Ads. Great photos. Lots of seductive words or some really straight to the point, brief and efficient writing. But words and photos can never really tell enough about a person compared to when you meet them and all the other dimensions of their person (ask anyone about their adventures with online dating profiles vs real life person on the date. Sometimes, you get more than you bargained for. Am I right?)  
   
 But here, it is a given that we aren't trying to find our one true love, get married and build a life with the person on the other end of the profile and everyone is on board with what the rules and boundaries are - and that is why this works for so many folks.  
   
 But given the nature of this particular social venue and the interactions that come with it, how important is personality to you?  
   
 And when you think of a great personality, what is the hallmark of a great personality to you?  
   
 (We won't get into bad personalities because (a) there's enough complaining in the world right now and (b) personality differences and other things can change any normal person into a walking brillo bad of unhappiness. So let's focus on things that make life better not full of more hot, complaining air.)  
   
 Could you/would you/have you seen someone who looked great and was accommodating, and that was pretty much all you needed from the experience/person? No judgment about it. Women and men are wired differently (for the most part) and what is a deal breaker for one as a gender is not necessarily a deal breaker for the other. Example: Feet. There are men who won't date a woman - no matter how perfect otherwise - if she has ugly feet. Note here that I cannot think of one living woman on the planet since the beginning of time that has ever decided that the appearance of a man's feet were deal breakers. (A complete absence of feet is an entirely different matter) See what I mean?  
   
 Have you ever passed on a possible provider because their personality appealed to you (personally) about as much as a container of used engine oil?  
   
 Or do you pretty much have a criteria that is about everything but personality so if she is accommodating enough and pleasant enough, you are good to go otherwise.  
   
 Random thought. Your input is always appreciated and more entertaining than the OP. Thanks!  


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There are two providers I've seen whose personalities just warm my heart. Both are beautiful, although I've seen providers who are more beautiful. If these two providers weren't so flaky, I'd see them almost exclusively.

...well maybe SOME do. But most of us are looking for some type of chemistry that extends past the physical

Several reasons for that, but probably the two biggest turn-offs for me are a "fake" personality and someone who doesn't enjoy her job and strive to get as much fun out of sessions as she can.  There's other characteristics I look for, such as intelligence, wit, kindness, sense of humor, imagination, and grace.  And not being full of herself despite all that, and beauty too.

It's really a pretty minor thing, and I doubt if many providers even give it much thought.

Lets even talk about "board personalities" There are some women who post here that I would love to see, just based on their board personas, and then there are others who I wouldn't see on a bet, no matter how hot they might be simply because they come across like a bitch, and not the good kind of bitch, on the board.

why else would they spend years cultivating an online personality, purposely designed to make men desire them and WANT to give them hundred or even thousands of dollars to be with them and then in an instant blow all that hard work by revealing how she 'really feels" about her clients in a Twitter or discussion board rant.  DUMB DUMB DUMB!!!

I booked several dates because a ladies board posts was fun, even though her photos didn't quite do it for me and never once regretted it. The reverse has always turned out poorly. I always pass on providers whom I feel their personality and mine don't match. It just doesn't work out.

I've seen providers whose reviews describe wild, bouncing-off-the-wall performers. When I see them, they're very laid back. At first I was confused, but I came to believe that their demeanor is a reflection of mine. I'm low key and laid back, and I think they respond accordingly, even if they're not aware of it.

sidebar:

Nah, I lied, I don't really give a fuck if the word offends you or not. It's a fucking word, get over it.

That is entirely possible. If it is a first session, there is always a bit of "getting to know you" going on so that can be a much more subdued approach. After that, it is usually about being in the same place as the person in front of you. it is very hard to look like an up-tempo personality with a more zipped up personality without looking like a maniac in contrast.

But it's her personality that really puts her over the top and keeps me coming back for more.  Her ease puts me at ease, unlike some of the providers who were so tense and cold that I actually lost my erection even though they were hot.  Personality is a key ingredient in spicy chemistry, so I always pay attention to posts on the board and the way you ladies word your ads.  It tells me who I'll click with and who I won't.

There is quite a gamut, and no two are exactly the same.  There are the perky,  bubbly types, the quiet and sultry, the spacey ones and the serious ones.  Then there are the go-getters and the care-free.  The mature seen-it-all and the young oh-wow! types.

And all these years I haven't felt insulted.  Until I came on a fuck board not realizing it was actually Miss Primrose's Home For Soiled Doves.

But only if it's attached to a great ass.

I was going to call you all of those but didn't want to offend you.

She doesn't fuck, she doesn't kiss, she doesn't suck cock, What kind of hooker doesn't do ANY of those things. No wonder she is so fucking up tight over a simple word. Maybe if she got some dick every once in a while she'd lighten the fuck up?

She could be the hottest girl on the planet but if she's got a nasty attitude it won't get her far!!!

Since I see many ladies with no board presense, and many without websites, I can't generally tell their personality ahead of time, other than maybe what I can get from reading reviews. If I can get a sense of personality before a first booking, it definitely helps (and also like GaG and some others, a sense of personality based on forums posts, blogs, twitter, etc., have put ladies on my DNS list), but generally I'll book based on other things like looks, price, services and performance (based on reviews) unless it's a TOFTT.

if you don't strive to have as much fun as you can.

EOM

website photos.  She should be paying for dick.  Unfortunately, its not something I can un-see.  Pass the bleach please.

This is my 2nd time providing.  The first time  I was 34, and now I am 41.  The difference for me at this point is.

I have MANY personalities .. and it up to YOU  which to bring out of me.
 we , women are VERY responsive  

I can totally agree with this post chemistry is everything or it just doesn't work.  

this is a fuck board

John or a Trick!

Also gets my vote...

and it's what gets a repeat, absolutely.

I say the following and I said it many times -
 yes no one pushing on you HER OWN personalities .. it is YOU responsible for what you are receiving ..
 you are not choosing - you are promoting your fate.  
That is reflected in man religions and philosophies as well-In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
 that in your opinion is about what?
and what is practicing of right dharma?
It is about to bring to life right dharma - but it is NOT I gave you those right dharmas energy it is yours .. and it is affecting people around you.