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Look, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings by calling out what I thought at the time was the most narcissistic post I've ever read (link). I was also defending our lady TS, who actually gave a very uncharacteristically respectful reply to you. Some liked your OP enough. Very many others agreed with me. I can't make you something that you aren't; you did that to yourself. I wasnt even aware at the time that it was part of your ongoing series. Lol.

Btw, since we're talking about your narcissism, this past piece on the professional hobbyist is a Cleveland steamer load of crap too. There seems to be a recurring theme in your posts of trying to elevate yourself among the community here, while pushing everyone down. My critics would say the same of me except they're the inflated arses I'm pulling down to everyone else's level. Blue (balls-nailed it!- Archer), we're all just johns trying to have fun, not any more or any less. Euphemisms and grandiose tales are not going to make you feel better about yourself.  

Grow up and grow some stones. If you're going to put drivel out there like that , be prepared to take criticism. Or join forces with RY. I don't care. In other words, don't get too bent out of shape by what other say.  

The don, out. Lol. Later Blue (balls-nailed it!).

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You need to purchase a map.

Try to  come back with something clever, although again (based on the Don Jon comment) I'm highly doubtful.
If likely not, I suggest again sparring with someone easier like dungbeetle and FIDiot (if you can find them), discopuppy, or stinkyboy.  

Regardless, I'm done with this ridiculous OP.

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and then start decrying anyone who objectifies someone.

Let's make up our minds on this one folks!

As for 1 - 3:

Envelopes make you respected.

Maximize the number of cups by being in good shape and seeing someone you consider sexy.

No tips is needed to stay past your allotted time.  You just plant yourself until physically tossed out.  I don't recommend it.

We'll Mr Fisher  

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1. What makes you a "respected" hobbyist? What special treatment or extra privileges does that get you when you see an escort for the first time?  

a. Respect is earned by being respectful, in my opinion. Read our websites to get an idea of what that means to each individual lady.  
b. For me? None. Your TER reputation doesn't mean dick to me. I'm sure there are some ladies who will slave over the heavy hitters on here, but I am not one of them.  
 
2. How do you maximize the number of cups you serve in a session?  

That's up to you, but I've found that most of the time when the guy is trying to get the most bang for his buck (literally), it just ruins it for both parties. Things tend to be way better when you let it flow naturally. Quality over quantity is always best. (side note: am I the only one who cringes when I hear the "cup" euphemism? I saw a porno once where chicks were chugging jizz out of a beer stein and it always reminds me of that. Blech.) Maybe avoid jacking it for a few days?
 
3. Give some tips to the novice hobbyist about how to stay past your alotted time?  

That's not cool, man. If you want extra time, pay for it. I am by no means a clock-watcher, and ten or fifteen minutes is no big deal, but any more than that and you're just taking advantage. There have been a few times where I've kept a guy way overtime, but that was because I chose to (and clearly didn't need to be somewhere/asleep by a certain time). It's starting to sound like you want the world and more for the least amount of money, and those are the types of guys most of us avoid (which is a shame, because I actually thought you sounded totally cute in your Great American Hobbyist post). Those types of guys are almost always day-ruiners. Fuckin' lingerers, man.  
 
4.  How does the objectification of men and women in the hobby make you a better person?  

I'm not sure I understand this question. Does objectification ever make anybody a better person? I kinda doubt it. In general, though, the hobby has bettered me in quite a few ways. I'm more aware of/in tune with my sexuality, it's forced me to work on my organizational skills, I've learned to better manage my finances (to a degree, I still spend money on frivolous shit occasionally), and I've learned that everyone has a story to tell. That's probably the biggest one. I've gotten to meet a whole bunch of amazing people, and they each have taught me something (no matter how small). It's a pretty sweet gig

That's a well thought out answer. Unfortunately, those questions were meant as theoretical ones that TER admin would have asked the theoretical Mr. TER.

I have not been around much lately, but its appears to me that this particular guy's posts are meant facetiously at best, and a backhanded insult to a few particular guys at worst.

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I get it, the whole tongue-in-cheek points. That's pretty funny when you look beyond the face of the message to the deeper questions raised.

There are a lot of candidates for what must be Douche-of-the-Month award.

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They are likely to get "punched in the throat"

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Without him, all you other guys would have to take turns.

BadCollegeGirl, it sure doesn't look like you went to a bad college! Not at all!

...if so ? You are a total dunce.