The job is certainly different in many respects, but would providers concede that much of the argument still applies to the job of being an escort?

(Guys: I know it will be tough, but maintain some radio silence on this for a while until a decent number of gals have tossed in their two cents.  Thanks.)

More like hooker silence. LOL! :

EOM

...Bella Abzug?  Wouldn't that show what a feminist you are?

Being the kinkster that you are, fish, you probably already checked this one off your bucket list.

There is shit I would not do or deal with in a non paid date with a person of my choosing with whom there is an attraction and a level playing field.  

Better go find your new friend for some help.

I go out of my way to sift out anyone I'm not more than pleased to be with.  Everyone needs money, but I would imagine you'd lose your soul pretty quickly to be with people you don't want to be with, and I'm certainly glad you don't speak for this provider.  Yuck.

Why anyone would continue to do ANY job they so much hate is beyond logical.

I like my clients as people, but in so far as sexually they are not my type or age group. I can enjoy them in other ways and I do. Do I WANT to be with them sexually ..no I don't but I can do my job and not lose any soul...been doing this on and off for a while as I choose the right type of client for ME.  

You whine about the johns you have to see...then crow about how you screen the creeps out.

when I don't want to give myself to someone, I tell them to see someone else, and that happens on a regular basis.  I do understand bitterness, though, and when that has happened, I got out for a few years.  Maybe you need a break.

parameters? Is it on personality, sexual likes or dislikes, they way they speak to you?  

But clearly from your conflicted posts for the past several years now (under you old handle as well)...this is FAR from easy...and not particularly lucrative.

...in every profession with some responding more unfavorably than others, as in the attached customer/waitress story that made headlines.
 
(After the customer left, the waitress’s tip was less than 15%.

Nah it's more fun when he does!

Toxwell = our currently-missing toxic piñata.
Twatter Account = yes, he does have a Twitter account and recently claimed he had 100 followers, as if that was an impressive number.  One of my correspondents reports, however, the count is now down to 70.
Do I win a prize

I can only imagine how lousy a hooker she would make, even if she weren't butt ugly.

I have to confess, there are a LOT of servers who get less than 15%  from me, I don't hesitate for a minute, nor do I lose a single minute of sleep after "stiffing" a lousy wait staff employee.

OTOH, i am big on "overtipping" and often tip 30-40- even 50% or more for good or exceptional service, but give me lousy service and an entitled attitude and I won't leave one red cent.

If I don't like someone fir any reason I don't session, so, yes, I am attracted to 100% of my clients.  I'm very low volume, and I don't make appointments with anyone I don't feel can dominate me without me letting go and giving complete control.  From there, it is a matter of complete submission, and the parameters are defined by them so long as they keep me physically safe.  I couldn't session more than twice a month because I need time to heal from injuries, but I definitely wouldn't be doing this unless I was able to set up boundaries outside of sessions (almost no boundaries in seasion)that protected me from having to submit to anyone I dislike.

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I have my own set of gripes about my business, and every time I have a bad day I have to remind myself, "If this were easy, everyone would do it and it wouldn't pay for shit"

I know this to be true because all the girls have told me so lol. The donation is just to cover some of there time, but the sex, well they just can't help themselves as soon as they see me of course lol.

In this business, the time for bitterness is when guy’s STOP making sexual advances.

But when asked by CNN what her positions were on any topic...well, they just pulled up her prior opposite comments.

I'm sure that he's crying about that as well.

Sorry if I have little sympathy for those who makes shitload of money and still whines.  

Some do...most don't.  

And even though sexually it does nothing, I can still say I have many moments in this that are fun (some of my guys give awesome back massages) and of course there is the monetary reward, which for me is the primary reason I do this. I choose very carefully who I see so that I am not a pissed off hooker and can perform with relative ease the things I know are expected of me.

that you're NOT a pissed off hooker  LOL

Really? You think that only people who’re making (barely) minimum wage should have the right to object to how they’re treated as workers?  

She actually required a face-to-face meeting before she'd do a session with anyone.  Because she wanted to know if her "date" could perform in a way that met her needs as well.

On tipping wait staff (A general guideline):

Even for those who don't make a lot of money they still make at least X10 the minimum wage.