I think FIV is part of the menu if GFE.  I hobby about once per month.  the day before a meeting I always get a professional manicure to make sure my nails are clean, trimmed and smooth.  I always excuse my self and go to the bath room after leaving the envelope on the table and wash my hands with plenty of soap and hot water.  many of the ladies say no to digital play, some say okay and sometimes I get a provider who really gets off on it especially when  combined with DATY

...Most guys don't know what the hell they're doing when they're poking around down there.

As you say, providers have different attitudes towards FIV - they say no, they say okay, or they get off on it.  But you're wrong on the third category;  most don't get off on it - they want you to think they're getting off on it because that's what you're paying them to do.

...not as meticulous as you are in grooming the hands, plus it takes a bit of time to find the "perfect touch" so I can see why many providers, including myself would rather concentrate and enjoy other parts of the experience with a gentleman.

...so I very VERY rarely perform it on them either. The only exception would be if she were requesting it.

...and use your hands in other ways...and let her guide you to the good spots as they all like it a bit different...

I had to be taught that...

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Back before I entered this business I'd only had FIV with a couple of guys in my personal life: these experiences were along the lines of finger-fucking.  Just lots of lube, and mostly moving his finger in-and-out.  I'd thought that was a pretty straightforward, simple activity, and enjoyed it.  

But then i entered this world, and have been endlessly amazed at how this simple act can be turned into something I merely tolerate, let alone something I "get off" on lol.  

How can guys mess this up?  Oh, let me count the ways!  :smh:  (Please keep in mind that all women are different, and what I hate could be your next date's sure-fire "hot" button.)

Some guys will use both hands, one rubbing on the outside, while working fingers from his other hand on the inside.... and the discordant rhythm is very distracting to me.  No vaginal multi-tasking for me, please.  

Then there's the men who don't start off with just one finger.  Maybe two?  Oh no, they go big or go home and will attempt to thrust in 3-4 all at once.  Lubricant, you say?  Oh no, these Romeos believe the need for lube means she isn't really into it.  Sigh.....

Oh and how bout the ones who literally hook their fingers up in there: digging, pulling, pushing, pressing, rocking their hooked fingers back and forth.... all in an attempt to make me "squirt"?!  Never mind that I told him quite clearly that I'm not a squirter!  Naturally, he knows my vagina and plumbing FAR better than I possibly could, and the only reason I've never squirted is because HE is the the magic man I need to make it happen.  LOL.

 
I've had many more wonderful experiences like those.  Whenever I've had one that roughed up my V (always on accident, but if he hadn't been tapping out Stairway to Heaven in there it never would have happened!)  I get very anti-FIV for awhile.    

Generally speaking, though, I just plain tense up when someone goes for "digital insertion" because I simply cannot tell by someone's demeanor, cleanliness, or manicure whether he's going to gently stroke me into a heated frenzy, or use the fingers from one hand as a speculum to facilitate spelunking with his other hand.    :rolleyes:  

So it's both the sexually-inept and the amateur gynecologists that have often ruined this activity for me.

 
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Especially combined with DATY! If his hands are not in the right place, I will gladly take a hold of them and direct where I want them!  

I used to date a guy that could get me off just by FIV. He did it so good, and I came so much! His whole kitchen tiled floor was soaked. We needed a mop afterwards!! I am the same now as I was then! Keep getting those manicures and washing those hands to make our "V's" happy ones!

That's a very sensitive area....

but in answer to your op, fiv is not necessarily on the menu for gfe.  always ask.

but now reading some of these replies i realize i should wash my hands when i enter a lady's lair before the fun begins.

thanks for the tip ladies!

I did that for years with my ex. She left puddles on floors, car seats, mattresses, park benches, movie theater seats...just about everywhere except church pews.

With providers,  I'll gently rub my finger on the outside. If she says no, then I move on to something else. If she seems to be responding positively, I'll lightly insert. I pay attention to her reaction, and up the pace and force if it seems right.  

I also do manicures before each session

I have found no pattern in women on FIV. Some hate it and others crave it. Last week my new ATF begged for it. Then begged for two fingers. Then shoved her own fingers (yes two) in with mine. Given how tight she was, this was a challenge. She wanted it so hard, I almost felt uncomfortable.  

As for me, I love it. I ALWAYS manicure and ALWAYS wash my hands thoroughly when I arrive at the room. My technique is soft, slow and always asking what she wants. As a result I have had many compliments. I get off on just holding her pussy without rubbing. It feels GOOD!!!

Women who really do not like it, but allow me to do it anyway, FREQUENTLY say thank you for being so gentle and say they actually liked me doing it. My hot button is spending time getting the girl off, so I use the finger as part of that process. If she does not like it, I stay away. I will never force it and always ask first.

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Wasn't sure what FIV meant and still not completely sure but I'll guess "Fingers in Vagina".

I remember back in high school, guys would brag they went out with girls and got to "stick their fingers in".

Don't know whether the girls likedit or not since they never told their side of the story.

Personally, I always start with DATY and then I'll see if there is any reaction when I stick my fingers and try to find the elusive G-spot to massage with my fingers. I tend to think it really is there

...gesture because they've heard or read that that's the way to find the elusive G-spot.  Fuck that asshole Grafenberg!

Is appreciated.  I do not enjoy rough or 3 plus fingers up there.   I do squirt on occasion, but find it quite stressful at times when a new friend insists on searching for the infamous Gspot as if it is a trigger.  

No need to look for lost miners in there.

fingers outside of vagina.

I met a tantrica gal once (sadly now retired) who wanted me to massage the mound around her vagina.  She had the neatest unshaved vagina and her hair was like a silky steel wool; I got off on the tactileness of it.  I would knead the skin in one direction on one side, and the opposite direction on the other side, then alternate back and forth in a rhythm I would adjust to her liking.  In time I could see her juices flowing and within a few minutes she came to an O with a nice big squirt.

It was an erotic multi-media sight to behold

digital manipulation. Pressure on my Gspot with oral stimulation achieves a more intense orgasms for me than oral alone. This wasn't always the case for me, and I'm not even sure when it changed. In my twenties though I really disliked it, and then one day it was like, oh wait.....that feels great!

Just go with the flow, since it doesn't work for everyone, and sometimes what feels great one day, doesn't the next. Just realize that it's likely not anything that you are doing, it's most likely personal preference

I'm not into it but once I asked a provider to direct my finger to her G-spot. She obliged and seem to enjoy it. I haven't done it since. I prefer DATY

my nails during the session when I discovered a hang nail. I would not like it if she scratched me why should she like it if I scratched her. Leave no marks please.

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In my experience, women's opinions on this might be more varied than any other sex act.

Some women HATE it.  Some women LOVE it and just about demand it.  Others ... they can take it or leave it. Hell, I know some women that really don't care for it at times, then on a different occasion they whisper that they want, almost need it.

Hell, I ask before assuming and then do whatever they say in this regard.  It works out better for both of us.

a finger can be a turn off because most men are so rough down there with there hands ! its not like jacking off .

There are about 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris glans, double the nerve endings as men have at the head of the penis