Most providers I have met are incredibly compassionate and accepting people which tells me one of two things for you:

1)  You are possibly selecting the wrong providers- look at the ones with solid 9's in performance and gfe in descriptions in the reviews

2)  You have a personal or dental hygiene problem or behavior problem that is striking you out--    for this I recommend clicking the "self help" link at the top of this forum or the "TER instruction manual" link at the top of the FAQ for Newbies forum and reading every link in these areas- lots of great tips for being a good hobbiest-  I follow them to the letter and they really helped me get started.

Also, consider more mature providers- in the mid 30's to mid 40's.

Hope that helps!

-- Modified on 11/6/2007 11:57:41 AM

LOL, I thought that was funny as hell.

People, you can't seriously believe he is serious with the pic he posted? That is so photoshopped that is is hilarious.

Minty Ass

At least you are getting a date. I can't even get them to reply back to my emails. LOL

Bengalguy85

O.k., let's see if I can put this delicately...

If you're seeing them as providers, it's not about your looks. (If they're dating you in civvie life, looks rank.)

My guess is that either you did or said something during the session but I have no idea...

If girls won't see you again as a regular, that's their problem... there's plenty of providers in the sea.

XOXO,

Katie

Why not address the root of the problem instead of the symptom - lose some weight.  Weight loss will result in less perineal friction, heat, and moisture, therefore less redness.  It would also 1-extend your life, 2-give you more energy, 3-reduce your risk of disease (including diabetes, a frequent cause of impotence), 4-improve your self image, 5-improve how you appear to others. . .  The list goes on.  I write this not to flame you, but to help you and others recognize some of the consequences of excess weight.  Time to throw away the soda and chips America!