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Probably 30 minutes
John_Laroche 194 reads
posted
1 / 21

with my (now retired) favorite FBSM provider was me eating her. Another half-hour of her taking me to the edge until a final release, and the rest an actual massage.

I think you need to work up to longer oral sessions with a provider as their first instinct is to get your pop within the allotted appointment time. But once you're comfortable with each other and she knows you're not some dick just hoping to run overtime, a longer DATY session can become natural.  

It's appropriate as long as she is enjoying it.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 245 reads
posted
2 / 21

whichever is less.

I had one gal used to get 45 minutes of it from me.  She had lots of orgasms, but hid it from me so I'd still go on.  I didn't mind it too much, but as a result of doing this so often I got painful bone spurs in my neck.  That's why I say to limit exposure to 15 minutes.
 
I think the same rule should apply to BJs, by the way.

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 282 reads
posted
3 / 21

If not appropriate, at the very least appreciated. I am thinking the logic sort of goes like this: Someone comes in an gives me $400 and to earn it I lay on my back and have as many orgasms as I can in an hour, and I can even close my eyes so I don't even have to look.  Whoever asked 'is this a great country or what?' may just have done so after having such a transaction.

That said, I really enjoy DATY as much as the next guy, or the last guy...
Posted By: WhyComeUpForAir
Just Curious.....What is the longest DATY session you have ever done - or had done?  
   
 My longest is 45 minutes - but I could probably go for several hours.  
   
 As a provider - and assuming the guy has good/exceptional technique - what is the longest session you would deem appropriate?


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GaGambler 216 reads
posted
4 / 21

The longest I have ever done DATY is probably the same as you, about 45 minutes or about a third as long as the longest BJ I have ever received.

Unlike you, 45 minutes is about as long as I ever plan on going without a serious break in between, unless of course I could find a woman both hot AND willing to pay me for every minute over about 30 which is about the point it is ALL about her and no longer because I enjoy it.

SketchySituation 212 reads
posted
5 / 21

If you don't do DATY on ladies, then are some of them going to be reluctant to see you?  Many ladies obviously love it, but can it be a barrier to seeing some ladies (if you don't do it based on your reviews or profile)?

GaGambler 207 reads
posted
6 / 21

The women are providing a service for pay, and very good pay at that.  

Don't ever feel like you need to "perform" for her for her to be willing to take your money. Just be clean, respectful blah, blah blah and you will be just fine.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 190 reads
posted
7 / 21

Are you talking about with, or without, a snorkel?

TennGambler 20 Reviews 179 reads
posted
8 / 21

Longest for me is probably 30-40 minutes but I will go as long as she seems to be loving it,
because I love to eat pussy.! And I think I  have gotten much better at it as I have aged. PATIENCE!!!!!!! Start Slow around the edges until she ready to be really licked. She will generally give you the signals,

mojojo 1 Reviews 228 reads
posted
9 / 21

Back in the day I met a lovely lady for the first time, and started the session with daty. She came hard, so I continued. The next time she came I noticed that a river started flowing. I'd never seen the likes, so I thought what the hell, let's keep going. After her third cum, I guess she started feeling a little guilty so she said it was my turn. I just looked up at her, smiled, and shook my head. I couldn't believe it. I was in the presence of a true nymphomaniac. She kept cumming, and I kept licking. Of course she was happy to go otc taking care of me. Now when I say the sheets were soaked, they were completely soaked, every inch. I was sad when she retired.

Recently I decided to try it again, and called an old friend. I knew she was multi orgasmic, but didn't know if she could last an hour. Four cums in thirty minutes, and she was done. Normally, daty averages about 15 a session. These were the only two that went beyond.

lopaw 29 Reviews 230 reads
posted
10 / 21

...I usually DATY her just long enough to get my juices running so that when she returns the favor it's over pretty quickly.  
With a civvie I guess I've been down there upwards of 30-45 minutes when necessary. Just an estimate since I've never  actually used a timer.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 172 reads
posted
11 / 21

my longest is about 90 min, but that was OTC time, no clock.  On the clock, about 40 minutes during a two hour session, sometimes in one go around, and other times divided into two DATY sessions, depending on how long it takes her to cum.  I won't go more than 40-45 minutes when I'm paying.  If she's paying me, I will go until I have emptied her bank account.  I do tongue pushups to stay in shape.  

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darmody 22 Reviews 174 reads
posted
12 / 21

I can't imagine it's been more than 15 minutes.

B0MBSHELLBELLA 120 reads
posted
13 / 21

As an established provider, from experience it honestly just depends on the duration of the appointment.

If it's an hour or shorter obviously 30 minutes or more of daty would take up too much time. But if our appointment is an hour or longer, I'm not going to stop you until... well you know the rest. ;)

20strojl 13 Reviews 137 reads
posted
14 / 21

15 minutes is about right for me with one of my fav girls who loves to be dined on. Learned this by reading all of her reviews which were very similar in this dept. This starts the session out on a real positive note and gets her in a relaxed  sweet mood for the remainder of the date.
I pretty much agree with and follow the same pattern as TennGambler cause it works. First time I was with her it was like she stuck two fingers in the wall outlet and got electrocuted when she popped. Quickly pushed me away from now being super sensitive. She then proceeded to give me a 10 minute tutorial about her "O". She explains that it takes her almost an hour to desensitize and cycle back to normal. Quality, not quantity is what its all about for her. Getting her off like this is a terrific ego boost for me and pumps my T-levels to the moon. Now calls me her "Cookie Monster" I luv it. Always loved Girl Scout Cookies, the over 18 ones.

I often think these angels know very well how to get themselves off and just use us like a tool or toy, a catalyst so to speak. Fine by me, my pleasure.

Modernronin 10 Reviews 158 reads
posted
15 / 21

If I count time spent in 69.  I've always loved DATY and will do it as long as the lady seems to enjoy it and my tongue still has feeling. Back in the day I remember a strip club where you could get this in the VIP room. Wish i could find again that dancer who squirted while I was going down on her.

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 146 reads
posted
16 / 21

... so I really don't know how long it lasts.  I only know I do it as long as she wants me to.  My last one was pretty long... and she was giggling and even laughing softly.  I asked her how she was doing, and she said "Just riding the waves" in a tone that told me she was in no hurry to stop.  So I continued until she let me know she needed a breather.  

Sometimes they're pretty short, if the lady is super horny and comes quickly and wants to move on to something else. And sometimes it's multiple DATY excursions over the course of the date.

I wouldn't want to go for several hours straight with just DATY. I'd rather mix things up with other activities.  And honestly I don't know if my tongue could hold out for several hours of DATY!

EvaFantasy See my TER Reviews 129 reads
posted
17 / 21

My longest was 45 minutes. This client in particular wants to always see me happy more then anything else.

Fridays117 27 Reviews 197 reads
posted
18 / 21

In a civvie relationship, until my neck and tongue cramp up.  I have done an hour or longer, then rested and done the same again several times in a day.  The stamina (of both if us) is the only limit.  Love to DATY and give multiple orgasms.
In p4p I still love to give it, but want my nut too, after all, I am paying.

SketchySituation 58 reads
posted
19 / 21

In P4P, 1/3 of the time doing BBBJ is appropriate.  Outside of P4P, 1/3 of time doing DATY is appropriate.  

JessicaJordan See my TER Reviews 97 reads
posted
20 / 21

I love it to brother ....

Posted By: TennGambler
Re: I Like DATY Time
Longest for me is probably 30-40 minutes but I will go as long as she seems to be loving it,  
 because I love to eat pussy.! And I think I  have gotten much better at it as I have aged. PATIENCE!!!!!!! Start Slow around the edges until she ready to be really licked. She will generally give you the signals,

JessicaJordan See my TER Reviews 122 reads
posted
21 / 21

I don't count time .. I will BBBj long as I enjoy it and him . I have for the most part men who love DATY & they stop don't  til they make me cum and I love to return the favor. I think it's personally preference. If the chemistry is right, vagina is yummy, she's into it ..,, there is no time limit. You want her to explode and verse vice...

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