I was reading some of the older posts this morning concerning what must go through the providers head immediately upon opening the door for a client who until that very moment had been sight unseen.

The ladies all seem to be in agreement that their way of surviving every client regardless of their appearance is to seek out and find the good points that everyone has and simply concentrate on those positives.

Now I understand that the ladies are probably concentrating more so on the envelope but I wondered whether I could ever be so subjective that in their position I would be able to find and then concentrate on the positive in a female date that was paying me for the full " Boy Friend Experience ".

We're are gonna need a much bigger envelope to begin with.

Imagine for a minute that you are the male escort arriving at the out call location. You approach the hotel room door, take a deep breath and knock gently waiting for your blind date to welcome you in.

Put yourself in the professionals shoes and click on one of the links below to view your date.

When she opens the door don't forget to give her a big smile and a wet kiss. Next, take your time and try to focus in on the positive characteristics that will help you to get through the next 2 hour date.

Good Luck......  

You ladies rock !

learn some more languages, and do it with women I was not attracted to.

if after a 2 hour session...paid for...and You couldn't get it up...lol...would You return the envelop????

There's only so much we can fake, when a woman, if she chooses can fake a great deal more.

what's the big fucking deal?  It would be my job to make her feel good both physically and mentally.  Ladies in this business close their eyes.  I don't need to look up at her when I am down on her.  Her face is not the worst sight in the world.  You think that ladies that pay for a guy are all hotties?   LMAO!  You think the average guy over 50 into this is much different?  She has bad taste in panties, but maybe she has other pluses.  What a bunch of wimps.  LOL

No way I am paying for it, but if it was my job, I would do my best for her.  I would do everything I could for her to feel good about herself and have a great time with me.  Grow up.

.........How do you wipe the " deer in the headlights " look of disappointment off of your face. How will you get hard and keep it hard. How will I keep from running in terror.

That takes a very particular mindset that I will never, ever understand.

As for me, I never deluded myself into thinking I could ever perform with a woman that I was not only not attracted to, but actually repulsed by.

Of course after reading some of the reviews that give nines and tens to women that I wouldn't rate above a three, I am sure there are many here on this board that have a future in male escorting. Just don't count me as one of them. yeech.

Have at it JD. I will remain shallow and immature, if that's what it means TYVM.

You can turn the lights out on ugly, you can't do the same for fat and/or smelly. No thank you, not at any price.

Call me shallow, call me immature, call me a fucking asshole with double standards. I don't care, I have been called all of this before. It doesn't change a thing, there is not enough money in the world to get me to fuck a fat ugly skank, not even if I got MP67 style drunk, and was paid a million bucks. lmao

Your a better man than I GG, I wasn't even going to respond to the clowns post who will not pay for it and has no reviews to prove it.

Jd you obviously mistook this post as something other than a pat on the back for the women who take such good care of us old, fat and out of shape, bald, disabled men who desperately need them.

I simply meant to put the ladies everyday job into perspective that I as a guy who fits some of the physical description above could understand.

It is not your job, so don't do her.  If it were my job, I would do what I need to do just as the ladies RG wants to worship do theirs.  It is not that big a deal.

RG, note the hygeine requirement.  Read.  Also, see previous post, I have been in P4P, swinging, etc. for a pretty long time.  Just not a reviewer at this site.

Are you saying guys who do not pay for sex are assclowns?  You ARE too immersed in this world.

Are you saying Gambler's words are valid with no reviews but mine are not?  I could be here every day making claims too.  Choose not to because too many are juvinille in here (not you from what I have seen, but the alias/mangina warriors).

Grow up = do your job.  Grow up = sexual attitude is more important than looks.  Grow up = kids make fun of people because of their looks.  Grow up = Accept others views even if different than yours.

Enjoy!

of discussion on things like this...then maybe You guys would...I'm just teasing..lol...if a man wanted to become a provider...what he would have to be able to do is...focus on his imagination so he could keep it up and stay up for a llloooonnnggg time or just take the little blue pill

Same number of TER reviews (hobby proof I guess) as I do.

So he always goes out of his way to remind everyone he is an opinionated asshole (his words, I have no problem with him) while I don't live at this site?  

What's your point about the mods?  If I disagree with him he'll sick the mods on me?  Are you saying the mods are tools?

I have seen a few clients that look alot like her...

about all those things, and more such as he has held several M & G's and attended many put on by others, and yes that 10,000 posts and mods and many all know where he lives and his true name...

As you pointed out "So What?" and I will add who gives a rats ass.

He has no point. As far as the mods go, one of the ways I stay on their good side is to respect their requests.

JD FWIW I have no problems with you, or your opinions, even if we disagree. RG was the one with the problem about your lack of reviews, obviously not me.

With any luck the poster using the Alias BenFranklin will keep picking a fight with me, and taking pot shots from behind his perceived safety of his alias, it would be nice to see Admin enforce the rules and flip his alias. I'd like for the whole board to see just who the little coward is.

JD, you are certainly entitled to your opinion, and FWIW I don't disagree that someone who undertakes a job needs to "do" that job or quit. My point was that, never in a million years would I undertake the job that providers do. I have met many hobbyists over the many years I have been involved in P4P, there are many hobbyists that even if I were a woman, I still wouldn't fuck for any amount of money in the world.

.... but given the surprise factor that occurs probably more often than not, besides the drive for the stuffed envelope, why would you want to ?

switched back to men again!  I guess not everything portrayed in Hollywood is real, HUH?

You are beginning to counter your earlier praise, or pat on the back, for the providers.  I believe you were trying to commend them for being able to do it.  Now you are saying it is not about being able.  Now you seem to be asking them why they would want to do it in the first place (other than purely $$$).  Kind of implies that they are low or very desperate for doing things none of you guys would.  Your message can be taken that way.

You are a self-proclaimed male equal to the lady in the pic.  What are you now saying about the women who see your routinely with this last post?  Good luck here.

Besides, I can't say I have always gotten the hotties at key parties.  You get who you get and just have fun with them.  You have heard the term "man up" right?  LOL

I've had only one (ONE) experience where the lady who showed up was a little difficult for me to get and keep little Eltons attention. I looked at her and tried really hard to remember just what in her pictures did I see. Then it hit me. I took my glasses off and looked again. She looked beautiful without my glasses on : ) Make a note Elton, always and I mean always, wear your glasses when choosing from internet because it's a matter of life and
death! : ) But really, she may have not looked as good as the triple VicodinES cocktail I had taken when looking, but she was still a hell of a sweetheart and I enjoyed myself, because I ALWAYS TAKE MY GLASSES OFF WHEN SCREWING : )

So, did the $10 bills look like hundies without your glasses too?  Otherwise, I'd have an issue.

yup they did. I'm just glad it wasn't the other way around : )But again, she was a good lady and really had some funny going and a big heart.