I go for pics and reviews. Then I check the boards to see if there is any DRAMA associated with the lady. Then I look at the price.  I don't even pay too much attention to the verbiage in the ads.

If I had to choose a date, I'd go with a classy ad. If I had to choose a fuck fest, raunchy. However, I'm not sure anymore if that makes one bit of a difference in terms of performance. So I stick to reviews. That's what they are for... to help us decide if the claims are for real or not.

First I was drawn to classy ads, so I booked classy ladies who are apparently classy. Some of them fuck like a porn star and are wilder in bed.  I was also drawn to porn stars so I booked raunchy ladies who have tons of hard core videos out there. Yet when I met them in person, some where reserved, not as hard core raunchy as I thought in terms of personality and performance. Some where even shy.... although many do tend to deliver a PSE.

First of all, I like both.  In other words, someone who starts out classy and gets raunchier as the session progresses.  But I'd say be just be yourself.  Go with your best instincts and present yourself the way you like to be in a session.  Personally, I like the way you handle yourself on the Boards.  It seems to come naturally to you, so I'd say go with it.

I become ill reading the guy's posts where they think they are on a date.

I would like to see pics that are a fair representation and a few honest words about what turns you on - if I wanted to close my eyes and fuck a blow up doll, I would go for the over-the-top crap - either fortunately or not, I'd prefer to connect with a real woman. The ads that do it for me are the ones that lead me to the web site and reviews - then I look for reality. For raunchy I can rub one out - who cares??

I knew you were talking about ad content.  What I'm suggesting is your ad and site content reflect your own personal style, both in writing and personally.  In other words, present yourself in your ads and site the way you really are.

or not, but I love sites that ooze sexuality.

Sometimes that can be done in a very classy way, with photos that show the body off like a piece of Greek sculpture, but which certainly tittillate my senses.

I think the best sites are the ones that blend these two qualities artfully.

" WET hott PUSSY ready to be FUCKED and Gag me with your hott cock now" sounds like her pimp wrote it. I'm not being facetious here. I find that overall most women who are ready to be that down and dirty in private, language and all, do not speak that way in public. Ads are public. So when I see ads like that I wonder "Did her pimp write that?" "Is she a skank?" " No Class"

I'm giving you my GUT REACTION to seeing that, not my rational evaluation. Ads are about gut reaction.

I think I'm representative of a portion of hobbyists. How much of a portion? I dont know.

The "VS" you gave are two ends of a spectrum. i like something in the middle. But I also like the innuendo, mystery, and unveiling of sexuality. Running my hand up a thigh and under a skirt to push a panty aside is far more of a turn on than seeing a woman go into a room dresses and come out naked.

The imagination is the MOST POWERFUL force  a provider can harness. And when done correctly, she leads a man to her in a way that nothing matters other than having her. Nothing matters. Even an wallet being emptied.  And if she DELIVERS... Its like going to Disneyland. You're fucking broke but you are in the "Happiest Place On Earth."


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I become ill reading the guy's posts where they are fucking douchebag twits who think they might be manly and funny.

Suicide is painless, buddy.

I may have very little experience, none here, but I know what I like. I don't in any way apply this to anyone else but overt raunchiness would be a definite turn off for me. I don't really see there being a consensus.

I want someone who comes across as the sweet girl next door type who gives just enough information to let me infer the rest. For me when I see raunchy I think, not necessarily correctly, of the lower opportunity girls.

I find myself agreeing 100% with the last two posts. An outright raunchy ad turns me off. I am much more attracted to classy sexuality that draws me into wanting more. The same with photos - show me enough to make me want to see the rest.

if stuff is left to my imagination, then i imagine what i like.  and i'm a snobby dick, though also a delightful dick...

elevate the "raunch quotient" in the appointment.