I don't stay away from ladies who post a 30 minute rate, I just don't usually book a half an hour. I don't a 30 minute option make you less desirable, you have to take in all the factors.
I do try and avoid "high volume" providers however. I realize that at the end of the day it is still a business, but something about being #6 of the day lessens my enthusiasm. I can't imagine that a lady has the same eagerness after seeing several clients before me. That is why I prefer earlier appointments whenever possible.
I have noticed alot of young ladies posting half hour rates, along with hr and multiple hr. Do you shy away from these types of ladies? Are you more apt to date a lady that doesn't do 30 min dates? Do ladies that only do 1 to 2 appointments a day wet your appetite? Just curious.....
Half an hour is too short a time, and yes, one would tend to shy away from that.
Hell no! I don't really give a shit what she did in your half hour. It doesn't make her any less appealing to me. I just prefer not to ask for a half hour. It's not enough time for me. I always ask for multi hour dates, and I don't care what other options the lady may have. As long as I'm the only guy that counts when we're together, I'm a pretty happy guy.
I say she is one skilled lady at what she does. I need more time myself. If you take away the DFK, DATY,and just do BBBJCIM then 30min is fine.
If a provider is offering 1/2 hour rates, and it works for her, then more power to her.
In today's economic climate, I think it is a smart move for some to offer it.
Nothing wrong with that in my book. It may be a somewhat rushed session, which could be the only downside.
Do you ask the ladies you're with how many dates they have a day?
I had a man ask me that, as if who I play with is any of his business...if you have a 1hr appt at 11am with me your business with me is from 11 to noon. What I do b4 11 and after noon is none of your business.
To me, you are asking two very different things...nothing wrong with that.
Thing one: It doesn't bother me if a provider has half hours, but I am not interested in that amount of time. I always want a full hour. Even more is better, but that is usually out of my budget. But a half hour? Not for me, I want to DATY for at least 20 min. At least!
I do perceive higher quality (and unfortunately higher price) with providers that do not offer half hours. Many of the lovely ladies I have been with offer halfs.
My red flag goes up when I see an ad that offers quickies/15 min. Then I run the other way.
Thing two: Yes I prefer a provider that only sees 1 or 2 gentleman a day. However, I really have no way of knowing for sure how many appointments a provider gives in a day.
Just because a lady offers half hour dates, doesn't mean she's not GFE or seeing a dozen guys every day.
I offer half hours because some gentlemen do not have an opportunity to get away from family or job for more than that.
None of us should make assumptions about a lady and her business just because she does something that someone else does not.
And, by the way, hasn't the initial question been asked and answered a million times?
Hugs, Belinda
What rates a lady chooses to offer does not matter to me as long as I can afford it. What does matter to me is the chemistry that develops between us when we are together. This takes time and perhaps some preliminary exchange of emails. Anticipation is a big part of the process. And I don't think of the girl as a machine to service my dick.
For me, at least, half an hour is not long enough to do more than get my rocks off. I can do that with a porn movie and my right hand.
She is with me.
What she does with the rest of her time is up to her.
I will never ask her how many guys she sees. It's just not my way to pry.
If she wants to 15 or 30 minutes or 24 hours, that's up to her. It just doesn't effect me.
I wouldn't say this would be the deciding factor: if the provider had great reviews and she was attractive to me, then I wouldn't be put off by it. However, if I was already getting a not-so-good vibe, this might contribute to the impression.
With a visiting provider. It was a little rushed, but other than that, it was fine. And like all the other posts, what she does with her time when she's not with me is none of my business. When an ad says low volume provider, I take it with a grain of salt, and it really isn't any of my business, as I previously stated. BTW I'll see the visiting lady the next time she's in town and will book more time.
Not interested. Never touch em.
I LIKE the fact some providers offer half hour sessions.
I've never had one because I prefer a bit more leisure; but I'm glad it is there if I want it.
Let's face it -- the chemistry might not be right. A half hour session seems ideal to me for a first time with anyone.
I would avoid them.
I mean come on, as long as you are satisfied, who cares how long it takes? The only reason I don't do half hours is because I work out of hotels and they are not cheap, especially if I only see 1 client per day.
And sweetheart, don't fool yourself by thinking a woman who you spend an hour plus with is any cleaner or better than the shorter time women. Most travelling girls see AT LEAST 10 or more men everyday they work. And with that kind of schedule, she does not shower everytime.
I'd much rather have 30 minutes of raw, passionate, mind-blowing sex than 2hrs of boring or trying to wake that dead head up due to whatever reason.
like me when we are together and run their businesses any way they want.
......These guys saying they'll avoid a provider because she offers half hours?? If they don't want a half hour they can schedule for an hour or longer but wont' because she offers halfs???
Am I a different person because I offer halfs? Am I a low end provider? Should I just stop doing hours and only offer car dates because you've put me in that catagory? I have pages of steller reviews. All high performance numbers. Yet none of that matters to you since I offer half hours?? That makes no sense.
So are you telling me that if you came across my profile, read my reviews, loved my pix on my site and even maybe corosponded a few times via email...you're all hot to set a date but then you find out I offer half hours.....You then decide not to see me?? How did that make me different?????? Can someone please explain this to me??? Are you assuming that ladies that offer halfs have a revolving door???? You should not stero type but base your choice on the individual. Seems as if you're assuming an awful lot just because she offers half our appts.
I responded that I would pass. And I generally would. It depends on what a guy is looking for. If it is a quick release there are plenty of options and the half hour providers fill that bill. But I most often would prefer a dinner date and evening out. In that case I pass on the half hour providers. I am not sure why but guess that I just think they must be worn out by the end of the day.
......that just because a lady offers half hours she is high volume??? You say you think she would be worn out by the end of the day?? I reallly take offense to that. I am still LOW volume whether the appt that day was a half hour, an hour or a multiple hour. You call them 'half hour providers' as if they ONLY offer that option. Like I said, it is stereotypical to put all of us that offer halfs into that catagory!!!! It depends on the individual!!!
What about providers that offer hours for $75??? Why don't you discriminate against hour providers???? You can't just lump everyone into a certain catagory based on ONE thing. Come on now. Look at me. Look at my reviews? Because I offer halfs I obviously must take on more customers????? That is absurd!!!!!!!!!!!!
long dates and long reviews LOL. I think the fact that a provider offers a 1/2 hour option by itself does not mean anything. There seems to be a lot of assumptions that 1/2 hours means high volume. It may or may not. It may be an option only given to regulars. It may fit her schedule during the day just as meowbaby has pointed out that at times it may fit a client's schedule. It may fit a provider's enjoyment of the hobby. Lots of factors may be why she has one. I would rather find out about the lady myself. Not that it is anyone's business in here, but I have exchanged PMs/e-mails with meowbaby for some time now. We have not met, but I like the thoughts she has on the boards and she is on the same local board. She posts thoughtful and often warm things. I checked her site awhile back and frankly did not notice or care about the 1/2 hour option. There were personality things I saw exhibited there that drew and still does draw my attention to the lady. Yeah, I like a longer time or even an evening date. Hopefully if we ever meet she will like me during one. That doesn't mean she can't like another of her guys because he just has time for a 1/2 hour that day. If she were local and we hit it off, I would like that option even if I never use it. There certainly is a lot of assumptions being made that probably should not be. As far as me wanting to meet her some day, the fact she offers 1/2 hour is an "Oh, OK" thing to me. There is more about her I already like to care about that. Oh, and add long board responses to my resume.
Since I don't need more than a 1/2 hour, I truly appreciate ladies who post 1/2 hour timeslots, along with their 1 hour or multi-hour slots.
Bottomline, I don't need more than an hour, at the most. What in the heavens do I do for multiple hours ? Sit and chat ? If so, then that certainly is an expensive chat.
I agree. I can do all i need to do in a half
I don't stay away from ladies who post a 30 minute rate, I just don't usually book a half an hour. I don't a 30 minute option make you less desirable, you have to take in all the factors.
I do try and avoid "high volume" providers however. I realize that at the end of the day it is still a business, but something about being #6 of the day lessens my enthusiasm. I can't imagine that a lady has the same eagerness after seeing several clients before me. That is why I prefer earlier appointments whenever possible.
Half hours as of recently.
Honestly I do not prefer half hours at all. I began offering them as an answer to the economy.
Simone
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