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I have the cash, why can't I ever get a second date with a provider?

-- Modified on 11/6/2007 11:44:08 AM

Most providers I have met are incredibly compassionate and accepting people which tells me one of two things for you:

1)  You are possibly selecting the wrong providers- look at the ones with solid 9's in performance and gfe in descriptions in the reviews

2)  You have a personal or dental hygiene problem or behavior problem that is striking you out--    for this I recommend clicking the "self help" link at the top of this forum or the "TER instruction manual" link at the top of the FAQ for Newbies forum and reading every link in these areas- lots of great tips for being a good hobbiest-  I follow them to the letter and they really helped me get started.

Also, consider more mature providers- in the mid 30's to mid 40's.

Hope that helps!

-- Modified on 11/6/2007 11:57:41 AM

You must be a mess if no woman will even take your money.

Even lepers can get robbed blind by an unscrupulous provider. Sorry, but you can't be serious.

... may be setting the bar a bit high. You might consider contacting the providers you have seen and ask them to be completely honest about why they won't see you again. It could be a myriad of reasons; from scheduling to personal chemistry. It might be something about you consistent throughout the different sessions, or it could be different reasons across the spectrum. I highly doubt it has anything to do with your physical appearance. -e

LOL, I thought that was funny as hell.

People, you can't seriously believe he is serious with the pic he posted? That is so photoshopped that is is hilarious.

Minty Ass

At least you are getting a date. I can't even get them to reply back to my emails. LOL

Bengalguy85

-- Modified on 11/6/2007 4:42:03 PM

O.k., let's see if I can put this delicately...

If you're seeing them as providers, it's not about your looks. (If they're dating you in civvie life, looks rank.)

My guess is that either you did or said something during the session but I have no idea...

If girls won't see you again as a regular, that's their problem... there's plenty of providers in the sea.

XOXO,

Katie

I wont see a guy again if he was really really gross, and thats actually rare....or if he was gross in his manners or actions...

 Just be a gentlemen, dont spit a gob of loogies on your hand and then try to rub it all over my kitty for example. Thankgiod I dont run into that..but for some reason when I worked at blue gem,s, in my PV days..there were more then a few that would try that..LOL

  I mean just treat her like shes fragile, like shes a rare piece of diamond you found, meaning..treat her really nice..handle with care..be polite, nice..and things should be fine.  Dont grab at her bits like they are hamburger meat...and you should be just fine!  We all just want to have a good time here right??? Right!

Why not address the root of the problem instead of the symptom - lose some weight.  Weight loss will result in less perineal friction, heat, and moisture, therefore less redness.  It would also 1-extend your life, 2-give you more energy, 3-reduce your risk of disease (including diabetes, a frequent cause of impotence), 4-improve your self image, 5-improve how you appear to others. . .  The list goes on.  I write this not to flame you, but to help you and others recognize some of the consequences of excess weight.  Time to throw away the soda and chips America!

Wrong thread.....and for the rest of you...please look at the link the original poster put in his posting. I am betting big odds that this was meant to be a "funny" thread and not an appeal for a real problem.