Ladies; a like or dislike and why, if you please? A gentleman comes to visit and he's seeking a GFE experience with you. You start with a conversation to get caught up or introduced. The gentleman slips off your shoes and firmly but gently massages your feet while you chat. I know; ask first, but somehow that dampens the mood in my mind. Good? Bad? Would like to hear from the ladies on this one, and no - I don't have a foot fetish...
when the question is directed at the gals, I feel I should on account of my own experience here, which is to ask.
While 90% of gals love a good foot massage, about 10% really get upset if you touch their feet, and would probably be offended if you just start in without asking.
Feet are just one of those parts of the body which some people are very touchy about.
I've never had a provider get the least bit upset when I ask her if it's ok with her to do something with her, when I don't know whether or not she likes that activity. In fact they seem glad that I asked first. Sure, the spontenaity is lost, but IMO the lady's comfort is more important than spontenaity.
That being said, I know lots of providers who'd jump at the chance of a foot massage. Some have a fetish, others just like having their feet rubbed.
I love a good foot massage and I have had gents do exactly what you described most did not ask first and a couple did.
I didn't have any issues with it but some ladies might be ticklish or don't want their feet touched.
It is best to ask believe me it will not damper the mood.
boobs and ass. I think they all expect that.
if you focus on massaging the area between her big toes.
That would be A Nice Surprise and it Relaxes You even more for Better S_X.
No, but I like those too, bare naked ..Just leave your Socks On.
Xoxo
however probably not for a first introduction. And, I can be ticklish on my feet sometimes so I would have to know of a foot massage in advance. Mentally prepared to possibly be tickled LOL
Oh no. I get terrible foot cramps, and if you press in the wrong spot, it will trigger very painful ones. To my way of thinking, it's either firm or gentle.... I don't know how it could be both.
As to taking it upon yourself to "slip off" her shoes? Definitely ask, since she might be wearing expensive heels, which I know I'd wish to carefully remove and set aside myself.
You can fuck me with my Louboutins on, but don't fuck with those red-bottomed shoes! 
I Love a good foot massage! 
I wouldn't say it's a fetish. I enjoy watching her enjoy receiving the rub.
I totally understand what some here have said about the need to ask, and probably not on a first meeting, etc. but that CAN be situational. I had one first meeting with a lady where we sat on the couch to chat in the beginning. She slipped off her heels and put her feet in my lap. I was rubbing her legs and slowly worked down to her feet, starting gently with the feet and watching for reaction. It was a way to "ask without asking" that didn't dampen the mood at all. It was really rather sexy. Obviously, she opened the door by putting her feet up. That's why I said it can be situational.
If you really want to do that and she doesn't overtly open things up like that, I say just ask. It doesn't have to kill the mood. There are sexier ways to say it other than "may I have permission to rub your feet" LoL.
Always ask. Ask softly and smilingly. Be confident in yourself and don't feel bad if she says no. If she says no, keep the conversation flowing (don't get self-conscious etc). It wouldn't dampen the mood.
I've had quite a few gentlemen and lovers do that. I think foot massages are erotic (and no, you don't have to have a foot fetish)
You don't have to storm the beaches of massage all at once. You can land at a safer spot and advance over the terrain toward your real target. You can adjust your tactics based on the response of the other team ... though sometimes you'll have to make a tactical retreat.
going for the foot massage. Anything to burn a little time and shorten the hour(s) would be much appreciated by most. Just keeping it real.
A short foot massage by a gent is going to burn up how much time?And are you really looking at the clock that much that a 5-10min massage you are worried will cut into your hour?He asked the question so obviously the OP is not worrying about it cutting into his hour appt.
Wow...alrighty then..geez not all providers are looking to run up the clock with less work.
That is why I prefer 90min or more appts but then again the guys I see don't have their stopwatch out to make sure they get every little bit of their hour time.But even on an hour appt if the time goes over a little bit I don't have an issue with that.
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The OP clearly LIKES spending some time doing the foot massage. If he enjoys his time his way, it isn't the provider steering things to shorten the "work/play" time. The OP is clearly steering the date, and the time.
I can't see this being a horrible thing to do but you may want to just check first with a quick "do you mind?" Which I can't see ruining the mood.
Because some people are extremely ticklish or turned off by feet stuff....
Personally i used to be too sensitive for a for massage but now I absolutely love it!
I'm going to think you have a Foot Fetish
and then there's no telling
where my feet will end up.
Personally, I do enjoy a good foot massage. I'm ticklish but those sensations don't bother me. Even though it feels great. I'd appreciate one checking in before proceeding to massage my feet.
I routinely give massage during appointments but I always ask first and then always ask before I touch the feet, not everyone enjoys it. Better to clear it first than to handle an awkward situation after.
Abbey
years of Providing?! A foot rub, back rub, or any
"rub" in-between is a welcomed, and appreciated
gesture! Pleasure offered is divine on thine!
XOXO Angelina Jones
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over the gents lap as we sit. Go for it I say!
xo
J
For me... im open to foot fetish but this is about GFE. Its meant to be a comfortable relaxing experience. I welcome a soft non aggressive move. It builds trust... heightens the experience and leads to more fun later 
XO
Scarlett
