For those guys who hobby on a regular basis, have you in the past (or even currently) found yourself with a decent looking, totally NSA fuck buddy relationship?  If you did (or do), what do you like better about it than seeing a provider?  Or do you find it not as satisfying and prefer to keep lobbying?  How did the relationship start?  Was it a friend, that just morphed over time to having FWB activities?  How long did it last?  Would you do it again?  I often wonder how hard it would be to find some cute looking soccer mom who isn't getting enough action at home and just wants the occasional hot fuck now and then to offload some tension.  Let's hear it...there have got to be some guys who have had this experience.

Enjoying it immensely and that’s all I am going to say on the subject.  

What if I have no courage, no confidence, no gentleman ship, no money, no ability to charm and a teeny weenie. Do I have any hope

WTF are doing spending your time on this board?

She was a gal I knew way back from high school and with whom I kept open lines of communication.

... you're ok!

Um it depends on how much of a "stud" you are I'm pretty sure. If you look like Brat Pitt sporting an 8-inch anaconda it would be piece of cake, LOL.

The thing with women is that they NEVER settle and be content with what they got... sooner or later they're going to want MORE or QUIT! Sigh...

What's funny is it was the girls' friend that moved it forward both times. We would go out as a group and end up back at her house. Her friend would be ready to go home and say, "why don't you two hook up. You don't have to date just sleep together already.  And boom, both times we did. I used a Seinfeld episode line. Remember when Jerry and Elaine decided "to do this and that". No strings attached. Well it worked twice. What I liked most about it was they would call me for some playtime every now and then. Both lasted about 9 months

I’ve only had two FWB experiences that stayed FWB and none of them stayed uncomplicated. So, except for the money, I’ve come to prefer this. (Though I’ve managed to fuck this up a few times, too.)

If you smell emanation, you STFU and leave.

You can have standards and have great many fuck buddies. Sex is not such taboo with open minded and liberal people. I happened to be one of them.

I'm conducting an experiment. It began when I acted on an impulse. I was at lunch one weekday afternoon and noticed an impeccably dressed thirty something woman eating alone. On a scale of 1-10, she was a 7. Some would say a 6, maybe. But her carefully assembled, very feminine outfit made her a 10+ in my estimation. She was a real stand out. Classy and subtly sexy. Without thinking it through I walked over to her and told her that I thought she looked like million bucks, and how rare that seems to be these days. Bravo, I told her. Didn't know what to expect. She was absolutely thrilled. She blushed a little and thanked me. Introduced herself and asked for my business card. Since then, we've traded a few casual emails. I've done this three times since with different women. Overtime I was completely sincere...because they really looked exceptional. One of them thanked me politely and that was it. The other two I'm in touch with, one via email the other because I see her in my office building a few days each week. I think it has promise. All who are communicating are married. I don't think their husbands even notice how hard they try. That's a guess. Can't wait to see what happens.