When I started this whole hobby thing. I did my homework. Read all the rules, and whatnot.
Obviously being clean is a big thing. I get it...
Even bought one of those pumice stone things! Smooth me out a little bit!

My question is about the beard.
IMO. A two day old face is smoother than a close shave.
What I mean is.. After I shave, and push my hand up on my cheek, against the grain.
It feels like sandpaper.
My two day old unshaven cheek is much softer to my touch. Plus I think it looks cool.


Most etiquette pages request a clean shave.
I get that too. Who wants the irritation of stubble?
It has happened to me with a girlfriends legs. Yuk!

So help me out girls.
Is it okay to show up with the light beard thing going on?

To shave or not to shave for 2 days

To circumcise or not circumcise (mostly solved for American by their parents)

To shower or not

To wipe or not

Only people having too much time on their hands can sit think about these things. To most working stiffs, pretty much a routine if they shave if they have beard which they regularly trim, I suppose. Don’t know, don’t have one.

I think its sexy

I prefer a day or two old shave vs clean / freshly shaven. I just love a little hair , I find it so sexy .

Just don't let it get out of control because then it goes from being oh so sexy! to your a bum . :P

But as far as shaving goes, you need to do this within hours of your appointment, and that is especially true if you plan to do any DATY.

Here's another thing I do:  After making the first pass with the grain, lather up a second time and shave against the grain.  That will get rid of the stubble for up to 6 hours, at least in my situation.

Do it carefully, and if the blade is new, do it double carefully, especially in the all important chiin area.

By the way, a mustache is a very useful thing I find for DATY, and allows you to avoid shaving the area that most men find the hardest to shave closely.  Some gals have told me that a mustache makes a nice clit tickler.

Some gals like Van Dyke beards as well.  I tried to grow one once, but looked like I walked off the set of the evil alternate universe made famous on the original Star Trek episode:  Mirror-Mirror.

So I always make sure to shave before seeing a provider.

Why ruin the experence for her?

But unfortunately a two-day beard would make most of you guys look more like Yasser Arafat than Ben Affleck.

That or your father was a florist.

Man up !

With a clean shave my face seems more rough. Against the grain.
Pushing up..
The only way to get a baby soft shave is to go to a barber.
Then see the girl within the hour.
What I mean is DATY might be smoother without the clean shave.
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Everyone is different.
I'm talking about the point where it's not as rough.
Touchably soft? LoL.

For me that takes two days. For others it may be one.
Shit! I know guys in their 40's who have five hairs growing out of their chin!
And yes it takes 4 hours for those bad boys to grow in.

The amount of hair on the face does not matter to me.  What matters is what you do. Don't rub your face between my legs in every direction with FORCE, there is no need for that.  Be gentle down there, use your tongue and mouth, but don't treat my inner thighs like a napkin as if you are trying to get BBQ sauce off your face.

Like you point out.
I usually cut my face up, then have ingrown hair if I do that.
My friend uses a straight razor. It works.
I'll cut my throat if I try that.

For starters it's definitely not pussies like you !

You will have to do much better than that to insult me.

Go ahead and try as hard as you can.
Dig me good. Then I'll decide if your smart enough to insult.

And pay more attention to your ass odor so you can get her best BBBJ . You're paying a hooker tool boy not searching a fine-a-bride site .

Listen up shitforbrains....you are paying a hooker but that hooker can refuse anything she wants if it hurts.

Try and force something and you'll be singing fucking soprano because she will have bitten off your nasty little balls and spat them right back at your ignorant face.



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Has to act all "nacho" to try and convince himself he wants pussy more than he wants a nice hard, cock sliding in his asshole, and finishing on his stubbly face.

You learned cleanliness and these deep thoughts about scratchie beards only when you became a monger?  Yikes, raised by yeti?

appreciate the thought of not having what is close to sandpaper on our faces or lady parts.

To the other guys who feel we should deal, some of us might, others might refuse daty and kissing and some more creative types might have some sandpaper handy to rub on the head of your dick as foreplay.

I read guys complaining about unshaven leg stubble on their bodies..try that feeling on your dick.

Dude, did you just marry Jim Neighbors? Wtf is wrong with you? Every week it gets gayer and gayer. Youre staring at guys balls in sauna's, sweating over how to shave, purchasing pumice stones for Christ sakes...whats next, attending a Bette Midler concert? Getting tickets to see "The View"? Gonna get yourself a mani/pedi? Please just pony up and fk a hot broad today and stop this gay shit. Just fantasize about Brad Pitt if you have to to get thru it but fkin do it will ya bro?

Just because he wants to have a clean shaven face, get rid of nasty callouses on his feet and be generally well groomed beyond a pit, ass and junk splash that I guess real men only do, he's gay?

So all those he-men are the ones the ladies complain about leaving shit stains on their linens, having dick cheese abound enough for a fondue, leave a pussy raw from stubble and enough hair on their bodies to supply wigs for cancer patients?

Re: I think its sexy

I llike both . 5 o'clock  shadows are hot if the hair is not thick and wirey it is always fun to
touch a fuzzy face.

Blueballman.
Why are you so fixated on me being gay?
You wanna go to the Spa with me? It's not a gay spa.
You can't get hard in there you know. They will throw you out.

when razor blades went to $5 each roughly I decided to try electric. Met an awesome provider and gave her a bad beard burn. She was all red. I felt bad and went back to regilar razors.

But if you really wanna see a girl and not worry about it, just shave before you see her.  You can even bring a razor and shaving cream to use in the shower before you see her.

Get's you better service. You are the tool bag.

I know your type.
You are the kind the girls laugh about, when they thank me for going the extra mile to be clean.

The girls don't want a soft, cheesy dick. They want something they can work with.
Same goes for the rest of your body.
There is much more to a good fuck than a blow job, or the ole' in and out.
If you haven't figured that out by now. I feel sorry for you.
Because you probably never will.

The yeti bathe too.

What I am trying to say is my face is smoother with a shadow.
As opposed to a clean shave.
Girlfriends I have dated say the same thing.
My last GF wanted me to grow a goatee because I was too scratchy.

You don't think guys clean up more for an escort than for their SO?
You are tripping.
The other way around applies too.
I know from experience. When you get really close to a woman.
Her nasty comes out. To me it is sorta like a compliment.
It means she is really comfortable around you..

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Over the years....Rock Hudson, Mike Brady, Anderson Cooper, Bert and Ernie, Serpius, etc. we keep losing heteros at this rate and we'll be in the minority in a few millennia! Lol

He must be on a different site now..
And Ernie is the power bottom. Yuk.

On a side note: You should watch a movie called "Idiocracy"
It is a comedy about how stupid the human race is becoming.
It's funny!

But you knew that...you are as gay as I am straight....you just like the finer things including great grooming.