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Re: Bad advice . . . .
alias 28 Reviews 2327 reads
posted
1 / 30

You're not the one that has to fuck 10 strangers a day. Lighten up

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 94 reads
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2 / 30
alias 28 Reviews 96 reads
posted
3 / 30

Yea, I was pissed off and I regretted it 30 seconds after I wrote it. It didn't show up on the board for like 30 minutes and I thought a mod took it down and that made me happy, but now that it's out there I'm going to defend it as if it were my child  😁

I'm just sick of bookers that act like by asking 1 question I just ruined their entire day. Like, I get it that it must be frustrating to deal with time wasters all day and I won't pretend to know how often it happens, but be a professional. Im paying for your service that you willingly and actively advertise for, and it should be an enjoyable experience from point of contact all the way till I cum. Especially now that prices are through the roof for every level of provider.

It would be like you calling Nordstrom to see what time they open and the person that answers the phone treating you like a dick for daring to want to shop there

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 99 reads
posted
4 / 30

Happy Hour SOMEWHERE!!!!    Lol

36363jensen 4 Reviews 87 reads
posted
5 / 30

well that might explain why the OP has the booker and not the girl fucking strangers all day.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 103 reads
posted
6 / 30

...addressed to a booker:
"You (the booker) are not the one that has to fuck 10 strangers a day.  (K-girls have to, so if anyone is entitled to have a shitty attitude, they are).  Lighten up."

followme 90 reads
posted
7 / 30

Like it was a very UN - Happy Hour

36363jensen 4 Reviews 93 reads
posted
8 / 30

That certainly puts it in a different light for me.

 
Just curious (personally I've never experienced that type of response but then I don't ask for more than when is X available), what type of questions seems to produce that type of response?

36363jensen 4 Reviews 98 reads
posted
9 / 30

Yes, I badly misread the OP and thought it was being addressed to others.

alias 28 Reviews 103 reads
posted
10 / 30

I have a busy life and the way that I book appointments reflects that. I never book more than 24+ hours out, because honesty I have no idea what I'll be doing at that time, even if it's just tomorrow. I identify gaps in my schedule as my day unfolds and when the mood strikes me, ill fill that time with an appointment.

There are 5 or 6 kgirl agencies that I usually book with and rather than getting my hopes set on one girl, ill identify 1 from each agency that looks interesting to me and ill text each booker to see what time that girl is available. The booker that responds first with a time that fits into my schedule, gets the appointment. Of course this means that there are 4 or 5 bookers that do not get my business that day, but I usually let them know that I went with someone else.  

I've been operating this way for years and most bookers don't seem to have a problem with it. However, there's this one booker from an agency that I just started using in the past year that seems to think that it's a huge waste of time if I don't book the appointment immediately after checking availability, and I've gotten some pretty rude responses from this person lately. And it's not like I'm asking 10 annoying questions and then ghosting them, it's literally just, "what time is so and so available?"

I don't have thin skin or anything, and I've never said anything rude back to this person, but today just rubbed me the wrong way. So this morning I kind of did get my hopes set on this one particular girl. I never noticed her before because her main picture isn't that appealing to me so I had never clicked on it, but it turns out that her  
other pics are super hot and she has steller reviews to boot. So I text to see if she is free at 10am and the booker responds that she is off and sends the link to the website to see who is working that day. So I check again to see if maybe if I had gotten high this morning and just forgot, but I refresh the page and she is still listed as working today. Whatever, no problem. I pick one of the other girls and text back,  

Me: "So and so #1 is on there. What about so and so #2?"

Booker: "She cannot have day off? She is not robot. So and so #2 is available at 1030"

Me: "I'm just saying that she is currently listed as available. Just in case you want to update your website."

*1 minute later* Booker: "1030 can you come for so and so #2 or not?"

*1 minute later* Booker: "Is that a no? Hello she has to get ready."

It was in this moment that I felt the need to vent, but not wanting to burn a bridge I decided to take it to the forum rather than telling this person that their attitude suggested that they were the one getting fucked in the ass all day long. And I did end up seeing so and so #2 and it was ok, but definitely wasn't as good as so and so #1 probably would have been. It's all good, ill get her next time.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 88 reads
posted
11 / 30

Many bookers have severe ego issues, because tasting some of the power makes them power trip hard.  

 
They think they can say whatever they want whenevet they want to customers, and customers will still crawl to them.  

 
In most other service industries, many of these bookers with big egos would be booted pronto.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 79 reads
posted
12 / 30

Fortunately I've never encountered a booker/assistant with a bad attitude. I deal with very few of them anyway.  

 
I did have a problem once with the current Miss TER completely blowing off my scheduled appointment. Afterwards, I very politely emailed her assistant and asked what had happened so I could be assured that it wouldn't happen again. No response. THAT pissed me off.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 95 reads
posted
13 / 30

Thanks. I certainly don't envy your busy schedule.  I think that was a smart move as it sounds like you two, to some extent, were starting to talk past one another. Glad the backup was ok and hope that means enjoyable and not just "not the worst session I've had" type ok.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 98 reads
posted
14 / 30

Rather than ask WHEN she is available, which kind of requires him to recite her schedule for you, which they consider a time-suck, why not just state the time you want?  Further, if you are going to get back to him and not make an immediate yes or no decision, her schedule might change because there are other customers requesting appointments, too.  If she's not available at the time YOU request, the booker will give you the closest time to your request that she is available.  Then it's either a yes or no from you.  If you can't do it, then it's okay to ask who IS available at the time YOU requested for your first choice, and then you pick from those, or pass until a day when you can get the girl you first asked for.  There is nothing wrong with the booker expecting you to make a decision on the spot when he gives you the time the second girl was available.  Her schedule is also subject to change at any time.  This is a "snooze you lose" situation.  

 
Bookers like to be as efficient as possible, and asking open-ended questions consumed extra time.  They are usually managing four to ten girls at a time, and there are likely other customers backed up at the time they are texting with you, putting pressure on them to get you taken care of and onto the next customers who is waiting, so if you can word your request to make it a short answer for them, you will get a better attitude.  I'm surprised that this is the ONLY booker who has gotten short with you for asking in this manner.  

 
Time has always been the issue for me, too, so I clear time on my work schedule a day or two in advance and then find a girl to fit into that time slot rather than trying to arrange my schedule at the last minute to fit a provider's schedule.  I've had thousands of sessions with over a thousand different Kgirls, and I can count on one hand the times I requested a same-day appointment.  I let them know my situation early on in the relationship so they know they cannot play around with my appointment time once they have booked me or I will have to pass completely.  For me, it's easier to set my schedule and then find a girl to fit it.  Trying to change my own schedule and move meetings around at the last minute just doesn't work. The flip side is that I am always dependable in keeping the appointment.  I have only had to make a same-day cancellation a few times, twice when an aged parent unexpectedly went to the hospital, and once when someone rear-ended my car when I was on the way to the session.  

 
Finally, when a girl contracts to work for 3-4 weeks, the website schedule is not changed when her day off comes around.  You find out when you ask for her.  Girls are also left on the schedule when their monthly period arrives, because their regular customers will want to know when she is coming back so they can pre-book, whether it's the next day, or five days later.  Some customers have standing appointments for a particular day each week, but when mother nature calls, they have to skip that week.  Likewise if she has something she has to take care of like a medical or dental issue.  Most Kgirl veterans understand this and don't get upset if they see her on the schedule but are told when they text that she is not working that day.  These girls are independent contractors, not employees, and they work when they want to.  If that seems too flakey for some, then they picked the wrong way to get pussy and should stick with indies

MyStressRelief 93 reads
posted
15 / 30

I messaged a provider who was in city different from mine, politely intriduced myself, and requested she visi my city. Then a get a nasty, obnoxious reply form her booker about the request.
You would think showing interest would be a positive, not a negative thing.
I don't get it.

ickylib 146 reads
posted
16 / 30

I think what's even worse is the booker that completely ghosts me.  

I give whomever I reach out to ~1 day to give me a response.  

It's rude, unprofessional, and uncalled for - when they don't at least give a response that perhaps the gal is booked solid, or sick, or on extended vacation........etc.

porterhouse 103 reads
posted
17 / 30

Are you booking an actual date? NO.

You are suggesting she visits a specific town with nothing other than a "suggestion".  You're annoying her.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 91 reads
posted
18 / 30

Wеbsite-wise, really depends on the org. There are some orgs that update schedules every day and maybe even few times a day. Still, always best to get confirmation. Prebooking will definitely increase chances.

 
Then, I think cdls way of reserving a slot makes it more of a customer of an org rather than a girl. Probably has perks with bookers, but for example me I want to see particular girls. So I almost never will consider the replacements.

 

I'll give some advice because I have scheduled multiple back to back to back + sessions in a single day with three or more different orgs.

Now this is in the bay so things might be different.

 
This is what I do:

1. Pick one girl who is a must see who I want to see for sure. Plan the day and center it around this one.
2. Pick second girl who is next must see.  

Send text to booker 1 for time slot you want. Send text to booker 2 with time slot you want for 2. You can ask instead if the girl is available and estimate the time. You wait for both responses and juggle them around until you get the first two to settle into slots. Then I'd get the third or fourth ones with two slots set. Ive done this many times on the same day - it's not super easy, but doable. Bay area bookers are relatively patient tho. Once your initial slot doesn't work, you have time to ask around.  

 
Cdl will probably advise against orgs knowing that you're shopping, but I see nothing bad in it. On the contrary, it lets the orgs know you have alternatives as a buyer and if they try to hustle you and bump you off, you could just go next door to another girl from a different org.

-- Modified on 11/28/2022 9:46:21 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 86 reads
posted
19 / 30

Guys have gotten blacklisted for this because you know going in you are going to have to cancel ONE of them, and bookers HATE guys who book and then cancel.  Customers who book and are dependable to show up are prized and treated well in the future.  Those that don't . . . . not so much.  It's much better to have the booker tell you the girl you want is not available, offer you an alternative, and you politely decline.  Going on and off the schedule repeatedly like you recommend will eventually end badly for the customer.  Word gets around that you are a time-waster.  (See my 7 Deadly Kgirl Sins).   Orgs don't care if you have "alternatives as a buyer".  They would rather not have you at all than have you fucking with their scheduling like you suggest.  Sellers of ANYTHING want customers on terms they can live with, not customers at any cost.  Marketing 101.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 82 reads
posted
20 / 30

Nowhere did I say I ever canceled any slots once we agreed with the booker.  

 
Please re-read what I wrote. I schedule and SEE multiple girls in same day with an hour or half hour break in between. And in order to do that, I need to make sure I have the right girls at the right time.  

 
I don't book with both, and then cancel one. That's scummy. So once again, you're criticizing a point I've never made.
I've never wasted anyone's time.  

 
What I do is send one booker one ask for a slot with girl A at 12pm. If she is available, then I put it in stone. If not I ask what slots are open. After or sometimes In parallel I ask another booker whether girl B is available 1:30 pm. Ideally both are and then I get my slots. If they aren't, I'll juggle around schedules until I find two slots for both girls that works for me.  

 
My point is theres nothing wrong with them knowing you chose a different girl at a difft org because they didn't have slot you wanted. Of course, if your goal is to suck bookers dick and be butt buddies with them, by all means stay with them! I see girls not bookers, so if they can't accommodate me with girl I want in the slot I want, then too bad for them.

-- Modified on 11/29/2022 11:01:45 AM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 93 reads
posted
21 / 30

is exactly the kind of time-wasting I was referring to.  Juggling schedules requires multiple contacts to the bookers.  You can try to dress up your original post with more details, but it's still bad advice.  Sorry, wish I had better news for you.  

-- Modified on 11/29/2022 2:03:02 PM

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 76 reads
posted
22 / 30

Multiple contacts? Lol. if the booker says the slot is taken, they will offer another slot themselves most of the time. You're really making it a bigger deal than it is.  

 
You got bad news for me? I've shared how I go about scheduling back to backs on the same day in the bay area, and I've never had even a single issue doing this and I'm in good standing with all bookers.

 
But keep brown-nosing these bookers lol. I schedule things like I schedule everything else and you schedule things like a booker brown-noser would, pushing fears of bookers. If a customer asks for slot at 12 pm and it's taken, any bookwr here will try to accommodate other times. I feel bad for ya'll in LA where apparently it's a sin to schedule two appointments back to back with different girls. Lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 80 reads
posted
23 / 30

them an hour and a half apart, now you say it's "back to back".  You should get your made up story right in your own mind before you share it with others.  Just a suggestion, but you are free to change your story as many times as you want for the amusement of the rest of us.  Lol

 
If this is true, how about sharing the name of this booker or the org with the rest of the board, which is the question you most ask of others who talk about getting relaxed treatment from a booker.   Other guys here from the bay area, and those who travel there to hobby, may want to take advantage of your "system."  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 130 reads
posted
24 / 30

In the case where the org is in the same building, I can schedule back to back with no time in between. If it's different orgs I need at least 30 minutes and most often, an hour in between. It differs. Many orgs don't give appointment at half hour.  

 
Share the name of which booker? I do it with every booker. They don't really know I schedule with someone else unless they cancel on me and offer replacements (or they can't offer me any slots that work for me). Then I will say I chose someone else if I don't choose one of their alternatives.  

 
Im in every org in the bay except for LSC where I refuse to give up my paystub and driver license - so I was never in to start with. I can't remember the last time I haven't seen two girls from different orgs in the span of two hours. So, I've done this with every booker.  GFEI, LKS, SA, BGC, SKS, SPM,AA,VF, Cara's.  

 
The cool thing about bay area orgs, is that all orgs with few exceptions are in the same area, in SJ and SM. Its possible to literally  visit three orgs and fuck there different pussies not leaving the same block.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 72 reads
posted
25 / 30

you do all of this juggling of locations, girls and times and only have to contact each booker once . . . . . or do you want to change that part, too?  Just curious, when are you going to get reviews up for these orgs that currently don't have any from you, since "you have done this with every booker?"  After a few exchanges, I see you have come around to saying you are doing what I suggested in the first place, not what you originally said you are doing.  Changing your story a little at a time like this to end up agreeing with the other person is a gift.  Use it wisely.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 83 reads
posted
26 / 30

Unfortunately, I can't say that lacking reading comprehension is a gift. I suggest you invest into it!

 
"you do all of this juggling of locations, girls and times and only have to contact each booker once . . . . . or do you want to change that part, too?"

 
What do you mean by once? We text back and forth until we either settle on the slot or I say no thanks the slot doesnt work. If you count each text as one, then it's multiple. Usually it gets settled within 20 minutes so I view it as one interaction.  

 
I've also done the "I'll contact you later if I want to see that girl given her slot is still available" bit, but I don't do that very often AND I only do it if it's for a replacement that isn't my choice.

 
Going back to reading comprehension, I've said that I don't agree with you about 1)sites being not updated and about
2) focusing on booker as opposed to a girl and not shopping around

and agree with rest of it but you took offense.

 
" Just curious, when are you going to get reviews up for these orgs"
Which ones I don't have? Why is it so hard to believe I book two or three girls with half an hour or an hour between them? Lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 87 reads
posted
27 / 30

it takes multiple contacts to set all of this up and have completely changed your narrative from the beginning where you say you contact each booker to set up a session with a specific girl.  The more complicated this gets, the bookers will reach a tipping point where the time suck to set it up is not worth an hour's worth of revenue.  I'm not saying it's impossible to do, or that you have never done this, but my original point is that, generally, this is bad advice for others to follow and I stand by that.  If you can make this work on a regular basis, you are an outlier, not the norm.  When you are juggling girls as well as time, there are bound to be cancellations involved, and if you are really doing this, you should know that.  The only back to backs that work consistently are with roommates.  Once you have to leave one incall, go outside, and into another, there are issues with other mongers getting in and out with the roommates, which now impacts four providers instead of two.  

 
With regards to your last point, I do not find it hard to believe, but it raises the question as to why you don't have more reviews, or reviews close together for girls that were seen in the same building or at the same org.  Maybe you could point us in the direction of which of your reviews were roommates or in the same building when you saw them?  Reading the reviews may give others insights into the dynamics with the girls when you are following a plan like this.  Most reviewers seeing roommates will make a point to that effect at the end of the first review or the beginning of the second.  Granted, my scan of your reviews was cursory, but I didn't see any that seemed to indicate that the girl being reviewed was a roommate of another girl you are seeing that day, or that they were part of a multi-session day with more than one girl.  Do you not review girls you see on this plan?  Are you deciding not to review certain girls where the service was bad?  I note that you have criticized others for doing that.  There seems to be a disconnect in the advice you are giving on this board when trying to find examples where you have done it and it worked.  Why is that?

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 81 reads
posted
28 / 30

I did not change any narratives. I stand by exactly what I said. You clarifed some aspects that weren't too clear to you and now you're acting as I'm changing the narrative, I'm not and never have. I shared my experience, and seemingly you have no experience of your own booking three different girls with three different orgs with some buffer in between. Alas.  

 
As far as your second question, again I suggest investing into reading comprehension and also common sense.

Im pretty sure I've said that I see girls usually from different orgs in a row. Sometimes I do schedule with girls from the same org. But it's rare

 
"Maybe you could point us in the direction of which of your reviews were roommates or in the same building when you saw them?  Reading the reviews may give others insights into the dynamics with the girls when you are following a plan like this. "  

Why? It's the same as seeing girls separately. Do you really want me to give everyone a public discourse who Rocketman saw back to back so orgs know who I am on the boards? I believe you forgot I'm a anonymous monger and I don't want orgs to know who I am on the boards. Just like you when allegedly you use an alias to review indies.  

 
And yes, there are girls on my review list who I've seen back to back, either with buffer or without it. You have to know which girls were at which org at the time and remember that I won't review both girls at the same time to not show who I am.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 84 reads
posted
29 / 30

not reasons.  If you are as low volume as your number of reviews seem to indicate, nobody is going to be able to guess who you are, but if you think you are really that important to the BA orgs, then that makes at least ONE person who thinks that way.  Lol

 
When I was relatively new like you I often did two a day, one in the morning, and then another a few hours later after a nice lunch, but I found that this was too much of a time suck, because it took me a whole day away from my businesses, so I changed to doing 2 hour sessions on all repeats.  I got the same face time, and the benefit was that I got a lot closer to a lot more girls than when doing one-hour sessions.  It was one of the best decisions I made about this business.  

 
Have you actually done this at least once, because your number of reviews hardly support your narrative that this is a normal practice for you?  You wouldn't be the first guy here with a total disconnect between what you say and what your review history is showing.  We're going in circles, so go ahead and have the last work, it's what you live for.  I will still read it, whether it's repetitive or some new excuse you haven't used yet.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 81 reads
posted
30 / 30

Like I've said, I can't remember the last time I haven't seen at least two girls within two hours of each other.  
So, I pretty much always do it.  

 
I forgot that you're in LA where driving from point a to b can take forever. A couple of weeks back I saw two girls in SJ and then went to the Pen for another and it took me 40 mins of driving. Driving between spots in SJ was 10 mins. It's great. Everything so close.  

 
And no, I raise enough of a shitstorm on forums that I bet orgs would love to know who I am. That's not an excuse. Besides, the shill that talks to you also wanted to get me banned by orgs for posting shit online... and that shill doesn't lose money when I tell truth about orgs/girls. Orgs/girls do.

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