Since your history is one of wanting variety, see her a few more times before asking about a discount/arrangement. It's not fair to her if you get her to agree to something and then you decide to move on. Give it some time.
This is maybe a noob question. I have been using providers for years. Never repeated, even if it was 10/10. But i just met the provider of my dreams. There is something about her that drives me nuts. anyway I am thinking of becoming a regular with her. Once a week, or twice a month. haven't decided. So my question is this. Should i be entitled to a discount? Should I ask? Or not. I assume since things will be easier, and the risk is less. not sure. Would like to here from both providers and clients.
anything about long term arrangements on her site? No harm in asking if she does them. That would open the conversation to discussions of compensation.
Never Ever ask for a Discount. Even if you're one of her Regular Clients. She has put you on her Regular Client List for being Nice and paying her Price. There is nothing to be Entitled for with a Provider. If this Provider is so Awesome, wouldn't you feel Guilty for asking for a Discount? I'll answer that question for you, I would feel Guilty. You want to keep seeing her? Then pay her Price and don't ever ask for a Discount. Why Destroy a Good Thing for a (put your Discount Price here) Discount.
Do you get dizzy after spending all that time on your knees?
If you ever get your head out of her ass you'll realize that all the other dudes have been getting deals.
Ask and you too shall receive....or keep on sniffing her ass!
Posted By: ROGM
Never Ever ask for a Discount. Even if you're one of her Regular Clients. She has put you on her Regular Client List for being Nice and paying her Price. There is nothing to be Entitled for with a Provider. If this Provider is so Awesome, wouldn't you feel Guilty for asking for a Discount? I'll answer that question for you, I would feel Guilty. You want to keep seeing her? Then pay her Price and don't ever ask for a Discount. Why Destroy a Good Thing for a (put your Discount Price here) Discount.
My gift is staying over, cute mushy emails back to the thoughtful afterglow emails from some sweetheart I saw the night before, etc. etc.
There are times, if a guy is faithful, there's good company, and he seems to want me around a little longer, where I do stay for a little while.
This contradicts some things I said in the past about clock-watching vs being taken advantage of... but this is in a different light. Like I said before, if we're having a nice time conversing, sure I'll stick around. If a dude is having a rough day and something important spills out of his mouth, I'll sit and talk with him for a bit about it. i"m not just going to say "wait... before you go on, the next 1/2 hour is $$$".
Time, my friend, is worth more than a measly discount.
The asking is the offense, and I would probably bring an attitude to the next date, so don't ask. I am pretty damn generous with men I care to see again, so those asking would probably be referred to a friend. Also, if the guy asks and she says "no," rarely do they contact her again out of humiliation so what's the point? Now, you not only did not get a discount, but she also does not want to see you again.
Pretty darn generous to some of us who have seen you for the first time. Very good "customer" service....LOL ( sure would of been nice to see that type of service during my marriage )
If ROGM is seeing some gal as he claims over and over and over for more than a few hours...and the gal doesn't want to "offer" him a quantity discount...no problem for me.
But he should know that she is indeed offering to others who realize that time is indeed money. Some gals will reduce the multi-hour rates for LTR johns....while others will do OTC.
Fortunately there are plenty of ROGM's here and the gals really love those guys...talk about separating a fool from his money
Oh...and if he asked and she said no...then the reality of what this is will hit him hard. I'll bet he believes that she just can't stand that he has to leave so early. Guess that glass slipper didn't really belong to her?
Posted By: justanillusion
She just stops seeing him. He takes that risk. But no harm in asking. I don't give monetary discounts, but I do give OTC time to my regs.
Not sure what the situation is with our OP. But I must add he needs to be a regular to be considered one as many have already said. And to wit, she may not want him as a regular. He loved their meeting, she is doing her job.
Case in point, a guy I saw a few weeks ago was awful, he was pushy, arrogant but I did my job and he enjoyed himself and wants to repeat. No way in hell would I see him again and will be "unavailable". Two very different perspectives of the same situation.
I don't do multi hours so it is fiscally unrewarding to discount, so I add some otc time.
And how does he know or any guy know for sure that a provider is offering discounts to other men? That is assumed my friend. Sure you might know about a few but that is a small sample of the entire hooker community
OK...that's really odd. Unless you are looking only for one hour (or halfhour) johnnie boys who troll BP?
Sheesh...an hour allows just enough time to say "Hi"...maybe a BBBJ and say "Bye". Whatever LOL
I've repeatedly said that for those one hour studs there are NO deals, per se. Well, I do see the gals post up specials and such for a quickie...but to each their own.
I like the long gigs...you know, play around then go and grab some lunch....mill around the mall (play on words...like it?) and maybe cap things off with a little more play before dinner.
It's just how many guys tend to roll....and those prices are always negotiated. Except for those fellas that need to keep the lights off for fear of seeing their own shadow. And plenty of those around here.
Posted By: justanillusion
Not sure what the situation is with our OP. But I must add he needs to be a regular to be considered one as many have already said. And to wit, she may not want him as a regular. He loved their meeting, she is doing her job.
Case in point, a guy I saw a few weeks ago was awful, he was pushy, arrogant but I did my job and he enjoyed himself and wants to repeat. No way in hell would I see him again and will be "unavailable". Two very different perspectives of the same situation.
I don't do multi hours so it is fiscally unrewarding to discount, so I add some otc time.
And how does he know or any guy know for sure that a provider is offering discounts to other men? That is assumed my friend. Sure you might know about a few but that is a small sample of the entire hooker community.
Not everyone who offers hourly is BP. I do offer 90 minutes as well.
I don't have the time or really the inclination to spend that much time at this job. If it was understood that in a two hour time frame we spent one hour doing it and the other doing other stuff, then sure, but I cannot take 2 hours of sex.
What you described is like a half a day. And I can see where those prices are negotiated because it is not all fucking and sucking. I love sex but I am not a marathon type, never have been even in my private life.
Now I could do what you suggested but I am deathly afraid of getting guys who want all the time BCD.
Most have multiple hour rates as well as overnights and weekends. Hence my comment on BP...there I have seen the hour or less as the standard (at least here in ChiTown).
I've done some 90 minute gigs, but it's not something I prefer. However a 90 minute BCD is fine...but then I also like to do the lunch gig and so on. So my typical playtime runs 3-4 hours. Most of which is not fucking.
FWIW the gals who offer multi-hours have similar agendas as I do. Maybe that's why I tended to gravitate towards those types of gals. And they won't entertain hours and hours on non-stop fucking.
I'm sure that dudes like Fidiot who are not old, fat, bald and ugly can go hours and hours and hours because of his workout regime...but us mere mortals tend to like diversity. So I guess if most every gal I've know can't go hours and hours on end either...based on Fidiot's asinine diatribes they too must be fat, old, and ugly...with the occasional bald thrown in for good measure
FWIW I pay the rates for BCD and the rest is OTC. Works for me...works for the gals I see...if not I don't see her, nor she me. Win-win for all
Posted By: justanillusion
Not everyone who offers hourly is BP. I do offer 90 minutes as well.
I don't have the time or really the inclination to spend that much time at this job. If it was understood that in a two hour time frame we spent one hour doing it and the other doing other stuff, then sure, but I cannot take 2 hours of sex.
What you described is like a half a day. And I can see where those prices are negotiated because it is not all fucking and sucking. I love sex but I am not a marathon type, never have been even in my private life.
Now I could do what you suggested but I am deathly afraid of getting guys who want all the time BCD.
For those 3 to 4 hours, most of which is not F&S, what would you typically pay?
I ask because there are a couple of guys I see and we do the deed in about an hour and I can hang for another hour time permitting OTC. Sometimes a bit less or not at all depending on other things I have going on. None of the OTC time is charged for. But is rarely does it go for 3 to 4 hours.
a total fee for the entire time. So as an example if a gal charges 600/2 that's what I pay. But as well that typically would include going out for lunch which may be another hour or two.
However if I make a whole day of it I'll typically pay 1k for an 8 hour day. Usually a couple of hours is spent BCD with the rest out and about. I've done the movie deal, mall milling, boutique little town milling, museums and a meal or two. Not as a first time session however...this is with someone that I've spent a few 2 hour sessions with and enjoy their out and about persona.
As well when I've asked for that deal it's entirely dependent on her availability. If she's got other paying gigs lined up I'll back off and find a different day when she's not otherwise busy. Hence it's a win-win...or at least it has been for years.
I haven't found many who don't appreciate this type of gig. But I'm sure there's an outlier there somewhere LOL
And as you have read here...the gals denounce that this is an option. Of course it's not LOL
Posted By: justanillusion
For those 3 to 4 hours, most of which is not F&S, what would you typically pay?
I ask because there are a couple of guys I see and we do the deed in about an hour and I can hang for another hour time permitting OTC. Sometimes a bit less or not at all depending on other things I have going on. None of the OTC time is charged for. But is rarely does it go for 3 to 4 hours.
I have no problem "offering" things to those I truly want to hang out with, or have the time...you should know that, but when "asked" it seriously makes me not want to book with said person again. I will only do so if I need the money, and that says it all right there. A great client can turn into just another john, by expecting and asking for things not offered.
I wonder how the same guys would feel if we said, "Look, about this Multi Pop GFE thing we have been doing for 2 years now...I was wondering if you would still be willing to pay my FULL FEE just to rub your back and give you a blow job." Funny, how those tables can turn. When a guy asks for a discount, he is in essence saying "I want the very same hard work you have always provided, but for less money." So, let us compromise...I will give you HALF the service for HALF the rate. There, all better.
No biggie...there's another hooker waiting for him and his wallet. And he'll work the deal till he's tired of it and find another.
Let's not forget that few, if any hookers have any real interest in their johns. If they did the money would not be an issue. But since she is here to pay her bills she'll either work a deal with the LTR or he'll move along. As well if she finds some lovestruck johnnie boy willing to pay full freight she'll suddenly become unavailable.
It's this dance that the music never stops.
Posted By: London Rayne
I have no problem "offering" things to those I truly want to hang out with, or have the time...you should know that, but when "asked" it seriously makes me not want to book with said person again. I will only do so if I need the money, and that says it all right there. A great client can turn into just another john, by expecting and asking for things not offered.
I wonder how the same guys would feel if we said, "Look, about this Multi Pop GFE thing we have been doing for 2 years now...I was wondering if you would still be willing to pay my FULL FEE just to rub your back and give you a blow job." Funny, how those tables can turn. When a guy asks for a discount, he is in essence saying "I want the very same hard work you have always provided, but for less money." So, let us compromise...I will give you HALF the service for HALF the rate. There, all better.
Some providers offer a discount if you prepay, more like a regular SD/SB arrangement. For the most part, being a "regular" is up to her to decide. You may think you are a regular and entitled to ask for a discount if you see her once/month. But she may have a client that sees her every week, and he's more of a regular.
I've never asked for a discount for being a regular. But after several years of seeing the same person, she offers me discounts once in a while, and also offers much more than a discount...she offers me her friendship and that makes our experiences so much better.
So I suggest NOT asking for a discount until AFTER you've firmly established that you ARE indeed a regular, and even then, I would not ask for it. See what she offers to her regulars first. If you NEED the discount to become a regular, then perhaps you should ask. But I think its better not to ask.
Since your history is one of wanting variety, see her a few more times before asking about a discount/arrangement. It's not fair to her if you get her to agree to something and then you decide to move on. Give it some time.
...you have at least proven that you are a REAL regular. DO NOT start asking for discounts if you have only seen her once. You haven't proven that you are a true regular. (meaning have seen her consistently.) Many promise they will become regulars, get the discounted rate, then never come back. IF they get the discounted rate. If she's worth it, just go see her and enjoy her for what she feels she's worth. If you can't afford her all the time after you've seen her a few times, maybe talk to her about it LATER in the relationship.
How much of a discount are you looking for?
You also may come across as a cheap-o if she doesn't know you, and if she is in demand, she has plenty who will pay full price. I don't get many people asking for discounts. They even pay the full donation when I do offer small discounts to P411 members, or other programs that make screening a breeze, etc. Not sure why, but...
I don't give 'em, but with regulars, if we're having a good conversation or just a nice warm, fuzzy time, I treat myself to their company a little longer. That's kind of a discount and a 'thank you kiss' for being faithful. That's worth a lot more than a discount IMO. Not to mention, it's a compliment to you. Doesn't happen too often because I cater to a lot of busy men, however.
Stick around. Good things cometh to those who wait. Depending on the strategy/budget of the lady, a discount may not be in her favor, and may not be in yours either. A generous man really does go far, and makes a lady, even in this business, feel taken care of and nurtured in a way. She'll be good to you in return if she's as great as you feel.
In all due respect, you may insult her, honestly. Unless it's a budget issue, where you may need to make a sacrifice and see her 3 x/mo instead of 4 to pay full price.
And everybody here sure does have on. But their opinions mean nothing, all that matters is what goes on between you and your girl.
If you ask for a discount, either she'll give you one or she won't, but there is a risk that she will get angry at the request. If you can't stand to take that risk, then don't ask.
It matters HOW you ask as well. If you just say "I'd love to see you on a regular basis, can we work out a regular rate" or something like that, what's the harm. But as someone else suggested, you'll likely get a more favorable response if you prove yourself first - become a regular FIRST and then ask for the deal. Plenty of guys talk big and then don't follow through, if you show her you are reliable first it will make a difference.
and as many of the foregoing responders have opined, requesting one could alter the tone of your relationship, and damage it.
So, count yourself lucky to have met such a nice provider, and if she offers some extra time or services, as Courtney says she has done, graciously accept them and feel blessed for having had her done so.
I find these same offerings from time to time, and I've never had to request same.
If she wants to give you a discount, she will but she also might not give a shit if you see her as a regular. Not all providers want to see the same guys over and over, and hell...she might not even like your ass. Just sayin.
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