I read in a post way down the first page about guys who pound away for 45 minutes plus and/or the woman almost snaps a rotator cuff trying to get him off by hand.  The problem is these fuckers are taking a pocket full of Viagra before the session.  And I'm not talking about just old guys, even some of the jerk offs in their 30's.  The issue is these cement-dicks don't realize that the drug that makes them hard also inhibits them from achieving an orgasm which leads to bad feelings all around.
My advise isn't to the men.  They would rather walk around in a perpetual state of blue balls than worry for even a moment that their junk might go soft during a session.  So ladies, here's what you do.  Get one of those medium-size massage devices from the Sharper Image.  When one of these guys can't come, have them lay back and hit them with The Equalizer(just one of the brand names).  I guarantee that within a minute they'll be spewing their load all over your wall.  They're happy, your pussy and arms/elbows are happy.  It's a win/win!

-- Modified on 1/14/2008 10:19:02 PM

Now here's an alias I can get behind! -e

How is this done exactly??

Where do you massage them?

I also do not like the harshness of the post.
Try to be more considerate.
These generous men are our guests we do not consider them "fuckers' and "jerk offs".

The board looks like the ladies actually get to have a chance to get a fair representation here for the first time since I stated coming on regularly and please don't give newbies the idea that we are jaded and unkind.

We do this because we want to.

It is our choice and overcoming difficulties is part of any relationship at work or home or with our family. So let's work out the issues with kindness.
It is ok to be assertive but don't let the biz get you down.

It is stressful enough to be a part of an oppressed community.
We are unfairly criticized on all sides.
No one is thrilled with the way our society is so just ,please, chill.
Don't make things more harsh than they already are.

I am asking you to please give some more information about this technique.

I think it could also help someone who is unable to hold back for long and maybe this could let them have a second chance.

A related issue - I've had a bunch of truly enjoyable encounters with providers... but no orgasm. The problem isn't viagra, it's the condom. It just kills the sensitivity. Enjoyable sessions or not, I'm about ready to abandon the hobby, because the point, after all, is to get my nut off (sorry for being direct, but ...)

One provider agreed to use a female condom, but she clearly didn't like doing it. Unfortunate, because I got close. Without the distraction of her reaction, I think I could have gotten there.

Believe me, I don't want to "pound away" for 45 minutes, but that's what's gonna happen with a latex choker collar. Any thoughts, providers? I'm serous - not complaining, just looking for a solution. BTW, I'm in Texas.

The 'fuckers' and 'jerk offs' I was referring to are the inconsiderate asswipes who feel they have a right to pound a woman's pussy or insist on a 1hr BBHJ.
The technique is simple.  Lay the guy down on his back.  Get out The Equalizer and, starting on the lowest setting, run it slowly up and down his shaft. Try to be careful and not bash his balls as I would imagine that would hurt a bit .  Gradually increase the pace and the speed, if necessary.  You'll be able to figure out when he's ready to blow.

It's all in good fun. Just a bit of an anomoly in the hobby. -e

p.m. me please I want to be sure!

I used to have a regular that loved loved loved toys and we'd use them. Basically, run it up the proverbial flag pole. It's all in good fun.

Katie

us off. Nothing works better then visual stimulation.
Aside from your post being a little disrespectful, I have to say if a provider would break out a little toy, and use it as you suggested, I would not have any objections.
Of course, anyone can see, you want your one hour sessions to be over in 30 minutes.  

If you are a provider you need to get out of the business. The post was rhetorical question, seriously doubt many can pound away for 45 minutes and longer. Being that said, you also need to work on your comprehension.

If you feel so strong, why post using an alias?

Sick of alias a.k.a aliasses!

Well... it can't be the national average, but I suspect that you are in the wrong biz if you don't like it for that length of time... Sheesh, that's easy, but I do agree there's degrees to anything and if you are truly being "pounded" just ask him to slow down... Also try using different positions... do CG, RCG and doggie and take control. For those guys, young and old and doing the blue pill overdose, time is a ticking and you'll take a licking in the end...

A foot massager? Seems like that would be even more work. LOL

heres a hint -tall ,blonde ,numpho

With or without viagra, it sounds like it might be fun to try, if you could just do it without the attitude. Smile!!! It's not that difficult.

I'm 48 and I have been using some version of the ED meds for 3 years under the supervision of my urologist.

While you are correct that the meds coupled with the condom do indeed make it much more difficult to have an orgasm, without them there would be no reason for me to retain your services at all.

During many appointments I don't have one at all.  I actually don't even expect to at this point and, though I do try to be sensitive to my partner, I would hope that if our activities become painful or unpleasent she would let me know so we can try something different or take a break.

PocketFisherman
Fucker / Jerk off...

I generally concentrate more on the oral and anal then on actual vaginal penetration.

I find that using toys on a male while giving oral leads to a much more intense orgasm and if done correctly can prolong the experience. Massaging, lickiing, the balls, anal region, etc. is also another good way to work out your tongue without wearing out everything else.

MANY of my gents take viagra or cialis. I am glad. I love it. I don't even really care if we go a little over the hour. Some never get off they get so sensitive they have to stop. I always have a little rest period and try some more. To me, it is not about whether they nut or not, (although a "happy emding" is nice... it is about fun. I have a few who cannot get or stay erect. It is a medical issue. They can still cum. It is all good, as long as you do your best (with a SMILE) they finish happy because they were treated well by a beutiful lady who truly enjoys them.. It is a win win. I have never whipped out a toy on any of them.
I start gentle and tease and build.
Hugs, C

i can honestly say that i have had situations where i was with an incredibly hot provider who was very talented and i just couldnt finnish- maybe just nervous

and ive even had a couple who i just wasnt attracted to, but somehow got one or even two

i can honestly say that i have had situations where i was with an incredibly hot provider who was very talented and i just couldnt finnish- maybe just nervous

and ive even had a couple who i just wasnt attracted to, but somehow got one or even two

I can go for 45 minutes plus, and I've never taken Viagra in my life. Although, it depends on the girl and how shes reacting (aka how wet, etc. )

A condom completely desensitizes me, it's not that I can't feel it, it's that ; typically the condom is choking me (I'm not huge -- but it's like the providers get 'extra smalls..' I've got to start bringing my own..)

I've also gone soft due to the condomn, and had to tap out (EXTRA tight LATEX condoms (in my civvie life I use polyurethane..)

Perhaps a little more research (http://www.ripnroll.com) on the condom as well would help you ladies. I'd say don't cheap out and get something that is extra sensitive and pleasurable to the dude, and you could also specify ' No viagra/cialis/aka all' in your ad.

-M

You sound like you need a break from providin' baby. relax!

-M