IMHO, do like the others say: move on ... or see if she just as suddenly agrees to see you without pics after you refuse.
Or, see if they will accept some of their own methods: "Pics are not of me but are representative of my true appearance." or "People tell me I look like [celebrity]."
What are their reasons for pics?
1. Is he good looking enough? No, I doubt it. Ever seen some of the male porn stars they work with?
2. I want his pic on file on my computer just in case something happens or just in case I want something to happen. Maybe.
3. She wants to know who to expect when she looks thru the peephole, before she opens the door. Maybe.
But if it's #3, you can just say, "I'm [height], clean-shaven, wearing a black jacket ... and I'll be holding up a copy of her latest DVD."
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