.

Please always be respectful of her boundaries...no means no and stop means stop. Other than that I hope you find who you are looking for and have a great time.

parthree 63 Reviews 462 reads
posted
4 / 23
Re: a piece of advice.....

Good advice.  Every once in a while a little roughhousing can be quite a turn on

hbyist+truth=;( 421 reads
posted
5 / 23
With the right lady

I hate it and would not react favorably. Soft and sensual all the way, all the time with me.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 407 reads
posted
6 / 23
Just a few times with one provider....

Someone I have known for years.

It's a long sad story but she told me to slap her face during sex so she could come.  I wasn't crazy about it, but it did get her off, so I guess it was worth it for her.

Thankfully, she seems to have gotten beyond that now.

There was one other gal that wanted me to bite her nipples very hard, but I was worried about that too.

ymewish 4 Reviews 395 reads
posted
7 / 23
Re: a piece of advice.....

She's a porn star and all her scenes are rough. So I know she's into it. She even said in an interview that she likes it rough. So I'm just going to ask her if we can play rough then I'm going to ask her what her limits are.

Gypsy2184 See my TER Reviews 503 reads
posted
8 / 23
wish more of my clients would like to play rough with me....

Love that shit...but don't do it nearly as much as I used to....but dedinately talk about it first!!

Related Link: http://gypsy.callgirlfiles.com

2236707 3 Reviews 404 reads
posted
9 / 23
How ruff?


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Senator.Blutarsky 465 reads
posted
10 / 23
You've got to stop coming on to me...

I also hate it and would not react favorably. Soft and sensual all the way, all the time with me.

JackDunphy 377 reads
posted
11 / 23
You can't really get soft and sensual with HT.

There is only so much one can do in 58 minutes.

1705218 10 Reviews 295 reads
posted
12 / 23
No It's not my style -e-


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bigguy30 275 reads
posted
13 / 23
cooper80 I agree with you it's not my style either. eom

Posted By: cooper80

hbyist+truth=;( 356 reads
posted
14 / 23
Hang on there....she is an actress, so you never really know what

she really likes when she is not acting. Just saying...and an interview is not always a reliable source for getting to know her...she can hardly say ..."oh I just act like i like, I really don't".  

BUT since she is a porn star and has a rep to keep, you might be in luck.

I say what I say from experience...that is talking candidly with a porn star and it is not all fun and games and what guys see is not always what these girls like (hence the drugs use and the use of local anesthetizing agents). The industry is competitive and they do things they may not necessarily like doing for the money.  

Now if she turns out to be for real, then you will most likely have a great time.

hbyist+truth=;( 290 reads
posted
15 / 23
No Senator, I will not....muah! e.


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Alan_Nimm 311 reads
posted
16 / 23
Maybe rough around the edges

as in, not very rough. I did a threesome once where two of us restrained the other provider with handcuffs while we had our way with her, but tongues were definitely in cheeks (and other places).  

My ATF likes BDSM including bondage and spanking, but other than light restraints and tease and denial I've told her she'll have to get her bondage and spankings from others.  Just not into rough stuff with a lady, even if she's open to it. About as rough as I get is holding down the woman's arms during DATY, as I've read that's a turn-on. No objections yet to that.

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escalade1964 65 Reviews 273 reads
posted
17 / 23
No

I'm vanilla

bbfs4ever 299 reads
posted
18 / 23
What in the hell are you talking about?

If a girl says she's into whatever, then I certainly take her at her word.

For you to make unfounded and irresponsible comments about women in porn as drug addicts unable to give consent is just amazing.  I guess you really have never been in the industry.

Now go back to whatever hole you climbed out of.

bbfs4ever 319 reads
posted
19 / 23
Just ask

What you might consider rough play may be quite vanilla for the provider.

The providers have heard it all in most cases.  I doubt you'll find many that would be shocked at your requests.  Depending on what you're into, I think you'd be surprised at just how accommodating most of the providers would be.

You made mention of a porn star that you saw her acting out a scene and made mention of her enjoyment of the scene.  Many of the actresses on the BDSM sites are lifestyle players.  I doubt she's simply tolerating the scene, in spite of some who may think otherwise.  I know that once you meet this girl you'll find that she really is as into the scene as she has commented.  At least that has been my experiences over many years of knowing those girls.

The limits need to be discussed prior to the session.  Just remember that some scenes that are filmed are set to appeal to the viewer.  Discuss safety for her, and you.  Never break your toys.

Good luck.

1615628anon 11 Reviews 271 reads
posted
20 / 23
Can't help you...

Can't do it...  I'm about the pleasure not pain...

I prefer to let her initially set the pace - figure out what is on the table, what's not...

Tied up...  In the right circumstance
Tie her up...  Great turn on but she has to want it not acquiesce to it
Dominence...  Interesting but it has to be her thing to be submissive
Submission...  Again, right girl, right circumstance  
I am all about the pleasure, not the pain

Sucking her nipples hard - if she likes it
Pounding her deep - if she responds favorably

ymewish 4 Reviews 298 reads
posted
21 / 23
Re: Just ask

Thanks for the advice. I'm waiting for her right now. I'll let you know how it goes.

followme 273 reads
posted
22 / 23
Re: bigguy30 don't worry.....

We all know your true style.

Not that there is anything wrong with that.

 
You're Welcom

bigguy30 247 reads
posted
23 / 23
followme time to move on we all know what you are really about on here. eom

So one you post your new review with a woman provider.
Then get back to me but until then no one cares about your made up lies.

Posted By: followme
We all know your true style.  
   
 Not that there is anything wrong with that.  
   
   
 You're Welcome  
 

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