There have been other threads on whether you would marry an escort. I wonder whether an escort would be a good choice for a wife.

I know a lot of guys here hobby for the variety. Some guys hobby because they are between SO’s. I hobby because the home life is lacking. When a lady can enjoy the company of the guy, and see the $ as a bonus, the time can be especially magical. At those times, I wonder what it would be like to be married to the lady.

I also wonder if my marriage came to an end, would TER make an interesting dating service. On the physical side of a relationship, if you pick a lady with high ratings, at least you know that what sex you do have should be good. I know one lady who said that she didn’t like giving BJ’s until she became an escort. I’m sure that in a marriage relationship, it isn’t going to be 3 times a day as if she were working, but I would hope that it would be more than once a month. The nature of the work requires that the lady embrace and enjoy her sexuality.

On the other aspects of the relationship, I wonder if escorts would make better or worse companions? Other than possibly being high maintenance, I think a lot of attributes that make a lady a great escort would make her pleasant to live with.

I don’t think I could be married to a lady while she is working. I also don’t think I would hobby if the home life were better. A lot of ladies seem to be average ladies that see escorting as a way to make ends meet. If she can live with my past, I could live with hers.

My son is at the dating age, and in a few years, the marrying age. I’ve come to appreciate how important the physical side of a relationship is to a marriage. Unfortunately, in a traditional conservative context, you don’t find out that compatibility until after it is too late. I’ve humored the thought of suggesting he use TER as a dating service. See an interesting lady, book a dinner only date (no sex), and see what happens.

Well you just might have something there with the  hobby/escort  marriage idea if you don’t want her to work and she want to stop. But other then that I think you may be entertaining  a fantasy   escorts in general (speak up ladies) are of your more independent type. What kind of companion (life) are you looking for. there are    men that want the type of women to be home all the time and beholden only to them. If this is the kind of guy you are I don’t think an escort is  for you.  If you think back on the beginning years of your marriage I’m sure you would say it was perfect great. Then the kids game the mortgage  rates went up the car brakes down all the time and reality sets in….. Crap I have to be responsible to these people. Believe me your wife is so feeling your pain. I have said this again and again  in this realm (hobby) Nothing is real as in prior example. So take it for what it’s worth . A wonderful periodical step out of my world(real) experience that I can have  as much as I want…. Now on the other hand you  could try the TER dating thing ya never know truth is far stranger then fiction. Lol Good Luck Cheers Livie.

Be sure to keep in mind that you do (I hope) see mostly our positive qualities, and those are emphasized during the times we're with you.  Eventually, like Cinderella's pumpkin carriage, we turn into normal people who have bad days (and nights we have headaches) like all the other women you know.

I'd highly suggest not using TER as a dating service for the above reasons. When dating someone with the goal of a long term civilian relationship, you want to get to know all of them, not just the pleasant aspects. Can this happen in a paid situation? Sure! It is, however, rather rare and not to be expected.

I understand that some of the higher end escorts have married their clients.

I know of a couple situations that worked out and a couple that did not.

I most definitely think it is a possibility with the right girl and not at all far fetched.

Like anything in life .... ask her what she thinks of the idea.  I would do it with the right guy if the situation seemed right.

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she could become bored with making love with you.

Having said that, anything is poissible. Love really does happen between provider and client.

I enjoy my freedom. I would consider a LTR with the right person; with the financial support part and without the marriage part.

I work with two wonderful providers who are married and it works well for both of them and their husbands.

There is not reason an escort would not make a good wife.. You may as well ask if an accountant, doctor, or bus driver would make a good wife. Any one of them could be a good wife or bad wife. Unfortunately, we do not come with one to five star ratings.

After a divorce in the mid eighties, I met an escort through a service and we ended up dating. Linda still worked and we had a good time. I knew she was working, but we had a good summer fling.  It did not end in marriage. I was just out of a marriage at the time and definitely not good marriage material.

At the time I met some of the women she worked with in social occasions and one of the providers was married. I will be honest at the time that shocked me.

But we all grow up and realize the world is not does not always fit into our preconceived notions.

I would marry an escort but not because she is an escort.  It would have to be because she wants to marry me and I want to marry her.  Actually that sounds like what I would do if I were to marry an accountant, doctor, or bus driver.
Kenny

Lotusling,
I took the question to mean would she make a good wife and still be a provider.  That takes care of her possible boredom.  But maybe I misunderstood the question. But my answer is yes she could make a wife and still be a provider.

Been there done that

Actually had exactly the type of relationship you describe.  LTR, exclusive, with financial support.

Relationship was built on real feelings yet there was understanding that marriage would not happen.

He had to move back to Europe last year and I did not want to move to the country he was from.

Am I open to possibility of another relationship like that?  Yes.  Marriage? May be.  It would have to be someone very dear to my heart and very special person.

Re: Been there done that

Another side to this question is the husband of the provider's attitude. I know while I dated Linda and she still had clients it added an erotic thrill for me.  Of course, we were not married.  Would that have changed my feelings. Well I guess that would take a lot of discussion from both the man and the woman.  But I agree only marry someone dear to the heart.