Anyone ever had this problem? I notice a few of my friends are able to get go directly to mish or doggy, without oral, but for me I can't do it unless I get oral initially? And even once i get oral initially, if I don't do mish or doggy within five minutes I lose the erection.

I may claim to anyways?

BTW how exactly "did you notice" your friends ability to go straight to the main course? Never mind, I don't think I really want to know. lol

oral or anything else beyond some rubbing together of bodies, especially if I'm horny.  Of course, this only applies to a good encounter where she's "into it" and I find her hot and sexy.   I'm happy to say that's more often, than not.  Of course, I never turn down a good oral session as part of foreplay, giving and receiving.

Are you watching your friends have sex?

oh no, what I meant was that they tell me about their sexual experiences.

Which means you have no way of knowing if it is fact or fiction...

Maybe they are hard enough right out of the box or maybe not. If they are not getting oral the chances are that they are getting a hand job or doing it themselves.

Jeeezzz....what ever happened to foreplay?

Eye candy.
At times a little playing, or DFK may be needed for little Humphrey to come to attention, but oral is not usually a necessity.

That's my story and I am sticking to it.

and anybody who claims otherwise is in for a fight, unless of course they argue that 15 minutes is the actual minimum time required. lmao

The attitude and appearance of the lady helps.

I like to *finish* with the bbbjcim but I usually do not need to start that way. I'd much much rather be fucking....

oh yes! ESPECIALLY ones whohave sensitive necks, nipples, and love to kiss! mmmmmm I think its a turn on when a man gets erect from alternitive stimulation

We are in complete agreement!! Needed or not it is absolutely the best way to start the action!

For some reason, the door opening and seeing her for the first time seems to work for me!!
It has lead to uncomfortable questions when I hit the garage door opener however!

Oral is sometimes the best portion of any session, especially when she finishes me off with a DT/BBBJCIMNQNS!!  

Every man functions differently. I've had personal lovers around my own age (ranging from the early to late 20's) who have a tendency to start "softening up" when stimulation is removed. These are very fit individuals with active lifestyles and relatively healthy diets (well, as healthy as any 20ish American male's diet can be!). This just happens to be they way they've always been.

The problem with layman's identification of ED, or any health problem that isn't easily and accurately determined by way of a viral or bacteria test is that since "normal/healthy" functions are so individual dependent, perfectly healthy functions and people often fall within the wide range of "possible symptoms" for any given health issue.

If the OP is truly concerned, the he should see a doctor. Personally, however, unless the "issue" (and I use that term lightly) is such that it strongly negatively affects his lifestyle or sexual enjoyment, I think it's probably better to avoid the doctor trips and feel good pills.