If the lady has a positive tone, playful and with sexy hints then that tells me she is going to be great and wants to meet me.  If she is curt and very business-like then I am already thinking that she is just into the benjamins.

I usually know moments after I walk in the door. I've had a couple of times where there was some question in my mind whether the lady truly wanted to see me. If I had listened to my gut, and reacted accordingly, I would have bolted. However, I didn't react, stayed open to positive possibilities, and ended up having a great time.

weird hobbyist"she grabs your winky as you enter the room - nothing passionate about that, take a cold shower and get it over with"

"She brings a gift, a single flower, your favorite beverage, candy or some other little token of her appreciation"


WHAT???You are complaining about that.. That would insure me she isn't LE and the National Enquirer, trying to do a exposes on me.

Good thing you used a alias ..You would end up on lots of DNS lists with thatattitude.Expecting a gift from a provider other than a good time is beyond weird..  Thanks for the laughs.

To answer your question I know I am going to have a good time if she opens the door..I already did my review research ..This isn't rocket science.

Interesting comments you made and I am not knocking them, however I have a friendly but somewhat professional tone to emails, especially initial ones as I have know idea who you are. I don't like to get too sexy with unknown people.

After verification, then I can get a little more friendly, but I always remember that emails are out there forever.

You are correct in that verification brings an email response commensurate to the lady's comfort level.  I have been mainly providing Date-Check and Preferred411 information in my initial email contact.  The ladies have already then pre-determined that I am "safe" by contacting my references. So the emails in response to my initial inquiry are already reflective of their comfort level with me. Good point.

For me it takes only a few moments to know if a fun time will be had by all.  I have had providers walk in the room and I can feel the sparks fly and others want to make me head for the hills.

I had one provider with no reviews, I was ready to TOFTT and I asked her to stay an extra hour within the first minute of our meeting.

I had another who I had booked several hours with, she had pages of all 9 reviews and as soon as I entered the room, I wanted to go home.

What is it that makes you want to stay all night or loose your lunch.

Here are a few red flags and checker flags I have experienced

Red flags
she asks for the donation - you may as well just drop the envelope and leave
she looks nothing like the picture, older and heavier - hit the road jack
she grabs your winky as you enter the room - nothing passionate about that, take a cold shower and get it over with
She is 45 minutes late and claims to have gotten lost on the way to the hotel despite the fact that she lives a mile away - I can't tolerate stupidity
She stumbles into the room and asks for something alcoholic to to drink - don't screw around with someone who is only half there.

Checker flags
She looks much better than her photos
She is a little late and apoligizes for it and says she will make it up to you
She greats you like an old flame
She brings her own toys with her even though you did not request them
She smiles and gives you a nice hug and kiss, takes you by the hand and makes direct eye contact
She asks if she can freshen up and invites you to join her in the shower for a warm up session
She brings a gift, a single flower, your favorite beverage, candy or some other little token of her appreciation

First of all, the guy brings the gifts cheapskate. Second of all, we are all in it for the money first and foremost. ( Pay to Play ) Let's face it if it was just about sex we women can get that and a bag of chips any time we want, especially when it's with men that we aren't nessasarily physically attracted to.

Some of us just happen to be better actresses than others. It's all in a days work my dear.

Kisses,

Alex