Most people marry their own type, but when it comes to a fling, do you have a nationality (other than your own) that you are inexplicably attracted to?

Although I am currently trying to convince a certain Aussie woman to come to the U.S. without her tag along, hairy legged dude. But I digress.

1. Italian
2. British
3. Latino or African American (equally attracted)
4. Oriental

That meaning people who share the same concerns and gravitate toward the same things I'm drawn to.

....in fact I even married one! I also love latinas, tho it is a fine Asian lady who can really get my engine running

But thanks for the feedback!

A long lost love or meaningful person from your past seems to shape your preferences/attractions

Oriental is antiquated when referencing people. It's still commonly used in referencing furniture. If I were a table, I'd be Early American. Jk.

Such as an Oriental rug, or trading goods.

...and have been with many of various races from black to Latina to white to Asian and various shades in between.

ladies with blonde hair and tan skin.

Though I have met some women who were out of this world.

8o)

A good looking woman, is a good looking woman.  

Just...damn.

I'm Asian, and attracted to white girls.  Blonde or brunette spinners,  Italians with an overall olive tone do it for me.  No gingers, no pale soft, fleshy Irish.  Recently went to Bali, and really got into brown Asian girls.  I may like Thai, but from what little I've seen, many have pug noses that bug me for some reason. So, there.  

The beauty of this hobby is that we have the opportunity to make these choices and even have this discussion. Most of us don't have these options available in civilian life. I have seen and enjoyed women from across the racial and ethnic spectrum and when I DATY, they all look and taste pretty much the same.

what I prefer. It is different from woman to woman. Sort of organic... something about her will attract me, and when I feel it, I know it and don't really question it.  

Although I'm South Asian I often get lumped into the "Asian" Or "Oriental" category as well. I thought I would take a quick minute to add my two cents. I've heard from my "Pan-Asian" friends that Oriental is an incredibly racist term since it was coined by the colonizers and talks about them as being "other". They do not mind it when Oriental is being reference to objects, but just like its better to call a Hispanic woman a Latina (best to err on the safe side of things in my view), its also best to call a person when in doubt "Asian" and not Oriental. With Indian people the preferred term is either Indian or South Asian when you are unsure of their background as they could be Pakistani, Afghan, Nepali or even Sri Lankan just to be politically correct.

Very basics, like being truthful, all the rest will work itself out.

I'm white, but I've had a strong Asian preference ever since I was a teenager. I just like the way a lot of Asian look. When it comes to non-Asian women, I prefer I dark hair, petite, soft features, etc. (in other words, features that many Asian women have). I love other women too, but all things being equal, I'll go Asian.

Oriental is about as racist as calling a black person black instead of "African American" only the most sensitive and politically correct people will get upset about it.

and for the record the root of the word has nothing to do with being "other". The word comes from the Spanish word "oriente" which means east.

Please lets not allow political correctness infect even fuckboards, although it's apparent that ship has already sailed.

I don't have a 'type' at all and I really enjoy it when I am attracted to what is inside.   Now, let me be clear, I am not beyond picking someone simply for the wrapping but I agree with your conclusion.   I travel and sometimes I just don't have enough information, in those circumstances, my eyes dictate the selection.

While many women differentiate themselves as being Latin, I have noticed many ladies branding themselves as Colombian.  Well, shouldn't it work both ways?    Maybe I should get a discount?  

Not a lot of experience with Indian women OR the Kama sutra but both really turn me on.

Why is "Latina" preferable to "Hispanic" in your little PC world?

and how did you come up with the idea that calling a Pakistani or Nepalese person "Indian" is PC? South Asian I can buy, but Pakistanis et al are most definitely NOT Indian, I would think that someone from that part of the world would know better.

Once again. lets' PLEASE check our political correctness at the fuckboard door. It really should have no place on a forum for hookers and johns.

Now it is true that many Asian women get married simply for a green card, but that doesn't mean that many don't actually prefer white guys.

That reminds me of a Thai girl I dated briefly a couple years ago, (and yes, she was a hooker) I broke it off pretty quickly with her as I could tell that she was desperate to get married to stay here and "homey don't play that", but we remained friends. AAR she found herself a white guy to marry who she plainly didn't love, which you would think would bolster your point, but the funny thing is, her boyfriend was also white, and not even rich. lol

The truth of the matter is, Asian women are just like ll other women, they like what they like, and there is no real accounting for why any of us are attracted to who we are attracted to.

and I love them all. There are some really great ladies from everywhere. I love learning about the cultural differences in love making. But I'm most attracted to mature ladies. Does that count as a nationality? Kidding aside, I love the little nuances from the different ethnicities I've had the pleasure to meet. Of course there are exceptions to everything, but in my experience I've found Asian women have incredible nipples, and lovely skin. Love the long dark hair too. African American, Native American, and Indian women have beautifully textured skin. British and French women have those killer accents. Eastern European women are a bit more serious (which means they'll be on time), but fun loving nonetheless. Latina and Italian women are hot blooded. They'll love you like there's no tomorrow. Just don't piss them off. American women are very adventurous, and free in spirit (which means, if they're running late, oh well).

I too don't go for white girls with overly pale skin, that "too white" skin has such a short shelf life of being soft and smooth, and good skin is VERY important to me. I also am not really attracted to women with very dark skin, I guess the term is "blue black", The good news for me is that there are at literally BILLIONS of women in the middle. lol

But I suppose when you throw out too old, too young, too fat, too ugly, etc. I am down to only millions of women that I am attracted to, but I guess I can live with that. lol

It must be an Asian thing bro.  I am totally into blonde white girls.  Blue eyes are very attractive to me for some reason.  Asians are next but I am quite picky on which nationality of Asians.  Korean>Japanese>Chinese>Vietnamese.  Then Latinas.  I never tried any other race, but maybe one day I'll do a international tour thing lol.  
I also love Anna Kendricks.  Even though she looks a bit weird some times, I think it's the mouth thing, but she is cute as hell.

I can taste the difference between a woman of African descent and other women, I know the PC Police who think we are all the same are going to be outraged, but I can almost always taste the difference when going down on a black girl.

Notice, I didn't say anything about it tasting bad, just different. If it tasted bad I would have quit doing it years ago, but I guarantee you if you gave me a "blind taste test" I could pick out the black pussy 9 out of 10 times.

Before flaming me, I suggest that everyone go out and do your own taste test, even if you disagree with me, you'll have a great time doing research. lol

Buddy, here is the truth about Asian women.  If they just came over, they don't like white guys because they were trained to only like Asian men.  If they do hook up with white dudes, it's usually for money or citizenship.

But must admit.....there is something about Colombian women !

You are showing your age by using "slope" I don't know if any one has used that one since the Vietnam War era.

and I hope you noticed how I made sure to differentiate "jap" from "JAP" I didn't want Conan to stick his big Jewish nose into it. lol

How DARE you use the word oriental, when we all know you meant to say Gook. Or at least that's what I would guess you meant after your difficulties scheduling with that K Girl lol

I didn't want you to regret not including it later tonite when you are 2 sheets into a 3 sheet night. LOL

Anyone who really gets upset over the use of the word "oriental" really needs to get over themselves. The same as people of African descent who get upset over being called "black" Now what is truly offensive to many is being called "Asian American" when you were born and raised here, or even worse being called "African American" when you are lets say Bahamian, or Brazilian.

I used to call my buddy's GF who was Bahamian, "African American" just to piss her off. She is turn would say "I will cut you" in the heaviest Island accent she could muster.

See, that's the problem with attempting to be PC, there simply is no end to it. Whatever you say, there is still going to be somebody who takes offense over it.

It doesn't matter if you are from Colombia, Nicaragua, or even Brazil. To some blancos, all Hispanics are Mexican. Carlos Mencia did a funny bit on that a few years back.

Speaking of Puerto Ricans there is a rather popular provider here in Dallas who is Puerto Rican, she was amazed when I asked if she were a "PR", she too told me that almost everyone assumed that she was Mexican.

As someone of mixed race myself, people always guess wrong about my nationality, the usual question I get is "What are you???" I quit getting upset about it decades ago, unless they are REALLY fucking stupid and press all the right buttons. lol

and I am sure we also agree, it would have been better if the ship had never sailed in the first place.

Why don't you start with YOU?

I would think that if youre Pakistani, you'd get a twinge annoyed to be called Indian, but what do I know?

I have a friend who is Puerto Rican and she literally gets PISSED if someone calls her mexican.  I'm sure she's good with Hispanic or Latina

I heard Clint Eastwood use it about 50 times in Gran Torino. Funny shit in that flick. He was todays Archie Bunker in that film. lol

Russian women are beautiful, but don't give him that warm and fuzzy feeling

I say, sink that fucking ship!

...you are missing out if you limit yourself. I'm kind of partial to this extraterrestrial beauty...

I remember as a young teen some "asshat" told me that Asian woman had horizontal pussies. He said you have to eat it like you "play a harmonica".  

Not that I deny that what you are talking about doesn't happen, but I think your percentages are completely out of whack.

BTW I am a product of one of those interracial marriages and while that kind of thinking was prevalent in the mid twentieth century, times have changed a LOT.

I would be more than happy to take your wager, but proving a winner with anything more than anecdotal evidence would be impossible. So I will leave it with "in my experience, which is considerable" this has not been the case, although I will allow that my slanted eyes and knowledge of many Asian cultures has gotten me a LOT of OTC time with FOB Asian Hookers. So I don't discount what you are saying completely, just that I think you are overstating it by quite a bit.

Gambler, I am not saying those scenario are 100%.  Of course there are plenty of exceptions.  Are there Asian ladies who just came over and fall in love with a white dude?  Yeah plenty, but majority of them still prefers Asian men.  It's not a knock on white dudes, but it's just how those ladies are brought up.  Many Asian cultures consider marring outside their race as something negative and that's a fact.  If you ask a fresh off the boat lady whether they'll marry a white dude or Asian dude with the same social and economical attributes, you can bet your ass they'll pick the Asian dude more than 50% of the time.  It's just how they are brought up.

Yep. It's just me and former Senator Robert Byrd, trying to keep the KKK going.

a little bit "cunty", right? lol

and for the record, we barely scratched the surface, having slanted eyes in the deep, deep south back as far as the mid 70's, I am sure there are very few Asian ethnic slurs that have not been directed my way at one point or another, and that is just by my friends, you should hear what the people who don't like me have to say. lmao

I'm going to have to cancel that request for a date with a K girl.

and I can usually tell the difference between Pakistani and Indian, but when you get into Nepalese vs Tibetan. Or Laotian vs Cambodian, the lines get a little blurrier, and PC or not, we have to call them "something", right?

To be honest with you, I usually try to do exactly as you suggest, and I am pretty good at guessing national origins, but what do you call someone who has a mother from Guatemala and a father from Argentina??? I know, we call that person "messican" right? lol

...and since you are not a fan of green, how about this version?

Anytime, I am not hiding behind an alias! As if I didn't know who you are

and then there are the mistakes that can turn into fighting words, like mistaking a Serb from Croatian or an Albanian from a Turk. Those types of mistakes can mean unexpected dental work. lol

And call Pakistani people Pakistani, and call Guatemalan people Guatemalan.  

I think you would have blasted us only a few months ago.

Hehe, that's cool.  It's ok to disagree.  That's the fun part of this forum anyways.  It would be boring if everyone thinks the same.  Good chat gambler.

I kinda forget my Asian joke about GaG, though. Something about being hungry an hour after eating him, right?

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I think you would have blasted us only a few months ago.  
   
 I think you relaxed your PC stuff a bit when you made an Asian joke about GaG. I am sure that felt very liberating. LOL

Does it count as a racial slur when the dudes who hang out by the corner store in my neighborhood call me a "thick-ass white girl?" Because if so, I too have suffered.

Tall, dark (s&p is my fav), and muy guapo lol works. If he can move...(yes has rhythm lol)...super duper bonus and I will swoon lol. So whatever flavor flav that fits as far as an actual classification works for me. I don't believe in those anyway. We're all mixed of many things no matter what color we are our come from.  

ome girls give me money
Some girls buy me clothes
Some girls give me jewelry
That I never thought I'd own

We can't always count on you to make stupid and provocative statements. I have in fact done exactly what you suggest  and seen dozens of providers and I can attest that you are full of shit. They all taste the same. Maybe your funky breath is influencing your taste buds.

When I've asked my friends who are, you know, Indian but not actually Indian, they've all told me the correct descriptor is BROWN!  Are you kidding me?  A blonde blue-eyed white girl can not say "brown people."

They are admiring that ass, it's a compliment. That girl has legs that go all the way up and make a fabulous ass of themselves is absolutely, positively an admiration.  

When she fucks my mind first, she's got me hooked. And the fucking of my mind can be done with playful banter or even just a look. I am an eye guy, so a woman can just look at me right and turn me into putty, but she still has to bring it.

and yes, many if not most South Asians call themselves brown people. Yeah, we all know that "messicans" are brown too, not to mention many Turks, Spaniards, Chileans et al, but "brown people" seems to work just fine. lol

Maybe you are the one who needs to clean your palate, or perhaps you just need a larger sample size.

Keep in mind, I NEVER said that black women had a BAD taste, only that they have a different taste.

If you are a gambler, and more importantly if you can afford it. I'll make you a bet. Line up ten different women, five black, and five not black. I will DATY each one of them and tell you if they are black or "other" If I win, I get to fuck each one of them on your dime. (on different nights of course, I am much too old to fuck ten women in the same night) If I lose, I pay for each one of their "time"  and we get to share them. Deal???

I bet you can't tell the difference between a bottle of Mumms and an aged bottle of Krug either, that doesn't mean there is no difference.

-e- didn't have enough room. Deal with it.

You've been posting under this alias of yours for about two months now. I have been posting under the same handle for over ten years. Virtually anyone with even room temperature IQ can find my "real" name with no more than a few key strokes if they care to.

Why don't you crawl out from under your rock and come out and play if you have the guts?

I'll be waiting if you ever grow a pair.

I never said that you said that that black women tasted bad. I said that you breath may be affecting your taste buds. If you spent more time actually reading the posts that you respond to and less time posting on any and every board on every point, you could get shit right. I would love to take you up on your wager, but fortunately for you you get to hide your identity and location behind your alias while posting your arrogant, pompous drivel.

Memories, shadows, reflections, maybe a few other 2-dimensional anomalies--they are all made 3-, 4- sometimes even 5-dimensional by the art of magical young beauties. It's like being in outer space. Or what I think outer space must be like. Never been their myself. Waiting for Marcus to return and tell us what it's really like.

I'm so glad I live in a progressive city now

and it's not just rednecks, I've lived around rednecks for the last 30-40 years, they aren't perfect, but they aren't half as bad as they were a few decades ago. Or maybe I am just better at dealing with them? lol

But I do love very short, cute, petite women, thin waste but with shapely natural curves, soft skin, easy smile, big beautiful eyes, usually brunette, kind-natured, real, funny, perhaps a touch of shyness mixed with a humble inner-confidence.

And I'm sure, much worse names behind my back.  Ironically, when I lived in the south, I made so much freaking dough.  Those southern, good ol boy conservative types love to preach one thing and practice another

It wasn't too long ago that "colored" wasn't a derogatory term, nor was "negro". Hence the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People and the United Negro College Fund, both of which are still alive and doing well today apparently without the need for name changes.

So what exactly would you be waiting for? And to do what? "Come out and play" how? In the cowardly chicken shit way that your spar with word while hiding behind your "real" screen name? You call that balls? The internet is crawling with creeps like you. You must live a pretty pathetic life since you have had nothing better to do than spend the last 10 years and apparently a significant number of your waking hours posting on these boards. I guess your only real achievement in life is your status as the top poster on a P4P website. Even a nasty, little punk like you would have to admit that that is just sad. Is that what you or your high school classmates predicted would be your greatest life achievement? I am sure your parents would be proud.

some people are going to take it as an insult whatever you call them.  that being said, I love asian women

Chemistry is the biggest factor - for me.
From what I have experienced in the fling world, the more confident gents who are sick of what everyone thinks at the Country Club, they always go for something outside their race.
Then again, what better way to humiliate the Caucasian wifey with a hot Thai or hot Latina, at that point everyone knows she's not putting out at home. Sounds cruel but the spoiled and inattentive wife is the one who keeps me busy

As far as working with them or living next to Middle Eastern people, I have no problem. But whenever the thought of seducing someone who even looks like they might have come from that area of the world, the disgusting practice of female genital mutilation is the first thing that rises in my mind. I know that only a small percentage of women go through FGM these days, but just the thought has such a strong visceral effect that the idea of trying to share an intimate sexual experience literally makes me nauseous. Even if I was sure that the particular woman in question had never had that done to her, the imagery and the repulsive feeling wouldn't go away, but only become more intense the closer we'd get, and not only would I go limp but I'd probably vomit all over her. So...that's maybe a very politscally incorrect thing to admit, but it's something I have no control over.  
 


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anymore than people mean offense by the word "oriental" I have experienced enough overt, in your face racism in my life to get too upset over "unintentional" racial gaffes. I am a lot more concerned with the intent than that actual words. I am sure you see a lot of my friends calling me "chink" "celestial" "slant eye" et al. none of it bothers me a bit coming from my friends.

and yes, a lot of those southern redneck boys who would never be seen with you in public, secretly have a huge case of "jungle fever" lol

I can't believe I'm about to do this.....play blocker for GaG.  

I don't know which I should be more proud of. lol

and yes I am sure there are much better ways to live a "rich life", but this one works for me.

There are a LOT of different ethnic groups, far too many to all be insulted on a single thread, but I am sure we will get to all of them eventually. lol

but let me ask you a question, if you insult ALL races, does that make you a racist, or the opposite of a racist?

You are an ASSHOLE!!!

Is that better? You know in my world, that is high praise. lol

BTW Have you noticed that there is a certain element to these boards that take themselves VERY seriously? They are so much fun to fuck with, I can see the steam coming out of there ears right through the monitor. I wonder what their mothers think when they here all that yelling coming from the basement? lmao

Easy buddy. No need to pin me with 'white knight' ....just calling it like I sees it.

Do you really believe that crap about him being a rich guy, traveling widely and fucking hundreds of great looking women? How would you know whether any of it is true? Really. You do realize that all of this shit is invented personas, fantasy and make believe. None of it is real other than people paying women money to pretend that they are attracted to them and want to have sex with them because of who they are. All I know for sure about GaGambler is that he spends an awful lot of time trolling these boards insulting people and picking fights like a bully. Most of the time he is erudite and entertaining but he can be mean spirited and bigoted and somebody needs to call him on it. When I did so, he called ME a stalker! My comment must have cut him to the quick because he couldn't muster even a feeble retort. The truth hurts like a mother fucker. My guess is that in "real" life he is a nerdy little punk with low self esteem -- in the world of TER he can be the WIZARD OF OZ

I'm mostly attracted to Asian and African-American ladies these days. I've always had an affinity for both types and tend to be drawn to women with darker hair. I still love diversity in my hobbying these days though.

I hear you. Remember, I prefaced my remarks by saying "if his life account is accurate"..(or something to that effect).

Oh crap, is it PC to call them "women of color" these days?

I do however travel quite a bit, and actually I have fucked thousands of women, not hundreds, but that is over a period of 42 years since I lost my virginity, and of those 42 years I only spent 5 of them married. So "thousands" of women over that period of time is not as daunting a number as it might seem.

As for my credibility, Frankly I don't give a fuck who believe me and who does not. I know plenty of TER members IRL, and they are the only ones who's opinion of me really matter, and they of course know the truth about me. As a matter of fact, I introduced one of the more active posters here to Costa Rica and he is there at this very moment trying to get up to the "thousands" of women number himself. lol

BTW I had no idea that you found me "erudite and entertaining" too bad I find you neither, and five minutes from now I will most likely not even remember who you are.

You are usually pretty quick on the draw with your sniveling little comments. What happened? Why did it take you so long to collect your thoughts? You had no real response to the truth in my comments. Did I hurt your puny little feelings? So typical of bullies when they get punched in the nose. I notice that other than continuing to lie about the number of women that you have actually slept with, you don't respond to my basic premise: that is that your are a poser, a pretender and in "real" life you are a nerdy little punk with low self esteem. You will remember me because I got under your slimy skin.You are still the Wizard of TER.

Even your alias bears no resemblance to the truth. Do you gamble and have you ever been to Georgia -- in the Us or in Russia?  Your claim of having fucked  "thousands" of women reminds me of Wilt Chamberlain's claim of having slept with over 10,000. Both of you should be in the Guinness Book of Records. You need to just stop it!!

Thank you for proving me right when I called you a stalker.

Now you have become simply boring. If you have any doubts about me ever having been in Georgia, or about my gambling, why don't you simply ask about me on the ATL board?

I guess you have never been in a real fight, have you?

and to think all this angst on your part over a comment by me that the pussy of a black woman has a different taste to it than the pussies of women from other races.

How did you ever find your way onto this board in the first place?

It is about acceptable as African American. For those that don't know I am black and I have never had any blacks refer to themselves as African American, unless we where around some folks outside our race that we did not know too well or in a joking manner. I myself never used the term. To be honest the term person of color is more accurate than any of the other terms that have been assign to those of my skin color/genic history.  

I tried to let you save face by just shutting your mouth. My guess is that you aren't even seeing providers these days at all. Why aren't you posting on the Reviewers Only Board? You are so lonely and pathetic that you pay the TER VIP fee just to have something to do everyday. "We are off to see the Wizard, the wonderful Wizard of Oz!"