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Bootzie58 1517 reads
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1 / 34

I have noticed alot of young ladies posting half hour rates, along with hr and multiple hr.  Do you shy away from these types of ladies?  Are you more apt to date a lady that doesn't do 30 min dates?  Do ladies that only do 1 to 2 appointments a day wet your appetite?  Just curious.....

4x800 1 Reviews 150 reads
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2 / 34


Half an hour is too short a time, and yes, one would tend to shy away from that.

xxmeowbabyxx See my TER Reviews 310 reads
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3 / 34

......type of lady am I??? Hmmmm????  I offer half hour rates, I must be some sort of street walkin, 20 posts a day on CL kind of gal???

I live downtown, and lots and lots of my regulars work down here.  Many of them find it quite difficult to get the time to see me after work or on weekends due to family life and likely a tight leash. So, their lunch time is sometimes the only time they can get away. It may not be an hour filled with lovin, touchin, squeezig,foreplayin, but I can assure you they don't lack for anything.  But of course, Im just one of 'those types of ladies'

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 238 reads
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4 / 34

you sound to me like the "type" of Lady who adapts to what works best for her. Good for you. As long as you meet Your priorities, what you want to accomplish and get out of this what you need from Your business its all good.
We all run our business the way we want to. What works for one in a certain area may not work as well for another.
The time frame has no bearing on the Lady. The question is really what "type" of hobbyist is in question. They are the ones who have the time issues, not the Lady accomidating them and their timing needs.

hungry1951 29 Reviews 211 reads
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5 / 34

Hell no! I don't really give a shit what she did in your half hour. It doesn't make her any less appealing to me. I just prefer not to ask for a half hour. It's not enough time for me. I always ask for multi hour dates, and I don't care what other options the lady may have. As long as I'm the only guy that counts when we're together, I'm a pretty happy guy.

Electrocuted-Scrotum 168 reads
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6 / 34

If a provider is offering 1/2 hour rates, and it works for her, then more power to her.
In today's economic climate, I think it is a smart move for some to offer it.
Nothing wrong with that in my book. It may be a somewhat rushed session, which could be the only downside.

mattradd 40 Reviews 167 reads
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7 / 34

Do you ask the ladies you're with how many dates they have a day?

SlantSix 151 Reviews 168 reads
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8 / 34

To me, you are asking two very different things...nothing wrong with that.

Thing one: It doesn't bother me if a provider has half hours, but I am not interested in that amount of time.  I always want a full hour.  Even more is better, but that is usually out of my budget. But a half hour?  Not for me, I want to DATY for at least 20 min.  At least!
I do perceive higher quality (and unfortunately higher price) with providers that do not offer half hours. Many of the lovely ladies I have been with offer halfs.
My red flag goes up when I see an ad that offers quickies/15 min.  Then I run the other way.

Thing two: Yes I prefer a provider that only sees 1 or 2 gentleman a day.  However, I really have no way of knowing for sure how many appointments a provider gives in a day.

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 190 reads
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9 / 34

I had a man ask me that, as if who I play with is any of his business...if you have a 1hr appt at 11am with me your business with me is from 11 to noon. What I do b4 11 and after noon is none of your business.

FireinHearth 3 Reviews 138 reads
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10 / 34

What rates a lady chooses to offer does not matter to me as long as I can afford it.  What does matter to me is the chemistry that develops between us when we are together. This takes time and perhaps some preliminary exchange of emails. Anticipation is a big part of the process. And I don't think of the girl as a machine to service my dick.
For me, at least, half an hour is not long enough to do more than get my rocks off.  I can do that with a porn movie and my right hand.

belindabell See my TER Reviews 153 reads
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11 / 34

Just because a lady offers half hour dates, doesn't mean she's not GFE or seeing a dozen guys every day.  

I offer half hours because some gentlemen do not have an opportunity to get away from family or job for more than that.

None of us should make assumptions about a lady and her business just because she does something that someone else does not.

And, by the way, hasn't the initial question been asked and answered a million times?

Hugs, Belinda

mrfisher 112 Reviews 119 reads
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TheCyclist 5 Reviews 134 reads
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13 / 34

She is with me.

What she does with the rest of her time is up to her.

I will never ask her how many guys she sees. It's just not my way to pry.

If she wants to 15 or 30 minutes or 24 hours, that's up to her. It just doesn't effect me.

PatronDeAmore 93 reads
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14 / 34

I wouldn't say this would be the deciding factor: if the provider had great reviews and she was attractive to me, then I wouldn't be put off by it. However, if I was already getting a not-so-good vibe, this might contribute to the impression.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 156 reads
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15 / 34

With a visiting provider. It was a little rushed, but other than that, it was fine. And like all the other posts, what she does with her time when she's not with me is none of my business. When an ad says low volume provider, I take it with a grain of salt, and it really isn't any of my business, as I previously stated. BTW I'll see the visiting lady the next time she's in town and will book more time.

cshore 15 Reviews 95 reads
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16 / 34

Not interested.  Never touch em.

johngaltnh 6 Reviews 85 reads
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17 / 34

I LIKE the fact some providers offer half hour sessions.

I've never had one because I prefer a bit more leisure; but I'm glad it is there if I want it.

Let's face it -- the chemistry might not be right. A half hour session seems ideal to me for a first time with anyone.

starwars1977 106 reads
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Zayzha See my TER Reviews 150 reads
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19 / 34

I mean come on, as long as you are satisfied, who cares how long it takes? The only reason I don't do half hours is because I work out of hotels and they are not cheap, especially if I only see 1 client per day.

And sweetheart, don't fool yourself by thinking a woman who you spend an hour plus with is any cleaner or better than the shorter time women. Most travelling girls see AT LEAST 10 or more men everyday they work. And with that kind of schedule, she does not shower everytime.

I'd much rather have 30 minutes of raw, passionate, mind-blowing sex than 2hrs of boring or trying to wake that dead head up due to whatever reason.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 152 reads
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21 / 34

like me when we are together and run their businesses any way they want.

xxmeowbabyxx See my TER Reviews 159 reads
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22 / 34

......These guys saying they'll avoid a provider because she offers half hours?? If they don't want a half hour they can schedule for an hour or longer but wont' because she offers halfs???

Am I a different person because I offer halfs? Am I a low end provider?  Should I just stop doing hours and only offer car dates because you've put me in that catagory?  I have pages of steller reviews. All high performance numbers. Yet none of that matters to you since I offer half hours?? That makes no sense.

So are you telling me that if you came across my profile, read my reviews, loved my pix on my site and even maybe corosponded a few times via email...you're all hot to set a date but then you find out I offer half hours.....You then decide not to see me?? How did that make me different?????? Can someone please explain this to me???  Are you assuming that ladies that offer halfs have a revolving door????  You should not stero type but base your choice on the individual. Seems as if you're assuming an awful lot just because she offers half our appts. :(

eyeluv2look 4 Reviews 141 reads
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23 / 34

I say she is one skilled lady at what she does. I need more time myself. If you take away the DFK, DATY,and just do BBBJCIM then 30min is fine.

to_each_his_own 114 reads
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24 / 34

Since I don't need more than a 1/2 hour, I truly appreciate ladies who post 1/2 hour timeslots, along with their 1 hour or multi-hour slots.

Bottomline, I don't need more than an hour, at the most.  What in the heavens do I do for multiple hours ?  Sit and chat ?  If so, then that certainly is an expensive chat.

johngaltnh 6 Reviews 115 reads
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Bootzie58 117 reads
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26 / 34

to define the term these types of ladies must have hit a cord.  By this I mean high volume, thats all.

Niceguy75 35 Reviews 82 reads
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27 / 34

I don't stay away from ladies who post a 30 minute rate, I just don't usually book a half an hour. I don't a 30 minute option make you less desirable, you have to take in all the factors.

I do try and avoid "high volume" providers however. I realize that at the end of the day it is still a business, but something about being #6 of the day lessens my enthusiasm. I can't imagine that a lady has the same eagerness after seeing several clients before me. That is why I prefer earlier appointments whenever possible.

BBWsimone See my TER Reviews 107 reads
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28 / 34

Half hours as of recently.
Honestly I do not prefer half hours at all. I began offering them as an answer to the economy.



Simone

-- Modified on 6/5/2009 4:14:12 AM

cshore 15 Reviews 125 reads
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29 / 34

I responded that I would pass.  And I generally would.  It depends on what a guy is looking for.  If it is a quick release there are plenty of options and the half hour providers fill that bill.  But I most often would prefer a dinner date and evening out.  In that case I pass on the half hour providers.  I am not sure why but guess that I just think they must be worn out by the end of the day.

sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 107 reads
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30 / 34

the time a lady spends with a client has no bearing on high or low volume in the end. I see some days one some days 3 clients and many days I don't work at all.
To one lady I may seem very low volume to another Lady who sees one or two clients a month or week I may seem high volume.
Read their reviews see what their clients take away from their experience.
One has nothing to do with the other in the end.
Hitting a cord..maybe. But the cord you hit with me at least is assuming you know what you are talking about and in this case you clearly don't.

tdreads 1 Reviews 79 reads
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31 / 34

I agree. I can do all i need to do in a half

xxmeowbabyxx See my TER Reviews 91 reads
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32 / 34

......that just because a lady offers half hours she is high volume??? You say you think she would be worn out by the end of the day?? I reallly take offense to that. I am still LOW volume whether the appt that day was a half hour, an hour or a multiple hour. You call them 'half hour providers' as if they ONLY offer that option. Like I said, it is stereotypical to put all of us that offer halfs into that catagory!!!!  It depends on the individual!!!

What about providers that offer hours for $75??? Why don't you discriminate against hour providers????  You can't just lump everyone into a certain catagory based on ONE thing. Come on now. Look at me. Look at my reviews? Because I offer halfs I obviously must take on more customers?????   That is absurd!!!!!!!!!!!!

Loves2Dine 18 Reviews 92 reads
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33 / 34

long dates and long reviews LOL.  I think the fact that a provider offers a 1/2 hour option by itself does not mean anything.  There seems to be a lot of assumptions that 1/2 hours means high volume.  It may or may not.  It may be an option only given to regulars.  It may fit her schedule during the day just as meowbaby has pointed out that at times it may fit a client's schedule.  It may fit a provider's enjoyment of the hobby.  Lots of factors may be why she has one.  I would rather find out about the lady myself.  Not that it is anyone's business in here, but I have exchanged PMs/e-mails with meowbaby for some time now.  We have not met, but I like the thoughts she has on the boards and she is on the same local board.  She posts thoughtful and often warm things.  I checked her site awhile back and frankly did not notice or care about the 1/2 hour option.  There were personality things I saw exhibited there that drew and still does draw my attention to the lady.  Yeah, I like a longer time or even an evening date.  Hopefully if we ever meet she will like me during one.  That doesn't mean she can't like another of her guys because he just has time for a 1/2 hour that day.  If she were local and we hit it off, I would like that option even if I never use it.  There certainly is a lot of assumptions being made that probably should not be.  As far as me wanting to meet her some day, the fact she offers 1/2 hour is an "Oh, OK" thing to me.  There is more about her I already like to care about that.  Oh, and add long board responses to my resume.

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