I'd love to hear your thoughts on K-9 ladies - and gentlemen, what is going through your head during K-9?

Sensory overload blocks the clit climax, but heightens the inner climax. however, I notice in the K-9 position something switches in men, and they change from love making, to aggressive male species trying to ram that fucker in the back as hard and fast as they can.

I've seen gentle souls turn to dirty mother fuckers within an instant. The breathing changes, the grip changes, and the thrust changes. For a woman, I do notice it hits a sweet spot you can't get in any other position, and it's a different orgasm.

One thing I have learned to do is notice what is going on with my body in certain circumstances, and learn about what I like and why. But recently, I thought about the men I've had the "pleasure" of getting rammed by, and they change too.

When you are not looking into another's eyes or seeing facial expressions, my guess is you switch to a more mental state of letting go and allowing part of your experience to be physical. I believe that changes the feeling, and scratches an extra itch. Now, for the entire time it wouldn't be fun, but switching up to K-9 to scratch that itch for a while is really nice. (My fav position is mish, but sometimes I just gotta' scratch that itch.)

Question for ladies: Do you notice guys changing their approach during K-9? Have you noticed that it dings another bell for you?

Question for men: Does having a break from eye contact and facial expressions for a period of your sexual encounters switch to a more natural "man put dick deep in wo-man" caveman attitude? Does it take the shame away from just going for it?

If you have noticed, or have not yet - it would be cool to revisit this later after planting that little seed. Curious about this.

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i still prefer mish, since i like to DFK while getting rammed in my kitty or ass

I definitely think the doggy thing brings out the inner beast in even the most mild mannered guy and while I love the position generally occasionally guys can go at it just a little too hard. I got a big egg on my head last week when a guy got all unrestrained on me and thrust so hard in there that I smacked my head into the wooden headboard!!  
I've got nothing against the caveman thing though it's pretty sexy to feel a guy get all fired up - and I do have a good butt for a rear view

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just paste something easier to process -
so I will try keep simplicity in my  answer  to why male's behave is changing dramatically when he goes on doggy style.

It is in the because that  position is " nature programmed" and  instincts which are in males genes do  dictate male;s  pattern of behavio
r - even male  hormonal balance  is changing in doggy style !

 that is cave man position  

 http://www.lawrencesupplements.com/blog/the-real-sex-lives-of-cavemen-and-cavewomen/  

By the way - some researches also do attribute  love of males  to large breasts to the fact that cave man during the sex saw her big ass and hold it  - in doggy style  
then- when he puts female on her back -  and it is is already built in mechanisms - he wants  to see something big.as well and hold just as he hold her ass - that is deep secrets of nature and civilization just very slowly moving apart from  animalistic in heritage.

Yet to notice -Not all men are so animalistic and are cave males type and some love women and with smaller breasts and normal size of asses  those men mostly more intellectual are already on other steps of development.  more sophisticated and those with more developed( in modern ways) subconscious.
But we of course need to salute and to those animalistic males who are proving to us that  there is evolution and not creation
Man would be a man and we woman have to love him as he is - that is also in out genetical material.. to it is doggy style or it is other position .. in life.  

and by the way.. hungry men love big women -  
 hunger and sex  are main drive for humans and if you go out on empty stomach - you would choose bigger partner .
is not it is also .. hahahaha  very animalistic??

When hunger sates - you may choose different type of the partner ..  
“Sex and hunger are too fundamental drives.
“It probably explains why we go for dinner and then want to have sex."

Gentlemen! Do not skip dinners with us - that is first step to good sex and it is NOT as just woman is spoiled and she wants to have VIP status .. charge you more .. - NO she just wants good sex. And dinner good dinner  always will improve her perception of sex with you.
Feed well your females if you wants them be happy  of how  you perform in bed.
And do not worry about size and how hard you can get and how long you can F.  
 Scientists proved that female satisfaction comes from other sources then size of you cock.
K 9 - and she is already satisfied genetically and sub missing you.  Scientists debating it and I from own experience may say that it is only one form of absolute submission for me - all other games and plays - just are games.. and  in K 9 That is real staff.  
So feed your dates and take them in K 9  even if woman do not have big breasts - you still will have this satisfaction of the cave ma

Interesting thread, and I'll weigh in. I have always preferred mish; I prefer the intimacy, looking into each others' eyes, kissing during the act, and watching her face during her O.  I mean, what is the sexiest part of a woman's body - her eyes, right?  I have asked partners to try to keep her eyes open when she orgasms, because it arouses me so much and makes me feel more connected.  I have met some providers who feel the same way.  

I have the same feelings with my SO, although she often asks for K9.  During that her orgasms seem to be more intense, certainly different and I am happy to accomodate her.  I think it allows deeper penetration, and she or I can caress or vibrate her clit more easily in that position.  But I do feel differently, it seems more purely sexual and primal.  I never get rough, but I do feel more aggresive during K9.  I sometimes just stay still, and let her control the in and out; she likes that and it avoids any discomfort for her.

You just confirmed or tried to confirm that men are "dogs"  or at least act like it.
Good article.
If not dogs substitute most any other animal of your choice.
Some of us are proud of it and a few may be ashamed (NOT)

and going for it without pre-meditation can be one of the most physical yet intimate acts between 2 strangers or lifelong partners IMO. There's something about a man naturally doing what he's built to do that makes it even sexier. I have found that it's one of the most passionate forms of sex sans eye contact except when she wants to look back. And in that sense they are both in control in different ways.

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I love to look at a fine rump with my dick going in and out of her.  Also, I love to see how her hips flare out from her waist.  That entire image just pushes all my buttons.  I have no doubt I've popped more times in K-9 than in any other position.

but out of all the providers I have been with . I have asked for that position and none of them including me have been able to get it right ! I should book some time with Courtney and have her teach me.

First: Very insightful post! Thank you for bringing it up here on the GD!  

Yes, some men exhibit a drastically different demeanor in this position than in others.  When I've commented on this to a few, they've said something along the lines that it just feels so good, that they totally let go.  As if some baser nature takes over. :shrug:

I've been hurt during K9 more than once, but more during civvie sex than with clients.   And not from them ramming too hard (although that has happened) or just making me sore.  No, it was excessive hair-pulling or ass-slapping or just plain digging their fingers so hard into my flesh that they left bruises.  Some women love that; I'm not one of them.  

So most of the time when someone says he wants to do it "doggie style" I request that he be gentle.  More than half the time, they then opt for a different position. LOL.  ;-

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Both hobby and civvie is usually CG... somehow that is what always happens.. I made sure that I tried standing Mish last time and it was great.. I worry I will hurt a girl if I go true mish.. I don't want to do that..  
Good topic BTW

I have very short legs and long torso so a lot of the time K9 ends up either with her on the bed and me standing, sometimes on my toes. This doesn't last very long. If her legs are much longer than mine (a lot of the time), it just won't work when we are both on our knees. So mish is my favorite. My favorite ladies get this really cool smile when we are getting it right in mish.

I do see one lady whose legs and arse match up perfectly and K9 is a feral, wild time with her. She loves the feeling and I hold her shoulders, smack her arse, hold her by her hair (there's a right way to do that) and sometimes her arms.  

Ah dammit! Now I'm horny.

you can mish me any time

Are you sure you didn't actually mean to say "I am an ass, man"

I usually do mish and CG these days.  However, now that I think about it, I do think that I was sometimes more aggressive in the K-9 position, so you might be on to something.  Actually, about a year ago, my ATF talked me into K-9...for a specific reason.  I noticed her head was turned towards the left, and looked over to see a huge mirror where we watched ourselves in our own porno.  Now THAT was hot, and yes, I went apeshit on her.

erson who is shy of his/her heritage and his/her genetics and his/her likes and dislikes and keeping them hidden - that person can not be trusted and there can be a lot of sociological issues.

It is  a sex where where we do unleash ourselves - some love it anomalistically wild and that is applying and to females as well  not just to males dogs.

And some of us love to get intimate in many different levels including and animalistic and human aspects.

It is all depends on ones cultural and social, genetical and educational , financial, physical  and emotional  aspects of each person live. Those  do determine his /her physical prefferences.( Cultural and educational and emotional components  do define his/her her sexual fantasies and preferences.. )
That is why I do screen way more then just white lists.
It is not as I want to be snobby VIP and doing it just for safety - as in some people minds safety requirements can be satisfied just with white lists and adult sites presence ( what also is far not true )  
but main goal of our randevoues here to get exceptional experience - and it is why money donated here for companionship  
- then this exceptional expense has to be tailored to very personal preferences of the  gentlemen .. and gentleman needs to realize that if order to get what he wants  and what he is ready to donate his money for - he must also and participate and give to woman as much as possible of his background and who he is.
 True professional adult companion will take all those components in to consideration.

Men are dogs, simply put. but I have a lot of proves that those dogs already not cave dogs anymore.

By the way - dogs are the most loyal and sweet animals .. almost humans .. I always say  about dogs
what kind a human he is .. and he has human eyes.  
I love dogs
 Dogs love me absolutely - when I am in house where owners have dog/ dogs those would be all around me sniffing me , licking my hands, legs begging for attention and wanting to play  form the moment I place my hand over its head and fur..
- going under the skirt and following me - owners even get uncomfortable and shy for own dogs.

Males of any household I do enter  act in similar manner more as want to follow me and explain me all what they know - just not licking yet obviously - but I can see that desire in his eyes..- my married lady- friends trying to remove and dogs and  males of her household  to other rooms when I  do arrive.  

That make me feel shy and sorry. When male openly flirting with me winking me while his wife around. American man are soo dogs.. way more then Russian men I think and this is why they so love Russian women - we are animalistic as that can be .Or for good or for bad. That depends hat kind mind women have and how she use her animalistic talents

Then I'd be just like you.

http://www.opencolleges.edu.au/informed/features/intelligence-humour-are-smart-people-funnier/

I am questioning that for some time with regards our posts on boards.
" What if someone told you the reason you found a joke funny was because you had a high IQ? Or, alternatively, because you had a low IQ? You’d probably stop and think about the joke a little harder. The truth is, once you do start analysing the conceptual nature of humour, you quickly realise how similar it is to the way intelligence operates (through pattern recognition, but we’ll get to that later)."

Yet may be that does not apply to that particular joke?  I think there is not a need to have a high IQ to be able to understand that joke  
 I wonder how many would find that funny and what would be the answer?
 "Do they have a fourth of July in Russia?"

Speaking about a holiday .. I want to know what you would say? If Russians  do have a fourth of July?

 


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And interesting discussion!

I adore k-9. I love the passionate abandon that comes with it for both of us. It's pure fucking and it's the hottest thing in the world!! I myself feel more physical in that position. And I love doing it in front of mirrors! And the sound of ass against groin, and the feeling of balls against clit- wow. Nothing like it!  

But I also love the other positions, mish being another fave. That's hot in it's own way, but not as carnal. It's more sensuous and emotionally connected, for sure.  

I'm not into pain at all, so hair pulling and hard slapping isn't awesome. But I don't mind the kind of slapping you hear but don't feel so much- that sound can be a huge turn-on. Someone above mentioned a right way to grab hair like you mean it without it being painful. The sensations of pain are varied, of course, so when he does it right, it's a good pain- not an ouch pain. I like the firmness and dominance.  

As for noticing if my lover's demeanor changes? I'm definitely hoping it does when I request doggie!! For me, that's the whole point. I think it is because I tend to have a better time with more cerebral men, or men who are into an emotional connection as well as physical, and seeing (or feeling) them become purely carnal is a huge turn-on.

Yes .. by some reasons  people do think hat it is sophistication and  desire to become VIP and be different  when woman insists on some social time, dinner and entreatment.  

That has nothing to do with infrucstructures of societies in which  we are function now -  those societies are less animalistic   and more superficial - "human- made" " Mind - made"
 yet if you would submiss to you nature of being male and female and enjoy yourself as mother nature programmed us - then you would love to share a meal with your partner .. some games  before sexual games  starts ... look at animals - my favorite channel is "planet animals "
 What is interesting - some animals love not only foreplay - as dogs are sniffing and lacking female - but there are animals which gave GIFTS  before mate..
 we have so much to learn from our other life forms ..

 and yet I do hear so after that I need just meet for an hour with nothing  from man just his envelope .. It is so not naturalistic and not animalistic and actually guarantee nit a full experiences in sex life ..

We all need embrace our animalistic side.. when I say I love opera and dinner  and jazz - read - I love male company.
 When I say I love gifts- I want have them while mating - it makes even animals softer and directs their mind toward mating  
 yet .. as you will find in this article" NOT-SO-ROMANTIC CHIMPANZEES"  our close "relatives" do not gave gift .. so how I can balme males ?  No worry - no gifts needed if you are a chimp .. haha  but they say they did not looked hard  to find  an evidence if chimps gift females before sex or not - I bet they need take this study to other venues then just jungles
 http://www.wired.com/2013/02/valentines-day-animal-style/
Love

Thanks LL.

I do K9 but typically towards the end of a session.  Personally, I feel I have little control over cumming in this position.  The feel and sensation is different for me. The sight of a gorgeous ass and tits dangling is too much for me and that is why I prefer MISH.

I prefer positions where I can make eye contact, usually the K9 is at her suggestion. I have to say I was very amused by the analysis as to why the men get aggressive and ram harder. I can only speak for myself, but maintaining that position and slowly thrusting is exhausting and cramp inducing. I have been told the same by women who use strap-ons on female clients (though they might be flattering me). So I maintain a much faster pace and thrust hard between the back and forth so that my momentum carries me through the stroke.

I usually have to pay attention to my glutes and groin muscles in the gym to be able to do this more than a few thrusts

Personally my favorite is mish, starting out with the folded deck chair, then to Victory and deck chair, ending with me placing one hand under her ass while I kiss her and whisper into her ear while I pound away in the home stretch.

back before me.  Its because I went had a session after I read her post.  To me, its a crime against providers if I rub one out.  Somebody's not getting paid and it makes me feel like a thief.

I just always felt girls prefer K9 because they don't have to look at our ugly faces!

I think those are the turn ons for doggy, in my opinion.  I love looking at and holding the lady's ass and hips.  The position just feels better and you can thrust deeper.  That leads to a more vigorous session for me.  I think the position is a more dominant position for the man too, which I like.  Something back in the psyche just likes that.  The power of it might be part of the rush.  

I love missionary and lots of other positions too.  Doggy is my favorite though.  Actually, Lazy Doggy is my real favorite.

gives me control on depth and rythym.  I love a nice full, but firm ass to hold onto. standing K-9 with me beside the bed and my partner kneeling on the bed is fantastic

I enjoy K-9 but I feel like RCG gives similar contact & view but RCG allows greater flexability although I miss looking into the eyes of my sensual partner like I could doing Mish or CG.

CG and Mish are much more intimate, IMO.  I like the kissing, feeling her breath, holding her tight, and being held tight.  But that's just me.

K9, and especially lazy dog, tends to allow us dudes to hit the G-Spot more effectively, thus I will groove with this, especially if she asks.  And it's definitely my preference on those occasions making trips to the Greek Islands.   But, overall, it depends on how things are going while in bed...

This is similar to my experience,  I recently have lost 40lbs and before I rarely would match up and be able to do k9.  Now I love it and I do see a change in my demeanor while in k9.  

Thanks

lover lazy dog......last time she O'ed 3 times in about 10 minutes. I makes me horny just thinking about it.

My SO prefers Mish as do I but my ATf loves K9 and Os early and often. Can't wait to see her soon!