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Re: About To Embark
dragonfly2006 49 Reviews 939 reads
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It's best to post this in the FAQ for Newbies board.

futurshoc2273 reads

Well, guys, I think I'm about to embark on my  very first encounter with a provider. I'm admittedly very squeamish about the risks, but I'm at a bit of a crossroads in the area of sex and physical intimacy and I think its time to do something about it.

Anyway, what are your experiences with "gentelmen's studios" like Southern Comfort in Dallas? I'll be there weekend after next (June 2) and it appears that this kind of setting might be a good fit for me.

Are they particularly prone to stings?
I've read lots of great reviews of the girls at  at SCS, so it seems like a pretty safe bet.

Since I'm a newbie at this, I have a couple of questions, too.

1. Is there typically any sort of awkwardness if a guy doesn't want to DATY? I actually  enjoy it myself, but don't know if I would be comfortable doing so with a provider. I just don't want to pay my hard-earned money only to have her turn off distant because I wouldn't lick her kitty.
I'm not saying I won't, but there's a chance.

2. Is it a requirement that I remove my clothes while she delivers the donation? I'd be awfully nervous about sitting there in my skivies alone.

Signed,
FuturShoc
a guy who just wants some intimate time with a beautiful woman on the 6-month "anniversary" of his divorce.

Futurshoc,

There is definitely no expectation of DATY from a provider. If anything, it's a bonus when you can, assuming of course you are into it. Remember, it's about what *you* enjoy, she's there to provide you a service. Of course, the deeper and less business like the session, the more you will both enjoy it.

I'd say given your anniversary status, you very much deserve exactly what you are looking for. Sorry I don't have any more specific info on the "gentlemen's studios", I'm more of an independent-provider type.

Best of luck.

It's best to post this in the FAQ for Newbies board.

In my experience, some ladies prefer not to DATY, especially the ones who provide LFK/DFK.  I guess tasting themselves isn't such a turn-on after all.

Just remember that you're there to have fun so focus on doing whatever you're best at.  Trying to go out of your way will only make your actions come out unnatural and...a turn off.  

Just my two cents.

You don't have to DATY; in fact, you don't have to do anything.  And you don't have to take your clothes off right away either.  Of course, the longer you take, the longer it'll take to finish the job, and you may run out of time.  But if you're ok with that, I am sure the ladies wouldn't mind at all.

Most ladies would like you to relax and enjoy yourself.

Good luck,

- TM

it is sooooo simple!  Look for reviews which have comments like 'she put me at ease' etc.  It helps if you like her photos.  
If she is well reviewed (CONSISTENTLY), then just follow her - she will let you know what to do and when.  

Good luck

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