This is a question for the guys on the board.

Be careful being kind to the desperate providers.

Some of them won't take No for an answer.


How can you tell when she is desperate?

She calls you without being solicited.

She started to get creepy when we were together, so I left her a voice mail that we were done.

She then started to leave messages for me that if I didn't see her, she'd come to where I work, etc.  I ignored the threats and fortunately they were just bluffs. I never heard from her again.

One other situation occured where the boyfriend of a provider got my phone number by going through her stuff and started leaving harrassing messages.  I called the gal and told her to tell him that if I got another call, I'd have to police go after him for harrassment and that seemed to do the trick.  He was on parole so he'd be screwed for sure if I did so, and I would have.

Knock on wood I've no problems for the last 15 years or so.

A former ATF raised her rates on me three times in a month. I told her adidas. She kept calling me asking when I was gonna return. I told her i wasn't. She became irrate and told me to go fuck myself(can you see the visual?). I got married. She kept calling(lol). My wife changed the number. The ATF found it again and discovered i had taken ill. While i was in the hospital she called the phone and my wife answered. This is the ONLY time my wife has answered that phone. The former ATF told my wife she hoped i "Fucking died". So NO i've never been stalked. lol

BTW; my wife does NOT find this story funny at all.

I'm sure there are some who would enjoy it, but there as crazy as the one who is doing the stalking.

Married to her.
  She met me as an out-call. She knew where I lived and would keep showing up. I would make her do all kinds of things, (i.e. suck the sweat off my balls after I cut the grass. blow my friends. Bring her friends over and make her watch me fuck them. etc.)
  I tried to be mean to her and I gave her no money for anything we did.
  After five years of this I finally married her and life is still great. And yes she is still in the biz. !

You have a link to her page?

actually, my stripper stories match better the more hardcore troubling issues that are rumored about providers.  On the whole I find that providers are more stable, easier to talk to, better educated and in general nice peoples... While strippers are pretty much the opposite.

but alas, the attraction.

There is this provider that seems to live in my house. She has no respect for my privacy as she shows up at my work unannounced. She even accesses my bank accounts and take what she wants. She contacts me constantly and often sneaks into my bed at night. She is in every part of my life. She has even been known to talk to my doctor about me as well. She tells what I should/shouldn't eat and nags me constantly. She is even telling me what other providers I am allowed to see. It is like I am married to her.

Wait, one minute....never mind, I am married to her, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I am sure it happens but I haven't been stalked by a provider other then my wife and she don't count. LOL

She does have a web page and I would PM it to you but you are using an alias. You can not PM me for it because I am using an alias.  
 Dang, caught between a rock and an alias.