i was wondering how you felt about providing for younger men.....for instance, im 22, and in college, i just started this hobby because i wanted to be with older women......ive been with 2 providers so far and they seemed very surprised when they open the door and see me.......i know for ever person, YMMV with a provider, but i go see a provider because i see a good review, and when i get there if they act different, its kind of dissapointing....i love being with beautiful older women....let me know what the deal is

have no experience or are the worst lovers. ie. To rushed, to hard, can't do much.

Shaye

i guess thats true.....but i at least try.....but its kinda hard to get into when i see their mood change before i have a chance to......am i doomed? should i just give this up till i get a few more years under my belt?

Its old dogs that you can't teach new tricks.  What about us being your studentS and you teach us the right and best ways for you and me too? I go a lot to learn, who and where will I learn without BEING TAUGHT RIGHT? I'll do it Ass BACWARD 'til I've made so may mistakes that I may have been hard but soon am only soft! )+:  HELP!

I have no problem with younger men being inexperienced.  I didn't get into this business because of how they could make ME feel, but how I can make THEM feel!

You may run into a few romantic bimbos who may be displeased at the thought that you can't please them ... You may run into a few money whores that just assume you have arrived at the station in life where you have appropriately lavish them with all the money they think they deserve ...

But for the most part, what you probably sense is nothing more than the fact that you are an exception from the norm, which is in fact older men who's "wife doesn't understand them"  (yes, she really DOES understand him and THAT is why he's in the hobby!)

So don't worry about it!   Keep looking, keep searching, keep doing ....   just remember:

The only way to improve your game is to play with someone better than you are!

Luv,
June

I laugh because Shaye cuts to the chase and makes her point briefly in one sentence, though I feel I know, with confidence, all that she 'didn't' say.

I haven't had any clients younger than 32, but have had in my personal life (even the pleasure of breaking in a virgin..oh, my my..).

And while I would make an exception of seeing a young client, some things would have to be discussed first that wouldn't need to with my usual clientele.

Our Mr. Man who posts here would be most welcome, and he's under 30..

as a young man in my 20's, the young providers that I see all seem happy to see a guy closer to their age, but older providers always asked me why I see them, and I could tell my age made them uncomfortable.

Hey there Sedona.  Good to see you back on the board.  

To respond to this young man, (I just couldn't resist).......

Just this week I met a young man (he was 29) but didn't look 21!
I was more concerned with carding him to be sure HE was legal, too funny.  But he was adorable, and really quite nice and I had a marvelous time with him.  

It is a bit surprising however when a door opens and someone looks so young that it is possible they might be jail bait.  For me it is just a bit uncomfortable at first until I am sure I am not breaking the law! Tee hee!

Jenni

I have had a few younger clients, and yes they wanted the "older woman" experience. My greatest concern was their age! for legal reasons. And lack of experience. One incident comes to mind, He was asian and young, had a fascination to be with a mature BBW. He could afford the donation, just not the room, he suggested the back seat of his honda civic at a local park! What was he thinking? I'm a big woman, I don't think I could do it, let alone get naked in a honda civic! hehe

Well, there's fun to be had with every variable, and there are some very fun fantasies to act out (specific to) with the young ones, that's for sure, so it really just boils down to the areas we've discussed before regarding age:

maturity, attitude, responsiveness, etc., etc.

Gosh, all these topics..making me excited as heck..driving me crazy (when you know you can't!).

How can we become better than the worst lovers unless you teach us the better way? Trial and error often is more error that puts us on trial and we lose in the trial. Instead of getting it good and giving as we are taught, where does this take us?
HELP!  HELP!

Move over Martha Stewart, out of my kitchen! I have a young thing that I know how to marinate! Geez...stop teasing us. Most of us are approaching our sexual prime or are already in it!

In a thread way below somewhere, the topic was about a man who wanted honesty regarding his (small) size. I thought it was a good thread. (which I still intend to post a reply)
But, not everyone wants honesty, and in the short time that we have together, alot has to be either 'assumed', or be a good guesser. So, we rely on all forms of communication between both parties.

If you easily relay to her that you are 'teachable' and 'openly communicative' and even voice out loud that you'd love for her to show you this and that, she will (presuming you've picked a wonderfully caring provider).
With others, they might be greatly offended.

The very best business is REPEAT business as this is where you get to know each other better in all ways and have quality time to develop in areas. Be careful, though, as young, and "inexperienced" gents TEND to get attached to that particular provider in ways that their own (lack of) experience and maturity might not recognize as being 'unhealthy', and that it's time to go on to seeing others. I'm not trying to sound like Momma Provider here, but just have seen that happen more than once.

It all works out.

thanks for the input everyone!!

alright, well Sedona since you bring it up, my response:
this issue is at the forefront of each and every young hobbyist's mind, the age difference in and of itself can at times completely and totally dictate the experience one will have, it has really been a huge obstacle for me in the past  

to csfuboi (I hope I spelled that right)
I have found that, just like in civilian relationships, communication is critical. When I read your original post, I immediately knew exactly what you were going through, lack of communication.

Allow me to share my own experience, and take from it what you will. I have learned so much from being with the professional ladies, and none of it had anything to do with the physical aspects. Let me repeat that for emphasis, none of it ever had to do with the physical aspects. (granted I am getting better at DATY than ever before, I digress) Concentrate more on making an mental, or emotional connection with her. Not that you are trying to fall in love here, but it forces you to be mindful of the whole experience for the both of you, rather than focus on making her climax. The ladies that you are seeing will naturally do this to try and please you; so take note of how they interact with you and apply it to your own situation.

Just keep in mind you are far away and removed from her average client, so it can take a few minutes with even the most professional lady, to switch gears and cater to your needs/desires if she even can. Expect her to be a little surprised or caught off guard by your age. I almost always get that reaction. I am guaranteed that every appointment starts off with "Hi, Wow!, you're young, can I ask how old you are?" You must be the one to exhibit tactfulness, and treat her with kindness and respect sometimes, otherwise you may never be treated like her mature equal. In other words you will be assumed to be just another young punk who is a jerk who can't get a date. (that may have been what Shaye was trying to convey earlier)

For what it's worth, putting in a little extra effort with the pro's has dramatically affected my life. My relationships with friends, family, co-workers, and of course girlfriends have all improved because I now know how to manage the emotions, direct my feelings, and above all talk about serious issues that bother me. The companionship one gives/receives is more valuable than anything else for me. You can talk to a provider in ways that you would never open up to anyone else. They are willing to share with you and never pass judgement, that's a nice feeling. Share with her your hopes and fears about your performance and she will help you through it.

All is not lost, keep trying.   ...afterall if some lovely ladies (like Sedona) can beat this into my thick skull, there is hope for you too, best regards, mr.man
And if this doesn't work then dammit I don't know what's wrong with you

I love the young guys .....well I love all guys

I love to show and teach them things .
Youngest I had was 19 , now he is almost 25 .it is great to see how he is becoming a man . The young guys  I have met have been very sweet guys .

And it's nice to feel like Demi and Ashton   LOL LOL