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SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 121 reads
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No.. But I use the ID to set appointments.  You, on the other hand, have to resort to alias so you can speak your mind because you are too afraid to do so under your real id..  This is too preliminary to even have to be explained.

I asked this on my Twitter but I will ask the question here.
Gents uf you plan a dinner date with a provider do you pick her up at her location?
Do you expect to her walk a few blocks in the cold at night with heels on to the restaurant?Not to mention a light rain.

I go on dinner dates quite frequently.  
Recently in Omaha a gent thought it was perfectly ok to request a dress and heels.Suggested on more than one occasion that I should walk to restaurant alone at night.  
First time I've encountered this.

It really gives us sick pleasure of watching a woman shiver in cold weather.   Personally, I take $100 off donation if she wears anything warm. I also make her walk back alone in cold weather. Another $50 off if she even mentions Uber / Lyft.  

 
And for dinner, we go Dutch.

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plan on picking her up at her location unless she stated otherwise.

If it was a long walk from the parking lot to the restaurant and/or inclement weather, I'd plan on dropping her off as close to the restaurant front door as possible unless she stated otherwise.

I've encountered similar circumstances (long walk, inclement weather) on two past lunch dates where I offered to drop her off at the restaurant front door. Both times she said it wasn't necessary because her legs worked just fine.

When I plan a dinner date, we'll meet me at my hotel, and no matter how far or if it's the next build over, we'll cab it.
I'm very condesent that she's wearing heels, and I'm pretty sure they're killing her so the less walking, the better.

call out a guy slurring his words during happy hour.  Lol

That's the way to go, Happy and is the most considerate approach.

Maybe you're not buying the right size heels for yourself for "dress-up" night.   Lol

...but when I do, we travel over and back together.

I'm the Most Interesting Dinosaur in the World! ;)

John_Laroche137 reads

He had to sell his Chevy Nova to pay for this date.

Steve_Trevor115 reads

I wouldn’t use that term for him.

When I plan a dinner date, I'll either pick her up at her location or if it's an outcall, she'll meet me at my hotel and we'll take a taxi to the restaurant.  Letting a lady walk to the restaurant by herself, especially at night is crazy and not safe.

...i never drive...always have limo or car service for transport....always want to chat on the way to dinner...hoping would to busy on way home after...also i always pay upfront for 12hrs after..so there is transport morning after...just in case..

answering her like it's a REAL question..  After 25 pages of reviews, and 10+ yrs in the business,  you guys don't think she would have figured this out by now..  

 
C'mon guys. Don't be such suckers..  

 
All she is looking for is exposure..  

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Newto1000109 reads

Maybe you should get her a Uber account as a Christmas present.  Making 1K plus on a dinner date and can't arrange a cab or Uber.  SMH

I don't give much attention to attention seekers like her.. LOL..  

 
She can get it herself, or have one of these manginas get one for her.. I am sure some of these guys will be tripping over themselves wanting to help her..

you could've just skipped my post.
Or put me on ignore. You seem to be very uptight every time I post here.
Not sure what you problem is I could really care less whatever it is.  
I have every right to post here just as you do. I don't come under your posts with bs.

I must've declined to see you at some point.
You sound very butt hurt get laid more perhaps you'll have a better attitude.Or probably not. lmao

You blast her because you don't "like he"r? Her question was nothing to get your pants in a wad about. Frankly I thought wth when I first read your post to her, and figured you were PUI.  

But I see you are right back at it and then some.  While you may think her question is a "duh", some newer ladies can learn that no it's not okay to expect a lady to walk alone at night like that. If they dare show themselves on the GDB.  

Wow!

Steph

Good lawd....

 
Do you guys think that I am a raging alcoholic and constantly drinking..LOL.. OK.. Occasionally I have a few beers and get on here.. That, however, was not the case yesterday.  

 
Disdain for her posts is a direct result that some providers use this space to post threADS. Back when old crowd was posting, did you ever hear me express animosity towards females.. I had a great time going back and forth with that crowd.  This particular batch.. Lame as they get.. Here is the thing.. If she posts better threads, I may support her and respond kindly..  

 
I like you Steph.. Stay out of it..

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"Stay out of it"??...Do you hear yourself?? You like bossing women around? She doesn't have an opinion?.. You know you're not looking good here.
Word of advise...walk away, this post never existed.

And we all didn't get the memo. He is a clown.
Nothing about him is a gentleman at all

RespectfulRobert138 reads

He is an entitled, misogynistic loser who LOVES to trash nice women. He thinks he is the board police basically telling MatureGfe to "shut up, this is MY board." What a clown. I am glad he is now fully exposed as the woman hater he truly is.

And you are a pussy who attacks others from behind an alias..

RespectfulRobert111 reads

You are so good at doing the attacking but not so good taking some heat I see!  
Btw, did your parents name you Curly??????? We are all using alias's tough guy but keep on believing you don't!!!!!  Lol

No.. But I use the ID to set appointments.  You, on the other hand, have to resort to alias so you can speak your mind because you are too afraid to do so under your real id..  This is too preliminary to even have to be explained.

RespectfulRobert109 reads

You use the ID to set appointments???? What else do you do that none of us could verify to prove to yourself how brave you really are? Typical board bully response. Now rush to respond to this post too! Damn bro, this is really a bad look for you but feel free to keep on going. Your meltdown is now only 99% complete. :)

Yes, that's how I have been setting up appointments for 20 yrs..  

 
Still doesn't answer why you have to hide behind one though..  

 
I am done w/ you and this thread..  

RespectfulRobert138 reads

But don't feel too bad as you did manage to accomplish one thing though....your meltdown now is 100% complete.  ;)

I've counted at least four direct replies by you to him, five if you count this one

 
Forgive me for being skeptical of your statement since it's contradicted in this very thread. Lol.

a bunch of times.  Saying this late that you don't respond to bullies because you're getting your ass kicked rings a little hollow.  Lol   You should have stopped responding once you saw he was winning.  It's a little late now.

RespectfulRobert92 reads

"Answering" someone (i.e. replying to a post) and "answering to" someone (i.e. being subservient) are two, totally different concepts. If Curly paid you two dunces to WK for him, you owe him a refund.

Note that I didn't insult you, unlike yourself.
I merely said it's a contradiction. And I don't see what there is to be subservient to in this context.  

 

You thinking any monger pays another monger is pretty bad too.
Is that what providers do to their white knights?

an oxymoron.  As you can see, he is anything but respectful.  I know him from another board, and have learned that when he is holding his own, he at least tries to be civil, but when he gets behind in points and has no more substantive argument, he resorts to the school yard insults.  I think suggesting that WE are the ones who need to get a GED is a projection of his own insecurities with his lack of formal education.  Too bad.   I like him better when he is making reasonable arguments, but when he falls behind, the REAL lack-of-respect-Robert comes to the fore.

My conjecture - - might be a far-fetched one that doesn't quite adhere to Occam's razor -- is that "respectful" is really only meant for providers.  On some "so many disrespectful mongers but I'm respectful" stuff...otherwise it's like calling yourself LiteraryRobert when joining a book club.
Redundant when you realize everyone is supposed to literary... and in this case, respectful.  

 
Anyway this isn't meant as an ad hominem in any way. Just my theory on what respectful stands for. I don't have any beef with RR.

"Do [I] think that [you are] a raging alcoholic and constantly drinking?" So Curly, I don't know you, haven't met you, and I don't think I've ever interacted with you on these Boards before. But to answer your question, by God I hope you're a raging alcoholic and constantly drinking and drunk or stoned off your ass because if you're posting this hateful, argumentative, nonsense in a sober and lucid state you need professional help badly. You have taken a very benign post from a very nice and well respected lady and turned it into a complete shit show. You've attacked everyone who has criticized your hateful behavior [I'm sure you'll attack me next], and attacked Jaydalee for posing a simple question which most likely reflects a poor experience that she had on a date for which she was/is seeking guidance from hobbyists and providers. And it's not like you've had a poor experience with Jaydalee yourself, because you say you've never seen or met her. And it's not like Jaydalee's shilling because she's very well respected, appears to be well-booked, and is a good contributor to the Boards, especially the Las Vegas Board. And if her goal was to create a ThreAD as you suggest did you notice that she didn't even post a link to her website like she does on the Ad Boards. If she was shilling or ThreAding wouldn't she have done that? In my opinion, you just randomly selected Jaydalee's post to attack. Bad decision. So Curly, give it a rest. Find another hill to die on, because on this hill you've exposed yourself to scorn from your peers and providers alike.
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And, in 3, 2, 1, here comes more hateful nonsense from Curly.

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I can no longer see his posts as he is on ignore. I'm not going back and forth with a guy who has nothing better to do then be here alllll day long responding to everything. Can't seem to control his emotions and is clearly very miserable.
He is very ignorant he seems to think everything I post here is threAD. I pay a significant amount of money a month to advertise on multiple sites probably more than his nonexistent hobby budget.
I rarely post a thread here on this board as it is.

 
This is not the first time he has came with some bs when I made a post here. He is very bothered. lol
An asshole will eventually show his colors I've been on this board for years with the guys who always had something to say and even they didn't react like this to a question. His quote "provider friends" none who are still here or even mention they are friends with him here. He is delusional and a nutcase.

If you don't like her post, ignore it and move on.Better yet, put her on ignore...My gawd man, this is a harmless post .You know you don't have to chime on all the post here. You really should lighten up...

My beef is that GD board is not a place for providers to advertise, and posts like these are borderline ads, without actually being ads. So I call them out from time to time. It's as simple as that..  

 
What you say has value.. "Move on and ignore if you don't like"   But my criticism of such threADs has some value as well.  

 
You just don't want GD board to be another AD board, do you?

Nothing more nothing less...I didn't see it as what you'd call a ThreAD..You're reading way to much in this..She's based in Vegas and posting on the general board and she was just asking. I'm sure in the whole grand scheme of things, this probably wasn't worse diving into, was it?
But If I may... there seems to be a bully mentality upon some posters here. They feel it gives them some kind of cred, a sort of tough guy image that they want to portray....and your post comes off that way.
Wish most would just chill, see this board for what it's all about and have fun with. Man don't be so uptight
And no one made you the poster board police. C'mon, we have enough assholes here ....don't make it worse.

It was a made up situation man.. Good Lord.. Learn to read between lines..  I don't think even 18 yr old barely adult girl needs help with that kind of question..

RespectfulRobert138 reads

How brave of him.  
And this is FAR from his first and he will not change. Misogynists never do. Btw, did you notice racist CDL leaped in to protect him? What does that tell you???? Misogynists and racists look out for each other I guess. Great. :(

He has never been racist towards me.. I don't care what you guys do on P&R board.. Things can go crazy there..  

 
These days it's fashionable to call people labels like that.. I get it..  

 
I don't hate women, but at the same time I don't feel they are superior to men either. In a truly equitable world, we should be able to have a dialogue w/o calling each other names and assigning labels.

RespectfulRobert122 reads

It is obvious in their actions and words...and yet, you felt the need to say it.  
This just in Curly......misogynists (much like racists, homophobes, etc) never admit to being such. Think it over.

"Nuance" you won't understand...

 
When accused of being one you have to say it.. I didn't come out and beat my chest that I wasn't one.  

 
But as I said, "nuance" you won't get..

It was a real situation that happened to me during my recent travels.
I asked for opinions people responded he was one of the first responses with his smart ass.

Where does she live, does she have a car, where are we going, etc.?

 
I'd say that just over half the time, I end up picking up the gal and driving them to and from the hotel and restaurant, unless they are coming over to stay with me and I'm doing the cooking.

I pick her up if dinner is first, usually meeting in the lobby. Unless the weather is nice and the distance is short, we don't walk. If it is in a place where driving and parking will be impractical (e.g., Midtown Manhattan or downtown DC) we take a taxi, Uber, or something similar). If she is local and parking isn't an issue, sometimes we will meet at the restaurant.

If you are taking her to dinner, you presumably want it to feel like a real date, so act accordingly.

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John_Laroche123 reads

I'm guessing that he wasn't much of a tipper either.  

 
Win some, lose some.

Omaha.  Omaha is NOT known for its ample supply of sophisticated men.  

I have never been within a hundred mies of Omaha and hold no brief for it. However, not everyone in a place is the same.  

I believe that Warren Buffett (Oracle of Omaha) still spends a lot of time in Omaha. Jaydalee, if you had a date with an 80+ something man in Omaha who checked all of the boxes for Warren Buffett (but you didn't know for sure it was him), would you do it? I think many women would, and I think many women would get a hall pass from husbands, wives, or other SOs whether they were pro, SB, or civvies just to hear what it was like and what he said. If nothing else, it might be very educational pillow talk if a gal is interested in finance.

He apparently got around a lot in his younger days and perhaps still does too. Long before his first wife died he had an open relationship with his wife and his (most open?) mistress to the point where he, the first wife, and the mistress sent out their personal Christmas cards from all three of them.  The then-mistress is now the second wife.

He is apparently a guy of simple tastes in some regards - during a sound check for a radio interview on Marketplace he said that his breakfast in Manhattan that morning was a carton of milk and a bag or Oreos from a nearby convenience store. However, I doubt if he is going to have his date totter down cold sidewalks in heels for dinner even if no stretch limos are involved and I doubt if dinner would involve milk and Oreos but might involve air travel to NYC.

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to have a reading comprehension problem.  Read my post again.  I just said Omaha was not known for their "ample supply of sophisticated men."  I did NOT say there were none.  Nevertheless, you managed to come up with ONE that you BELIEVE is sophisticated, based on what you have read about him.   Granted, he is very sophisticated in business, but not so much socially, at least not when I met him in the year 2000.  Since you have never been to Omaha, and have no personal knowledge of what their typical non-billionaire men are like, you are really just speculating and don't really know if what I said is correct, or not, so why the necessity of calling me out only to end up looking foolish and unsophisticated yourself?  

 
 When you only have ONE example of something, it's usually considered an "outlier", even if it's a billionaire.  Even then, how sophisticated does a guy sound that has a carton of milk and a bag of Oreos for breakfast in a city like New York?  You have torpedoed your own point about sophistication and Omaha.  Your conclusion in the last paragraph contains "doubt", "doubt" and "might."  That's called SPECULATION.  Maybe you should confine your comments to things you KNOW rather than things you are guessing about, especially when attempting to dispute something someone else said?  It will make you look a little smarter.  Just a suggestion, you are free to disagree.

To the ones who actually answered the question. I appreciate your responses.

Majority got what I was asking.
Have a great week!
Despite some negative comments here I have every right to post here just like any other man or provider.
So nice try this provider of 10+yrs will still be here

Thought this board was about interacting?Didn't know it was a board for hobbyists to talk to only hobbyists where providers have to ask permission to post now. That's why damn near no providers post here now.
I've never had someone come under my posts with such toxic and negatives vibes. What a miserable human being.

So glad majority of the gents  here are actually seeing providers not just on the board seeking attention from other men.

RespectfulRobert175 reads

He really is a disgrace and misogynistic to his core. It was you this week, Chloe Mercier a few weeks back, and many, many more wonderful women before her.  
Some "men", to try and show their knuckle dragging, Neanderthal gender "superiority", feel the need to trash fantasy providing women.  
Thankfully, he is not in the majority here, as most guys are gents, but he also isn't the only one. He and his ilk are truly pathetic so try and pay them no attention.

feel the need to kiss every provider's ass, put them on a pedestal and fawn all over them like schoolboys even though they have never met them nor do they know what they are like in person.  I'm not one of these.  

 
I respect every provider that comes on this board.   After that, it's theirs to lose by what they post.  Most of you that have been here years know I don't give hobbyist-members a pass when they say something stupid, and I don't see any reason to treat the provider-members any differently.  So again, I start out giving ALL of them more respect than some of them deserve, but my level of respect or disdain can go up or down from there depending on how they conduct themselves here.  I don't see any reason why I should treat the ladies any differently than I treat the guys.  To do so sounds like genderism to me.  I believe in treating everyone the same.  If they don't like being treated equally, then this is not the right place for them.  

Couldn't have said better.. Despite of my long hiatus from 2015-2021, I have been on the boards for a long time, and a monger even longer..  

 
I have seen all kind of guys and gals that come thru here.. Nothing surprises me anymore.

And you say you have a "non Kgirl" handle, am I right? I do recall something like that...If I'm wrong my apologies and never mind...My Bad
But if you do have this other handle, would you have posted your response to this thread using you other handle the so call non-Kgirl handle...or for that matter any of your call out post?
See it's easy to fire away here using a KGirl handle, it's kinda like a alias...you can BS here all you want because the Kgirl won't call you out, or thier bookers won't call you out and that's for sure. Now a regular girl, who frequents these boards might say you're "full of shit"..anyways, it's just a thought

It is my understanding that folks are not allowed to have 2 accounts at the same time like that. In fact, in the old days when they would find that a provider used monger's PC to post something, they would suspend the accounts.  So a device showing 2 logins like that would get flagged..

 
Yes, there is a way to get around that, and I know how to do it, but I don't expect people to fess up that they have multiple accounts.. At least not publicly like you are suggesting he does.

savvy enough to know how to defeat the ban on more than one account, but I don't need it anyway.  One username and one alias at a time is enough for me.  

members to have more than one account, and with your one account, you get one username and one alias.  The alias can be changed every six months.  A username can be changed periodically as well, because CDL is the not username I started with when joined in 2008.  CDL first appears here in 2015.  To my knowledge, there is no such thing as a "Kgirl handle."  CDL is my registered username and it's the name I use for all board posts.  CDL gets PM's from both Kgirls and indie providers because that's the name I use on all discussion boards.  I'm failing to see your point.  If you read the TER rules, you can learn everything else regarding usernames on your own.  I'm just sharing the basics because it sounds like you are under the misapprehension that I have more than one account.  I don't.  I have used different usernames and aliases during my time here, but only serially, never concurrently.   Anything I have to say, I have no problem using my official username that  my account is under.

Newto1000127 reads

Bullshit.  I am not defending Curly because we are both avid fans of the same baseball team.  Some of his posts are snarky and nasty but who gives fuck.  I find them to be a welcome relief from the pablum and total crap that pours forth from some posters, particularly you Respectful Robert.   When are you ever going to learn that the hookers on this board don't really respect you, aren't really dating you and don't give a fuck about you.  Your obsequious posts are total hokum and are more nauseating that anything Curly has ever said.

You're dealing with Jonathan from Carnal Knowledge.  There comes a time that a person has so wrapped themselves in bitterness, resentment and alienation that negativity and belligerence are all that can make them feel alive. It's the player version of when a working girl spirals down into total BSC-dom.

I am not on here too often anymore.
Certainly not surprised. Men like him are too busy trying to get pats on the backs from others who think and are just like him. Like the ones who like to push boundaries continually show up to a providers location hours ahead of appt after asking for the location days in advance and then decide to post a not so nice review of course omitting all of his bs.
Hey what can you do? What I will keep doing is posting here him and guys like him are not running me off this board or website. If they think they can they should think again.

No wonder you are not here often. It sucks when someone can go off the rails berating your posts and you and accusing you of not having any class-while admitting verbally to hating  you. When called
Out for being the one without class managed to get the incriminating part of the thread pulled  and the rest of the thread remains.

I think that would be an easy and relatively simple way to show a little courtesy to a lady. I sure wouldn't suggest she walk anywhere she doesn't feel comfortable. I want my date ready for fun, and not of the fight or flight variety.

I think it would kind of depend. Like the one time I had a meal with a lady, we had fun at her place, I drove in my rental (I was on vacation so I had a rental) to the spot and then went back to her place for more fun.  

But let’s say it’s dinner and then fun and she’s touring, I would probably meet her at her hotel and we’d go to a place that’s walking distance (or a quick Uber ride away).  

(Granted I know this isn’t the same thing), this one woman I’ve seen has a game day package where we go to a Knights or Raiders game and we have 2 hours of private time afterwards. From the description, it sounds like she arranges her own transportation to the game.

Is Curly a real clown, with a soiled clown costume and squeezable nose?  Smelly and dangerous?  

It’s so upsetting to me when people fight, I get confused.  So confused.

Why don't we all draw a line under this conversation and move on. I don't think this thread is making any of the participants feel good. There is plenty of grist for any mill that will help someone make decisions about a participant in the thread already.

If I am away for business out of town in a big city, I would likely have her visit me outcall at my hotel. Generally this would give us the opportunity to share a glass or two of wine in my room, to get to know one another, and perhaps a bit of early dessert.  I would generally work with the concierge and choose a restaurant within a block or two so we could walk if it was a nice evening.  If the hotel was farther away or if it was winter or raining, then I would expect us to Uber or cab it. I would not expect a lady to walk to walk far in the cold or rain, and I would NEVER expect her to travel alone to meet me (a stranger who she would not recognize by sight at a busy restaurant). I would be afraid to do anything else as my mother would likely haunt me for being so rude. ;)  I was raised with multiple sisters, and my dad taught me very early (and not always kindly) how to be a gentleman!  ;)

What dinner? The only dining I do during my sessions is at the V! Sorry to be crude, but in ten years I have not taken a provider to dinner! I also rarely see a provider if the temperature is below 50 or raining, and never once in the snow! Sorry but I am a fair weather hobbyist in LA, and I stick to my business. I will say I have never made a provider travel in bad weather for an appointment! That’s not right!

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