Maybe a dumb question, but I have always been curious what kind of information is transmitted by provider about us hobbyists.  Do they talk about how drop-dead gorgeous I am, or how amazing a lover I am, or that I leave crisp new bills in the envelope, or that I am polite, respectful, timely, courteous, or perhaps that my socks could have been fresher, or that i tickle them with my 5 O'clock shadow or just....."he;s good to go!"   Any one of the ladies care to share?

Thanks

Giorgio

Some get very general will say "he's cool, safe, ok, and tips well, and leaves on time"

Others, more specific will say "he's safe, but is viagra'd up, old, never cums, refuses to leave on time, and is a fat  Italian with a small dick".

Bad references will say anything, and everything under the sun. God help you.

Most of us are a bit too busy for more then "yeap good to go" or "stay away"

Unless of course you totally rocked our world

XoXo

Lina

Some ladies tell you everything about their experience with the gentleman, and some just generally say, he's nice, easy going and safe....

I usually keep it general. I let the lady know she will be safe, the guy has good hygiene and will treat you well. that's it. I'm too busy to write detail; unless she asks, then I will give her details.

Have fun!

Mackenzi : ))

I personally am honored when i am used by a hobbyist as a reference
1.I make sure both provider is a provider..for my hobbyists safety
2.I make sure my hobbyist indeed sought out this provider
3.then most likely give a safety approval for the provider as I put my reputation on the line..yet thank god my hobbyists have been Amazing in their own uniqueness(i love them all in different ways)
4. what is said? ( well for one hobbyist in particular i always say :"have a greatdinner!!"
double funny great daty and we had a great dinnerdate)
most likely a provider will be honest and make sure everyone (hobbyist and provider are safe) and happy : )- I personally will never be dishonest and value both sides of this "hobby" thats my duty and how i believe what everyone deserves.. i too also am one of the quick repliers to these type of requests!!! due to the nature of our industry and the nations economic scenario
We all need to stick together ..oh and lets not forget that horrific situation from craigslist !!!
ofcourse I do also say "damn he is a hottie '"if u r!! or he" rocked my world"
that is why I personally feel safe on TER and there reviews are DEFINATELY scrutinized for honesty etc. I also, find that "whitelisting "is a a VERY IMPORTANT factor for the great hobbyist!!afterall I am putting my reputation on the line..
I hope this sheds light as i feel reviews are important for others to know and also to know that what im doing is as good as I like to do what i love and i love what i do.. and affirmations remind me why i love being a provider amongst the great providers ive met here on TER and the hobbyists that have either become my friend or more WInk
to all peace love lUGHTER AND PROSPERITY AND MOST OF ALL FEEL L FREE TO CONTACT ME OR PM me!!
also keep up the great work TER and /integrity!!

...dick" who is a gentleman, intelligent, charming, funny, safe, clean, takes Viagra due to diabetes, sometimes doesn't cum, and can perform oral like a lesbian, I think your humor is out of place here.
Do you think a hobbyist should talk about a provider (even jokingly) having dollar signs in her eyes, a pussy like the grand canyon, fake rocks for tits, stretch marked belly, or tread marks on her back?
I don't.

Yes, we should all pretend to love each unequivocally other here, tip-toe on every word we type, and lie to each other so that no single person's sensibilities are ever hurt.

My shows are PRIVATE and CONFIDENTIAL,

...and the corrext term ,I believe is micro penis.
..and tread marks on the back?
is that like carpet burn?
sounds fun!!

dick...  uses smallest possible dose of Viagra due to spinal cord injury.  Short has nothing to do with it but heavy because my weakened legs won't hold up for serious exercise.  It may take me a while to cum because of the injury which is why I book longer appointments.
I am (according to my parnters) a considerate lover who gives as good as I get.  I'm not into revealing bedroom secrets but one Lady exclaimed "If you do that again, I'm going to have to pay you!"
jtp

plenty of guys who do.

Look for ratings of 4 or less, they pretty nasty.

I was traveling one time with my favorite lady and one afternoon she spent a few mninutes checking her voicemail,  As it happens, she took a call from another escort to give a reference for a guy that she had seen.  As I happened to be standing next to her, I overheard what ended up being a most benign conversation.  The whole thing was remarkably simple and quick.  Went something like this:

Other Escort:  "I'm calling for a reference check.  Do you know Mr. X?"
My Friend: "Yes, I've seen him before"
My Friend: "He's a good guy."
Other Escort:  "Great.  Thanks for your time."
Mt Friend:  "Sure, Bye"

And that was it.  

The notion that some guys have that the girls go thru a bunch of personal information or chat about the client for hours appears to be just plain nonsense.  Bascially, these ladies have better things to do with their time and it seems they tend to process references as quickly and painlessly as possible.

I don't tell personal things about a client. I will simply say, "He's nice.  Have a good time." Sometimes I will throw in "He's handsome or clean" just to soothe the lady's soul, but that's it.  Nothing else should be discussed. However, I can understand if a lady discloses that a gentleman is not considerate (whether he expects more time without paying or has a serious health condition) or disrespectful. She deserves to know it.

Hugs,
Ciara

If I ask for a reference I want to know these things;
1. Clean.
2. Respects time.
3. If takes V, C or L (if they know of course).
4. A pounder/marathoner
5. "A moneies worth guy"
6. Rough

If the ladies can't or won't answer these questions for me, the reference is no good. "He's OK" doesn't tell me anything about these points that can make the session hell for me and him (for different reasons).

I will tell whatever a lady asks in order to set her mind at rest.

bring it!!!
I should ask if he likes to move around to much and squash you with his knees and leave bruises on your legs.
I don't particularly like my breasts and nipples groped. ( unless by a woman)Sometimes it feels really good from any man too. I always wish we could make a how to video to see why this guy feels good when he does it.
I should ask if he is very vagina focused and just wants to pound away the whole time and doesn't ask any questions except when he needs more water from all the pounding.

Either you don't read many posts or you haven't been on here long. This and any other hobbyist board is full of comments just like you mentioned, so those of us who bother to enter the fray have learned to take "a joke".

The gents have a hard time "taking a joke".

...yes, I've seen a lot of reviews like that and even more pm's across the wire that are down right mean.

She was not attacking you personally, and this is actually a great topic because I've had more than a few men ask me to write reviews about them to see what I would say about my experience with them.  They have also been asking what is included in a reference.

I personally like to keep as much information private as possible.  I am very lucky having only had one bad experience that happened after not during the session.  

I keep it to the basics, the only time I feel a need to make mention is if there is a hygiene issue, bad breath for the kissers, a client that pushes unsafe practices or a bad attitude.  I haven't had an issue with attitude.

It would be interesting to review the men in a public forum like we are reviewed.  I believe the reason it hasn't been offered as a service is because it is not conducive to the male ego.

My profession is one of making you the center of our universe while we're together, to fulfill each and everyone of your desires, needs and fantasies (this should be discussed before meeting).  I don't care what you look like just bring a wonderful attitude and be clean.

And, an entire slug of moments will blossom into an intoxicating memory to care for a lifetime.

Warmly,
Reagan

You may be an exception, but I am certain most men talk about ladies in just such a fashion.  

As for myself, when I get a reference request from a lady, I let her know if he was respectful of me and my boundaries, if he wears an XL Magnum (to make she's prepared), if he has an odd fetish.  Things that would help her prepare for your visit.    I will often mention your gentleness and/or your big smile too.  If you are a screamer when you blow, I will let her know that too.  
Likewise,  if I had a bad experience with a guy, I will let her know what happened in my case.  That way, she can make an informed decision as to see you or not.  
I do not discuss bodily imperfections or performance issues.   Those things are up to the guy to disclose.

There are going to be people, both men and women, who talk like that. But I don't believe most do.

I say that because in my 35 years of sexual activity and knowing hundreds of other men, I can honestly say that I have known less than a dozen men like that. Every one of them were considered jerks and mysoginists by other men.

I think this is about HUMAN respect, and I find that most providers are EXEMPLARY humans when it comes to that. Now, I have no idea whatsoever if providers are simply putting on their business professionalism and then in private are as crude as the post I objected to, but unless someone provides information otherwise I am not going to think that they are any different. In fact, I believe that for the most part they are likely more accepting of others for who they are.

For the record, I am not ashamed of what I look like, I am not easily offended, and I can take a joke. I am considered funny by my friends, and my humor is often self deprecating.

But that post was not funny. There is nothing wrong with Italians. Replace that word with "Black" and people would have seen the inappropriateness quickly. Replace "fat" with "cripple in a wheelchair" and again, not so funny. People of size are the last group for which it is still politically correct to slander.

While I have met women who are looking for a large penis on a man, they have always has poor vaginal muscle structure. (Not to mention that DT and anal are much more readily available when you're nor going to split a woman apart.) The whole "SIZE MATTERS" is a load of shit, in the same way that bigger breasts DO NOT make a woman sexier.

Personal preference for large, small, skinny, fat, whatevers is just fine. But stereotype insults are for the emotionally immature.

A micro penis is not a "little dick". Men with that syndrome often are not able to have intercourse at all.

At 5" erect I am considered to have a "little dick", but have fathered 6 children, and have been with partners who experience vaginal orgasm and g-spot stimulation. Athough "fat", I do have skills.

Like Napoleon Dynamite said "Girls like guys with skills."

The candor of the providers who replied was refreshing AND eye opening too.

note to self....Sexy Carolina is a must-see

She was just giving an example.

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