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Provider age
Boogie Boy 131 reads
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As mrfisher once said, and I hope he doesn't mind me quoting him, "I prefer older woman who think young and a younger woman who thinks older."

I have to invade his space sometimes. Anyway, if you know him like I know him, he's very active and is more than happy to talk to a newbie. He was the first one to take me under his wing when I first started this so many years ago.

So, we were talking and he said something that almost made me piss myself!

The age of some ladies we see. How younger ladies get paid more than more seasoned ladies and wtf is up with that...

For instance, Gagambler thinks anyone over 25 is an old hag. Myself, I met and dated a lady from here older than me for a while.  

Seeing as how I'm an older person(52), won't say gentleman cuz I'm a perpetual adolescent, I'm curious what others think and thought it was a descent topic.  

Are you attracted to someone within your age group? Or you just look at their reviews and pix?  

And ladies. What do you think? Other than the obvious, meaning, the envelope?  

Hope this is helpful....

with rare exceptions i wont see someone under 31 .....   girls in their 20s are .... girls ...  yes they look great but weak skills and their idea of sex is something the guy does to them.   or at least they have to do some specific acts to get by.      oh and rarely come more than twice .......   once women hit early thirties their libido wakes up.     5,6 8 , 10 orgasms in an evening .. and they are far more passionate ..   mid 30s to mid 40s they also want to get LAID!   LOL  

not long ago talking to a mid 20s stripper  she goes oh l love sex ..   i let me go after a while ...now a 35 yr old stripper sits with me  she agrees with the age / libido thing  ... the young one walks by ... i have the 35 yr old tell her ... WAIT !    LOL  

of course not all in their 20s are like that but most are.  

that's my basic take on it

You know you're right. My last GF was the ex of a friend of mine, a few years younger than me, and was fucking dynamite in bed. Let me do wtf I wanted. But it ran it's course cuz I'm me.  

Anyway, one of my reviews, I don't know if it's still up was of an 18 year old girl when I was 40-something and like I said earlier I dated a lady 14 years older than me a few years ago. Gorgeous lady. Fun and cool. She didn't like me drinking and smoking so much and I get it.  

But I get you. Now. The difference between girls and women. Just like mrfisher said. He appreciates more seasoned ladies, more worldly.  

Hold on any young lady that reads this! Don't take this as an insult or anything. Some of you yourselves admit you prefer one or the other in your ads and shit.  

This is just an informational tool coming from a drunk motherfucker that hasn't passed out yet...!

Guys reach their sexual peak at 18 and girls reach it at 35? WTF, Is someone playing a cruel joke on us?

are ones who would be considered mature.  Of course some younger ones are as well, but why there is a tendency for older gals to be dominating is something for conjecture.

What ever the reason, me likey,

you said the younger ones get paid more? That doesn't sound like something you'd say to me. Of course I could be wrong...

Steph XO

I have always preferred younger women. I'm 42 and I like them 25 or younger. I have met some women in their 30s that have outstanding bodies but I like young and tight. I have also met a little older women who also have rocking bodies and matching personality and experience which makes for an intoxicating session. For me this as been rare, however. I guess I'll sum it up by saying the quote from Dazed and Confused "That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age"

Having just reached 70 myself, it's no secret that pretty much everyone I'm gonna see, relatively speaking, is a youngster.  I can't stop looking, no matter their age, as the female body is the most magnificent art form, period.  But when it comes to choosing companionship, I almost always seek out the older gal for her confident sexuality and unbridled passion.  My favorites list here is heavy on the 45+ providers, with a couple 30 somethings and only 1 under 30.  Reminiscing my reviews pretty much mirrors the age mix on my favorites list.  As to one age group commanding a higher rate than another?  I pay no mind, and play within my budget.

Women may be better at getting pregnant when they are young (20s - 30s) but the best sex/orgasm for her is right before menopause (40s) when her estrogen peaks before it crashes. That said, those of us who are even older, just need a little added hormones to keep us wet and rocking.  Skills and Experience DO make a difference.  Still having a blast at 50+  

On a serious note: Corona virus is not to be taken lightly but we can't stop living (or making a living).  I assure my friends that I am low volume, selective, have not been in an airport or on a cruise this year, and as always- wash thoroughly before and after everything!  Lover, if you don't feel well, stay home.  

So happy TER is back!

I thought I was too old to do this when I started 10 years ago. I was so surprised at how well I did, and I have maintained a similar income every year so far.  

I know that most ladies are concerned about their age.  Please don’t listen to the people who prefer younger women.  There are plenty of men who will want you until you’re 60 and beyond that, if you take care of yourself.  I believe that we need to take advantage of the many anti-aging options available to us today beginning around age 40 if we want to look our best. I also think working out is extremely important when you’re over 40.

There are plenty of mature women in porn these days, making us a popular Choice for younger men who have older women fantasies, in addition to older men who want somebody closer to their age.

A civilian will retire at 65 or 70.  I have had the pleasure of knowing three women over 60 who are still Supporting themselves solely with providing income.  Look at Captivating Cory at age 60 (on the photos only board today).  And has anybody seen Susan Licci, age 71, Raquel Welch at age 72, Or how about Dolly Parton at 74?  

As an [ahem] "mature" TS escort I completely agree that maintaining the bod can assist with provider longevity.
An added note about the age of hobbyists. I generally do not meet with admirers in their 20s. The clincher was a young gent who arrived a bit too 420'd and after leaving my place called in a frenzy that his car had been stolen. In reality, he walked to right when he should've turned left and car was parked in plain view.
So my wheelhouse hobbyists are now +30 & even have an 84yo client (now THAT's sexwork :-P
xoxo
Kacy TGirl  

And he was sober!  He just forgot which level he was on in the parking garage.

I went to the wrong parking garage!

And sadly, I was sober.

8o(

Come on back to Boston.  You know we like older women.

Hello,
I have been contacting you on P411 for years, hoping you would come to Atlanta. Please come soon - I am getting old.

...i've had quite a few guys say in contacts with me (and some right to my face) that they were hesitant to see me due to my age. But after meeting with me I became a fave of quite a few of them. I started just shy of 20 and hit a decade as a SWer just last month. It makes me wonder how many have felt that way over the years but never reached out and if they're waiting for me to hit 30 lol (April 16th, watch out :-D).
I've never liked too many people my own age socially and romantically in my civvie life and that has carried over into my sex work career.  
I definitely look forward to what this business has in store for me as I plan to continue through my 30's :-).

KJ5233137 reads

Mikey

How unlike you to post such positive and provocative thought.

I'll admit the rocking bodies of the 20 year old girls really get my boat floating. But I do find the more mature ladies more to my liking. I can talk to them and I don't feel like I have to be a porn star (because I can't) or want them to be one. I personally prefer GFE. A lot of kissing and caressing. The organism is the finality not the experience.

I'm almost as drunk as Mikey is.

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see a very young provider, but I seldom repeat with girls under 30.  For me, the social aspect of GFE is almost as important as the service, and I connect much better with mature providers 35+.  Those are the ladies I can become a regular with.

I started hobbying much younger than most men on here: at age 22.  So back then, I wanted to see only provider under 30, because the older ones made it hard to suspend disbelief.  My first one ended up being 27.

As I built up hobby experiences, I saw providers of all ages: the youngest one was 21, and the oldest was late 40's.  It's hard to say which ones were better, although I was more turned by providers close to me in age.  Today, I like late 20's women; they're old enough to know what men like, but young enough to have a youthful face and body.  Plus, with my age today, it's the *younger* providers (under 25) who'd make it hard to suspect disbelief.

i love"younger"women,when im driving...on the highway and i need to arrive at a destination on time..but my god...i much prefer an older woman who doesn't mind driving, who can handle a stick-shift,is okay with taking our time using the back roads..and  knows how to REALLY work a clutch.....

Boogie Boy132 reads

As mrfisher once said, and I hope he doesn't mind me quoting him, "I prefer older woman who think young and a younger woman who thinks older."

The royalties sure come in handy these days of inflation.

 
But I think I used the terms "mature(ly)" instead of "older".

to go below 25; the youngest I’ve been with was 28 at the time (my first provider), though I prefer ladies in their 30s and up.

 
The absolute best provider I’ve ever been with just turned 39 a few months ago.  The last lady I saw recently was 40 and I really enjoyed my time with with her and talking with her (I also liked the fact that she was dragging her feet leaving because she was enjoying talking to /me/ 😏).

 
Perhaps the younger ladies tend to have tighter bodies, but I find it’s the full fledged, full grown /women/ who tend to provide the better overall experience.

 
Fun Fact: the human brain isn’t fully formed until around age 25 - in particular the frontal lobe (which controls, among other things, decision making and impulse control).  Biologically speaking, there is nothing magical about the ages of 18 or 21; they’re just legally important in the United States.

 
I guess my point is that I personally want to spend time with /adults/, not what seems (to me) to be just overgrown teenagers 🥳

 
I’m 48, if it matters.

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No question for me of what age bracket I prefer.  I have been a hobbyist for 25 years and my preference has always been women 36 and older.  My ATF is now 53 and she is the absolute "bomb!"  Age does bring experience and maturity brings understanding of our needs.

If it makes any difference I am 71.

I hobby not just to get my dick wet, as I can get that at home, but to add some variety when getting my dick wet. I have seen providers as young  20 and as old as 60. I see ladies in variety of sizes and ethnicities as well. Variety is the spice of life.

That was fucking interesting and glad to see the responses. For the most part, fucking everyone said age chronologically isn't an issue but more attitude, service and respect, giving and receiving, is the focus and appreciated and what makes this go 'round...!  

Fucking thank you! It gives me hope for the fucking inhabitants of this fucking mudball called Earth...! ;)

Personally, I find a young woman (under 30) who has a wisdom far beyond her years SUCH a turn-on! My very best experiences and connections have been with women that fit this category. IMHO a LOT of younger providers LOVE an older man who is a gentleman, well-groomed, and can hold a conversation with personality and a sense of humor. (I always strive to be my best in all those areas--the rewards are SO well worth it!!)

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I really don't care what her age is as long as it's above the age of consent. Yes some 22-25 year-olds seem to need a map, a seeing-eye dog and Siri to figure out what to do with an erection. And some middle-aged women seem to have given up trying, both in the gym and in the bedroom.  But I haven't found any magic age or age range in the 200+ providers I've seen.  

The most I can say is that many of them seem to have it figured out pretty well by the time they hit 30--some of the most rocking sessions I've had were with women between 30 and 40. At that point physicality and emotional maturity seem to be in equipoise. But more than a few 25-29 year-olds and a couple of 45+ gals also had some serious game.

I think what a woman brings to this unusual venture (which is to say the stuff between her ears), how open-minded she is, how she feels about what she's doing, and her general happiness probably have as much to do with the experience we have with them as much as how much time has ticked off the clock.

really have nothing to do with age. I've found them with women younger and women older than myself.

 
I will say that both are easier to find in those whose age is closer to my own; we simply have more shared life experience and "stage of life" experience to share.

 
A great thing about our demimonde is that we can scrap societal taboos and do as we please, whether those taboos are about age or anything else.  

 
As far as rates go, I stick within my own budget and ignore all else.

Whatever their age, the fact that I'm standing in the room with a "sure thing" certainly eliminates a lot of BS. We both know why we're here, what's expected of each other, and what's gonna happen next. It's helpful to me to remember that a large part of what I'm paying for is the elimination of doubt and game-playing. I'm all for discovery and a bit of excitement based on mystery, but ill save that for civvy dates; here in P4P it sure is nice to know that you WILL be fucking this hottie before the night is out.

I agree with someone else on the thread who said attitude is what matters the most. I'm a young provider (27 years old) and I prefer older gentlemen. Older men are sweet and don't take my tight young body for granted. Whenever I'm with someone 10+ years older than me, I get showered with compliments and that turns me on more and makes me want to show them a really good time.

Even before becoming a provider, I had a decent amount of experience with men and women so I definitely know what I'm doing in the bedroom. I think it's really important to also mirror the vibes the other person is giving me.  

Sometimes it's a really passionate intense session and other times its not more intimate and sweet. Either way, I love to cuddle at the end and do lots of kissing. Based on what I'm reading on this thread, it sounds like young women don't value those parts enough. But that's what makes a truly enjoyable GFE in my opinion.

Chloe--as someone who has had the great fortune of experiencing several wonderful dates with you, I will vouch for everything you said in your post. (Guys, Chloe is THE BEST!! She'll have you floating on a cloud!!)

Why does your profile say you are 21-25 then?

Sounds like she needs to update her TER profile then because her website does state that she's 27 1/2 years old. Could be a slight oversight on her part.

I took a 3 year hiatus and didn't even notice what my age was listed there. Sue me 😁

Yes it’s unfortunate that age marchs on, taking us all on a ride we can’t skip! This afternoon I was with a petite redhead whose ad says she is 20! As I was buried in daty, I noticed how rock hard her abs, stomach and pubic areas were! Just plain “no fat”! I continued to fondle while she was gushing juices before a shuddering leg clamping orgasm! Next she cycled through a series of positions all while mixing in some nice dfk and fondling of her own. Afterward, we were talking and she says she is 20 with a plan to get out of sex work by 23! Meanwhile, I’m 62 with a plan to get out  of hobbling by 70!  However today I felt about 25 between her legs! She had this youthful sincerity and exhuberance that made the session a pleasure! No lying about age, honest pictures great sex! Is that where we all started before we entered the Hotel California? PM me for the hotty’s name!

One of my ATFs was 50 when she retired and IMHO she could easily have gone several more years if she wanted to. She was intelligent, pretty, sexy as hell, totally self-confident and naturally charming. Perhaps it was being closer to my age that made the difference; this woman just had her shit together and quite possibly had for some time.  

On the other hand, a few days ago when I was DATYing my new favorite 20-something and she was getting so wet that there was a small river forming, I gave nary a thought to the 30+ years difference in age between us. In fact, I thought little at all. I was present in the moment with an engaging and engaged, sexy woman. She was also smart and sweet and at ease with me.

Who am I to question either.

so much of what happens between men and women sexually occurs between your ears- I have found I can relate to women closer to my age (late 50s) because of the similar life experiences makes the session more enjoyable for me- younger gals remind me of my daughters and I can't go there!

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