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Re: All from an alias
Buzzsaw 33 Reviews 421 reads
posted
1 / 27

When you meet someone for the first time. You may click with her or you may not.  

If you don't, that's OK... there's a possibility that she may feel the same way. However, if she did provide a good service, then it's only fair to give her a good review if she wants one.  

In the review you may state something like... "she gave a great service, but our personalities did not click... will not see again" Or you may just leave the personality part out. It's up to you.

I've had some sessions that went great... but I didn't like her personality for some reason... it's not her fault... just one of those things. I did give those ladies a good review, but didn't see them again.
 
Posted By: RodTidweLL
The thread below got me thinking about my favorites list, which is essentially my "I'd like to see list". How many guys here go to see a lady that after reading her site you are polar opposites? Or do you let your big head stay in control and say I know I wouldn't get along with the lady intellectually so you don't contact.  
   
 While lurking on one of the many regional boards I saw a lady made very negative comments about Hispanic men. I decided she would no longer be a lady I'd like to see although I'm not Hispanic myself. I also was thinking about seeing a lady but her profile said she was into a bunch of things I had absolutely no intrest in, so I thought we would have nothing to talk about.  
   
 Have any guys had a great time while having nothing to talk about or having no common intrests?

inicky46 61 Reviews 407 reads
posted
2 / 27
Fridays117 27 Reviews 316 reads
posted
3 / 27
BadMotherfucker 418 reads
posted
4 / 27

That you need to zip it up and shut it?    
People are tired of reading your stupid nonsense and constant endless drivel.

DC. 51 Reviews 443 reads
posted
5 / 27

I'm not there for intellectual stimulation.

The only attitude I'm interest in as well is her attitude towards sex.

As far as her morals?  I don't think they have much place in an immoral enterprise such as this

Cosette 373 reads
posted
6 / 27



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1736687 15 Reviews 376 reads
posted
7 / 27

I certainly do.. I pay attention and I do become interested or not interested based on what a provider may say here..  
I booked a meeting with someone exactly because of what she said here.. even though her "type" is not someone I would be interested in..
I recently removed someone that I was very interested in, and had been on my "favorites"list for a long time,, because of several posts she put up recently.. completley turned me negative on her..

Someone I always look forward to seeing and I drive almost three hours to see exactly because she is who she is and I enjoy her point of view.. so  yes.. but it is also what you get from the person when you see them.. I see another girl regularly locally. she doesn't post.. but she's great to be with.. for things other than sex too.. if that was not the case.. Iwould no doubt, move on.. there has to  be a connection..

mrfisher 115 Reviews 326 reads
posted
8 / 27

She was one interesting gal.  Check out the wiki on her below.

As for whether interests are an issue in attraction, I think the question may miss the point, at least for me.

I do know and enjoy a number of gals who have very dissimilar interests from me; however I find them interesting because we can discuss same in a manner that is enjoyable.  Some of this ability is because, no doubt, a certain chemical attraction, but I would not discount the person's own abilities to make what they say interesting, which is a learned ability, and a very useful one, especially in a business like this.

On the other hand, there are women I've met who can be offensive in the manner they discuss anything, even if we see eye to eye on issues or share common interests.  (My ex comes to mind.)

This is putting aside the aspects of physical attraction and sexual performance, which are important of course, but as I age, I find these to be less so, especially when we are together for longer sessions

harborview 10 Reviews 296 reads
posted
9 / 27

I also use the TER favorites list, basically to gather my research.  I use the Memo box where I summarize my research Yes, No, Waiting more info.  Then if her review comes to my attention again, I know what I found already.  Now I do revisit them occasionally, especially if there was a problem that is correctable.  Usually those disappear anyway but I can think of one where the problem seems to be resolved & I changed my conclusion accordingly.    

Before I make the call, I check her latest reviews...  

Board personas do have an effect...  I have seen two because of their board personas.

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DC. 51 Reviews 364 reads
posted
11 / 27

Just give me a name of someone we'll all have to conform to, and I'll think about thinking about it.

But choose wisely.

BTW, and here's the problem with trying to extend brightline morals across the board as rules; if the lady in your outing example was doing it because the guy became a stalking asshole creep who was threatening her, would that change your mind about whether she should be summirarily shunned by hobbyists?

You say, of course - she had a valid reason.   That, my brother, is applying YOUR morals to her actions, not deciding on HER morals as you indicated in the OP.

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Panthera12 427 reads
posted
12 / 27

He confirmed the legitimacy of a provider on one thread asked about dining on another. How in the hell do you come up with danger? There is something seriously wrong with you.

By the way. He has more reviews then you do and much more credibility.

Panthera12 339 reads
posted
13 / 27

Asking Turdwell for a logical explanation is going to take quite a while if it comes at all.

Panthera12 358 reads
posted
14 / 27

I said what I had to say about the Tamsen matter. You didn't stop me from doing shit. All you did was white knight in a territory that you knew absolutely nothing about.    

You have a high sense of self worth, but you really don't see the people laughing at you, do you?  

While I was vacationing, I noticed that you were shellacked on the board repeatedly by others. Can't you see that you are the new laughing stock of the board?

BadMotherfucker 303 reads
posted
15 / 27

I'm also going to NYC to see a client this week.  I suppose that makes me omnipresent. Feel free to call me God. LMFAO

MasterZen 34 Reviews 345 reads
posted
16 / 27

and while that includes appearance, there are many other factors. Why contact someone if there is something you are aware of that you don't find attractive? It just seems to me that the entire idea is to find those who you feel you can connect with and be attracted to on as many levels as possible.

I've met women who are into things I had never experienced, and pretty much enjoyed every second of them helping me learn about those things, expanding my own boundaries. It can work the other way around as well.

As for no common interests... we are all people and by definition that means we have common interests, common needs, common desires. There is always something to talk about and enjoy in one another, if you but pay attention. If it is one-sided conversation, you are not finding the "common ground" and need to start listening more diligently or sharing more openly.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 725 reads
posted
17 / 27

if you read my reviews we would still get along great during an appointment a session with me does not have a lot of talking.
to be completely honest I think having a conversation with the clients is more stressful than us being quiet and just getting it on! :-)
more often than not I agree with you we probably don't have the same interests or anything in common
so do you take more of the social dinner date type as opposed to a hardcore PSE full hour with 20 different positions?
I really wish I would get more of those guys that pay you just to talk to you over dinner I don't seem to attract that type of clientele and that's okay I don't mind just doing the appointments and then never seeing each other again
I wish I would get more clients that want to just talk and see if we have similar interest earned the appointment!!!!
I am surprised there are guys that would pay 300 plus just to talk about similar interests with a beautiful woman-
? wow why don't you become my clients I would love to have guys coming to see me and just wanting to talk about common interest for a lot of money per hour that sounds like not a bad gig!
I know for me as soon as the guys get here we give a cordial hello and then we are pretty much getting ready to down to business right away
but for me personally giving them a quick massage in the beginning helps me unwind so I do ask him if we can start out that way I know if I'm not, not going to have fun either
but chances are if we try to talk during the appointment it just becomes awkward because like you said we don't really have anything in common not even close
usually the only common ground between us is the hobby or the boards on ter or talking about this business in general seems to be a good common ground of conversation together
my personal life in the past involved being a punk rock bands and playing a lot of biker bars in biker events and WAF events
hanging out with tattoo artists doing some of my own tattoos
then hanging out with people at Rainbow Gathering send other festivals
and now in some type of a situation where I find myself being a little bit more calm and finding out that I actually love exercising and cooking
sometimes after a lot of craziness you feel like just having things be nice and calm would be good for a change
most of the things I would want to talk about would be concerning cooking or decorating and of course I love conversations concerning the hobby or the erotic review discussion boards that usually is a good conversation topic that we both can agree on
you can go on and on about it between the crazy reviews the good reviews the people that charge a thousand plus an hour it is all quite mind boggling and I am filled with amazement at all of it
you could never get bored looking through all the women's websites and all the different price ranges and all the exciting makeup and fashion everyone's into
it's pretty much a playground for adults
and there is always something new to learn I recently gave my first bondassage to one of my regulars I've had for over 10 years.
it seems like is one of those things you can never completely master there will always be some kind of new invention coming along I remember when the new roof first came into the scene
or a kind of became a sad I'm sure it probably existed before
and now its bondassage people talk about which I am sure may have been used before but for me I had never heard of it till recently
there's actually a really good saying a counselor had told me Rod TV well
if you're ever on shore stick to what is called Fairweather conversation
stay away from topics such as religion and politics or otherwise touchy subjects were you made into a tiff

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 354 reads
posted
18 / 27

of course you can always talk about the Red Sox. what the weather's gonna be like.
or even better start up a conversation about all the activities you want to try at your next appointment
you most certainly can't do everything in our appointment
I know for me we don't really talk about ourselves during our appointments its pretty much running from activity 2 activity or else I am performing some kind of a spa service on them if there's any down time sometimes its more awkward for me to sit there and stare at someone I don't know and try to talk to them that it is for me to busy myself with some form of activity or another#
I think the sitting down and actually trying to talk to them would be kind of pointless for not paying that much money to sit and talk to m

GaGambler 396 reads
posted
19 / 27

Personally I call him the board pinata, but I guess laughing stock works too.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 330 reads
posted
20 / 27

We come from completely different universes yet I can sit and listen to you talk about your world for hours or more.

You completely mesmerize.

inicky46 61 Reviews 339 reads
posted
22 / 27

You clearly have no clue that TER rules permit the posting of a review weeks after the date.  So you can't look at when a review goes up as an accurate way of knowing when the session was had or on what day the poster was in that city.
Every day you find new ways in which to appear clueless.  You are like a wide-eyed child wandering through a world you can't comprehend and uttering definitive pronouncements about it.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 313 reads
posted
23 / 27
BadMotherfucker 239 reads
posted
25 / 27

I saw a new provider on saturday, posted about it.  I had dinner with a favorite girl who was touring Philladelphia on Friday. Somehow this clueless newbie tardwell thinks I'm putting people in danger for writing a COMPLETELY HONEST AND TRUTHFUL review.  

I'm baffled as to what goes on in this young man's mind to think that I'd post a review to harm people.  He needs help!

inicky46 61 Reviews 279 reads
posted
26 / 27
jenna_hunterz See my TER Reviews 327 reads
posted
27 / 27

Every guy is different, some are easy to talk to and I can sit for an hour past our session time and just BS about anything.... trade stories, joke, talk about life.... whatever comes to mind... some men ive found it hard to communicate with, its like pulling teeth to carry on a conversation! But I can usually pretty quickly catch on to whether or not they are even interested in talking or if they would rather get right down to business... I can get along with almost everybody though...

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