I believe everyone has certain expectations when booking a provider. After reading their fantasy reviews maybe you expect GFE services. Understand that the golden rule here is YMMV = your mileage may vary.

Realize that if you're not practicing self-care providers are never expected to DFK, DATY, or anything else that makes them feel uncomfortable. If you're not investing in yourself before the date by manscaping, getting a manicure, pedicure, haircut, or caring about your appearance FIV is not going to happen if your nails are not trimmed. Cleanliness is essential. Visit a dentist on a regular basis & use the mouthwash before anything.

If you're inviting a woman over to your private residence to spend the night hire a cleaning service, or your fantasy of showering together may never happen if you have visible mold. It's not attractive to feel dirty using the bathroom. I feel sad that I have to share these things because it's not common knowledge, or courtesy.  Book a hotel if it's an issue.  

As a professional provider I expect you to practice self-care if you desire having all of your fantasies fulfilled. I would never arrive on any date if I did not look good and feel great. If you're sick, or have a cold please cancel. Thank you.

While I get the general idea, this reads like a rather privileged post. A manicure, pedicure and manscaping, and hire a cleaning service?!?!? None of this is necessary. I regularly clip and file my own nails, both fingers and toes. I shave my junk area every week, and always freshly the morning before a booking. I am more than capable of keeping my house clean, though I never would have a provider over to my personal residence. If I am booking an outcall, it's because I am staying at a hotel. And, I keep my room well kept. I don't think anyone capable of addressing the important part of this needs to be told how to do it. It should not matter whether someone is hired or if it's self managed. In the end, as long as the person and the place is well kept, how it got there is not of any significance.