Why do some ladies run this scam.

You arrive for a session everything is going well, or so you think, and right at your most vulnerable moment after the BJ  they start to upsell.

I had this happen to me last night and I lost interest completely. I simply got up, got dressed and left. I asked why she was not upfront with me, she told me, you know we aren't allowed to discuss such things before the session. So I basically wasted $$ for a 10 min BJ session.

Why do ladies do this and think they can get away with it?? Ultimately I think they lose out in the long run, because they don't get any return clients and if a negative review is posted they end up with even fewer clients. FYI, I immediately posted a review to warn other guys about her.

On a side note, I recently posted an average TER review of another lady I had seen, and got a threatening  e-mail message from her saying she was going to track me down and have someone deal with me and I should watch my back. She sent several nasty e-mails over a couple of days and was not backing down. So to end it all I told her  she had a lot more to lose than me. If she wanted to follow this track, I could post her reviews on all the men's boards and see what it would do to her business.

She finally got the message and left me alone.    



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Pls PM me with the URLs for these men's boards you refer to.  I have some provider info that needs posting on those very boards.

TIA!

and men are almost never weaker than after a few minutes of world-class BBBJ.

Ladies feel that is the best time to "get more" if they are ever going to upsell you, that is the time.  

They are not thinking of reviews, they are thinking of cash today.  No Good lady would do this, and if they value reviews they wouldn't either.  The ladies that do this need cash now, for drugs, pimp, rent, or whatever.  They are playing the moment to maximum advantage.

I am sure no man ever said, "Oh Baby, That orgasm I just gave you was incredible wasn't it?  Baby, how 'bout lettin' me tap your ass since that O was so good?!"

A man would never do that...lol.

should be posted to warn others of what to expect.

As to the latter, her name should be posted on the local board so that hobbyists stay away.  That behavior is especially despicable and the sooner she is out of business, the better.

You should probably say out front during the contact that after the hourly price for time is paid at the beginning, you want no further discussion of money during the hour; the only thing you'll pay extra for is an extension of time, and you expect to know during contact, then, what she will *not* do. You have the right to keep your money then.

The upsell Is ridiculous. In no other business deal does a buyer pay for a sales pitch.  

I did when I bought a gorgeous mustang about 5 years ago. Then I got smart and learned how to beat a salesman at his own game.

or, I've had the after the fact upsale... you know, the "I work for an agency, could you see it that you provide for a bonus for me since you had a good time?"!  sheese!  I do not make gals go to work for an agency - they do that on their own.... While I have paid - just to get away - I have also stayed away... (kinda like the "we pay them to go away" only we pay them to keep away!)

But mostly this behavior comes from one of two sources... 1) gals that are new to the business (working for agencies who schedule back to back, and ride gals hard and put them away wet!) or 2) gals who are into a habit and are in desparate need of cash.....

Quality ladies?  do not do this.   and they have loyal followings.... but more important - friends.

Which brings me to a comment made a couple of days ago... that the business is hard on all women - and the mileage shows...

My opinion on that is this....  for the young gals that get into this without understanding it - that is true.  For the ladies who are ladies, "get the hobby" and embrace it?  I would not say that, in fact, for them, the business seems to be liberating - and an elixir of yourth!  as those ladies when I am with them... they get complements as to their beauty and attractiveness - as for me?  I feel blessed to be in their company... and can never tell their age!  And I've been with some, who have their lives together more than most.  Some have been porn stars (who worry about the EXACT things that I worry about), quality providers who I could just talk to for hours - about life, and life experiences (even a 4 or 5 hour session is not enough time).  And - here is the very interesting part - so pay attention.... whatever a "man" did to them.... was done, BEFORE they entered the "Business!"  just as whatever was done to me, was done long before I ever hobbied!  just an observation... (based on many conversations) and only my opinion....



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Very nice, Bizzaro. I like what you wrote.

How is upselling possible. Aren't we all just paying for the ladies' time? ; )

When you said you left after 10 minutes, what you needed to do, was waste the rest of her hour.  Afterall, you're paying for her time.  

Make her rub your feet, or give you a massage...(if she states those are extra), then ask her to continue with the blowing.  Even if you finished once, stay and try for more (even if you can't do it.)  

If she says she only allows one bell, then sit on her bed, grab the remote, and watch tv.  If she says you have to leave, say "no---I've paid for an hour, and I'm going to stay for the whole hour."  If she doesn't like that, then suggest she return your money.

It's worth a try.  



-- Modified on 5/11/2007 7:30:42 PM

Actually one of the best ladies I used to see, would for "After fun" make me sit with her and watch "simple life!"  lol!! as we downed a bottle of wine!  That gal was just plain old fun!  Nothing like a Big titted gal who just enjoys hangin out with a dude... !!!

and yea, I would massage her back as well!  LOL!  ain't life fun!