This is maybe a noob question.  I have been using providers for years.  Never repeated, even if it was 10/10. But i just met the provider of my dreams.  There is something about her that drives me nuts.  anyway I am thinking of becoming a regular with her.  Once a week, or twice a month.  haven't decided.  So my question is this.  Should i be entitled to a discount?  Should I ask?  Or not.  I assume since things will be easier, and the risk is less.  not sure.  Would like to here from both providers and clients.

anything about long term arrangements on her site? No harm in asking if she does them. That would open the conversation to discussions of compensation.

Never Ever ask for a Discount. Even if you're one of her Regular Clients. She has put you on her Regular Client List for being Nice and paying her Price. There is nothing to be Entitled for with a Provider. If this Provider is so Awesome, wouldn't you feel Guilty for asking for a Discount? I'll answer that question for you, I would feel Guilty. You want to keep seeing her? Then pay her Price and don't ever ask for a Discount. Why Destroy a Good Thing for a (put your Discount Price here) Discount.

C'mon, if she's that good, let us all know who it is.  Even if you see her twice a month, that still leaves 28 other days for the rest of us..

Some providers offer a discount if you prepay, more like a regular SD/SB arrangement.  For the most part, being a "regular" is up to her to decide.  You may think you are a regular and entitled to ask for a discount if you see her once/month.  But she may have a client that sees her every week, and he's more of a regular.

Do you get dizzy after spending all that time on your knees?

Since your history is one of wanting variety, see her a few more times before asking about a discount/arrangement. It's not fair to her if you get her to agree to something and then you decide to move on.
Give it some time.

Then ask this question...

...you have at least proven that you are a REAL regular. DO NOT start asking for discounts if you have only seen her once. You haven't proven that you are a true regular. (meaning have seen her consistently.) Many promise they will become regulars, get the discounted rate, then never come back. IF they get the discounted rate. If she's worth it, just go see her and enjoy her for what she feels she's worth. If you can't afford her all the time after you've seen her a few times, maybe talk to her about it LATER in the relationship.

My gift is staying over, cute mushy emails back to the thoughtful afterglow emails from some sweetheart I saw the night before, etc. etc.

And everybody here sure does have on. But their opinions mean nothing, all that matters is what goes on between you and your girl.

and as many of the foregoing responders have opined, requesting one could alter the tone of your relationship, and damage it.

So, count yourself lucky to have met such a nice provider, and if she offers some extra time or services, as Courtney says she has done, graciously accept them and feel blessed for having had her done so.

I find these same offerings from time to time, and I've never had to request same.

If she wants to give you a discount, she will but she also might not give a shit if you see her as a regular. Not all providers want to see the same guys over and over, and hell...she might not even like your ass. Just sayin.

The asking is the offense, and I would probably bring an attitude to the next date, so don't ask. I am pretty damn generous with men I care to see again, so those asking would probably be referred to a friend. Also, if the guy asks and she says "no," rarely do they contact her again out of humiliation so what's the point? Now, you not only did not get a discount, but she also does not want to see you again.

She just stops seeing him. He takes that risk. But no harm in asking. I don't give monetary discounts, but I do give OTC time to my regs.

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If ROGM is seeing some gal as he claims over and over and over for more than a few hours...and the gal doesn't want to "offer" him a quantity discount...no problem for me.

Not sure what the situation is with our OP. But I must add he needs to be a regular to be considered one as many have already said. And to wit, she may not want him as a regular. He loved their meeting, she is doing her job.  

I have no problem "offering" things to those I truly want to hang out with, or have the time...you should know that, but when "asked" it seriously makes me not want to book with said person again. I will only do so if I need the money, and that says it all right there. A great client can turn into just another john, by expecting and asking for things not offered.  

OK...that's really odd.  Unless you are looking only for one hour (or halfhour) johnnie boys who troll BP?

And the johnnie boy cries the fucking blues  

Posted By: London Rayne

I have no problem "offering" things to those I truly want to hang out with, or have the time...you should know that, but when "asked" it seriously makes me not want to book with said person again. I will only do so if I need the money, and that says it all right there. A great client can turn into just another john, by expecting and asking for things not offered.  
   
 I wonder how the same guys would feel if we said, "Look, about this Multi Pop GFE thing we have been doing for 2 years now...I was wondering if you would still be willing to pay my FULL FEE just to rub your back and give you a blow job." Funny, how those tables can turn. When a guy asks for a discount, he is in essence saying "I want the very same hard work you have always provided, but for less money." So, let us compromise...I will give you HALF the service for HALF the rate. There, all better.

Not everyone who offers hourly is BP. I do offer 90 minutes as well.

And that is how I deal with those who ask for discounts. I will but I discount time and/or service.  

Most have multiple hour rates as well as overnights and weekends.  Hence my comment on BP...there I have seen the hour or less as the standard (at least here in ChiTown).

For those 3 to 4 hours, most of which is not F&S, what would you typically pay?

a total fee for the entire time.  So as an example if a gal charges 600/2 that's what I pay.  But as well that typically would include going out for lunch which may be another hour or two.

T

Pretty darn generous to some of us who have seen you for the first time.
Very good "customer" service....LOL   ( sure would of been nice to see that type of service during my marriage )